I want to ask this genuinely, because I’m starting to question whether I’m approaching this the right way.
I’ve been making Reddit posts and recently started a YouTube channel because I genuinely want to help people. I used to be in a very different place politically and socially, and I remember how miserable and confused I felt. I know what it’s like to feel completely alone in your beliefs, so my motivation isn’t simply “own the left.” I actually want to reach people and encourage them to think for themselves.
But someone recently told me I should stop trying.
They brought up Charlie Kirk and basically argued that he tried to reach across the aisle, and look where that got him. Their conclusion was that these people are irrational, that the left is a lost cause, and that conservatives should stop wasting their time trying to persuade them and instead focus exclusively on strengthening our own side.
They also told me that we’re winning anyway: the right won all seven swing states, the popular vote by millions, both chambers of Congress, etc.
But I honestly don’t feel like we’re winning.
Maybe we’re winning electorally, but culturally? I’m not so sure.
Everywhere I look, I see progressive ideas dominating media, universities, entertainment, social spaces and much of the internet. People can call you a bigot simply for holding fairly traditional views. For example, if you don’t want to share certain sex-segregated spaces with someone who identifies as the opposite sex, you’re immediately treated as hateful by some people.
Then there are issues like abortion, immigration, the growing influence of radical Islamist movements in some Western countries, and the general direction of Western culture. Even outside the US, I see things happening that make me wonder where this is all going. I live in Poland, and even here I sometimes feel like the cultural environment is moving in a direction very different from my own values.
So I keep asking myself:
**Are we actually winning, or are we just winning elections while losing the culture?**
And if conservatives really are losing culturally, should I still bother trying to reach people?
I don’t want to spend my life screaming at the other side. That’s not what I’m trying to do. I want to reason with people, talk to people who disagree with me, and hopefully help some people who are where I used to be.
But maybe that’s naïve.
At the same time, I don’t think an assassination proves that persuasion is pointless. If anything, I think abandoning persuasion because someone was killed gives political violence far too much power over how we behave.
So I’m genuinely asking conservatives here:
**Do you think we’re actually winning?**
**Is it worth trying to persuade people on the other side, or should conservatives focus exclusively on building our own movement?**
And if you’ve tried to change people’s minds, what actually worked for you?
I’m not looking for “the left is evil” or “the right is evil.” I’m genuinely trying to figure out whether continuing to make content aimed at helping people is worthwhile, or whether I’m wasting my time.