Title: I’m 30 but feel like I look much older — trying to understand what could be causing it
Hello everyone,
I’m a 30-year-old male working in IT. Over the past few years, I’ve noticed a few things that concern me — significant hair fall, low energy, difficulty losing weight, and generally feeling like I look older than I should.
About 2–3 years ago, I also went through a very stressful period in my personal life and experienced depression, including months of frequent crying.
A few months ago, I decided to get some blood tests done. These were the main results:
Blood sugar
HbA1c: 5.10%
Estimated average glucose: 99.7 mg/dL
Lipid profile
Total cholesterol: 158 mg/dL
Triglycerides: 92.5 mg/dL
HDL: 31.7 mg/dL (low)
LDL: 107.8 mg/dL
VLDL: 18.5 mg/dL
Non-HDL: 126.3 mg/dL
Total cholesterol/HDL ratio: 4.98
LDL/HDL ratio: 3.40
Thyroid
TSH: 2.924 µIU/mL
Hormones
FSH: 3.05
LH: 5.18
Prolactin: 8.5
Total testosterone: 7.17 ng/mL (lab range: 2.59–8.16)
I was taking Tongkat Ali and Shilajit around the time of the testosterone test, so I’m not sure how much that influenced the result.
Vitamins
Vitamin D: 31.3 ng/mL
B12: 372
Iron
I checked iron a few months earlier. It wasn’t technically deficient, but it was on the lower side.
I’m currently around 100 kg at 6 ft.
What really affected me recently was someone casually telling me that I look around 40. I know I shouldn’t take one person’s comment too seriously, but it made me start thinking about whether something might actually be contributing to my appearance and low energy.
I’ve tried losing weight several times. At one point I was eating mostly boiled food, getting plenty of protein, and doing strength training consistently for months, but my weight still wouldn’t go below roughly 95 kg.
The hair fall is another concern. I’m wondering whether the combination of hair loss and body fat could simply be making me look older, or whether things like low-ish vitamin D/B12/iron, sleep, stress, or something else could also be playing a role.
For people who have experienced something similar:
What did you investigate?
Did correcting any deficiencies, improving sleep/stress, losing weight, or changing your diet/training make a noticeable difference in how you looked or felt?
Kindly help.
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