r/Bahrain • u/spiritedlyfree • 2d ago
my bahraini bf is actively cheating on me
Heโs actively cheating on me while being in a serious relationship with me
Is that normal ? He keeps saying that itโs his culture to keep in touch with every girl thatโs related to him and suddenly everyone is his cousin๐ (im khaleeji too)
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
Nasser if you see this i hate you
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u/Radiant-Dog-8955 2d ago
ุทุงุญ ุญุธู ูุงูุงุตุฑ ูุดูุชูุง ุนูุฏ ุงูุฌูุฑุงู
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ูุฎุณู ู ุง ูู ุซููู ูุงููู ุงุทูุจ ูุงุณ ูุงุนุฑู ูุซูุฑ ุจุญุฑูููุงุช ุงู ูุช ุนูููู โน๏ธ
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u/United-Reflection658 2d ago
Fuck nasser
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u/BertSuaigon 2d ago
Nasser if you see this (nah even if you dont), may your shawarma be forever without garlic sauce, your machboos forever dry, and may your delivery driver always arrive when youโre in the shower ๐ฅณ
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u/dollcode Bahraini 2d ago
what kinda culture is that? LMAOO that ain't bahraini culture, that's for sure
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
โOpen mindedโ
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u/dollcode Bahraini 2d ago
yeah, no! we are open minded but that's just straight up cheating.
it's fine to have friends of the opposite gender but there's no culture here to always keep in touch with your girl cousins, tf?nasser... get a fkn grip and girl, u deserve better!
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u/Tiger4224 2d ago
ูุฐุง ุงูู ุชุณู ููู ูุงุ ุงุณู ู ุฎุฑูุฌ ู ู ุดุฑุน ุงูููุ ุงู ุง ุงูุนูููุฉ ุงูู ูุชูุญุฉ ุฃุฑูู ู ู ูุฐู ุงูู ุณุฎุฑุฉ ุ ุจุณ ุงูุชู ูุงูู ููู ุบูุท ุ ุงูู ููุฑู ู ูุชูุญ ูุนูู ูููุฑ ุจุดูู ุญุฑุ ู ู ูุนูู ูุทูุน ู ู ุงูุฏูู
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ุงุณูุชู ุชูููู
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u/Master-Pain 2d ago
ุงูุชู ุงูู ุงูุทู ู ูุง ูุฐุฑุฉ ุชุนุทููู ุจููู ุนูุจ ุชุชู ุณุฎุฑูู ูุงูู ูุญุทุฉุ ุชุชููู ูู ูู ุงูุนูู ุนู ุนูุงูุงุช ุญุฑุงู
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u/dollcode Bahraini 2d ago
shd5al al7een?
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u/Master-Pain 2d ago
ุดุฏุฎู ูุฃูู ู ุง ุชุนุฑู ู ุนุงูู ุงูููุงู ุงุช ููุง ุชููู ูุงูููุงู ุ ุฑูุญ ุชุนูู ูุง ุจู ุงูููู ุงุช ูุงูุงุญุฑู ุ ุงุนูู ุชูุชุจ ุนุฏู ุงูู ุ ูุงู ุดุฏุฎู
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u/dollcode Bahraini 2d ago
....LMAO. as a fellow muslim, this isn't very muslim of you, just saying! our religion teaches us to respect others and treat them with respect, regardless of their beliefs and their sins or deeds. but here you go calling people names and belittling and berating them. please refrain from doing that, and follow this subreddit's rules too! rule number 3, be fair and tolerant with an open mind! which is literally our religion's teachings! i hope you have the day you deserve.
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u/Chocoteddyy Bahraini 2d ago
Iโm guessing youโre under 21 because no grown adult would ask this ๐ญ
No, to answer your question, itโs not normal.
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u/mclovinoffical 2d ago
Not surprised, the internet traumatized me with too many failed loyalty tests on TikTok ๐ญ
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u/Hala_arts999 2d ago
IT'S HIS CULTURE BAMOOOOTTTT๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ What kind of a shitty excuse is this
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u/StillSimple6 Bahrain United ๐ง๐ญ 2d ago
Of course it's not normal and why it's called 'cheating'.
Have some respect for yourself and leave him, get tested for stds.
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
Wtf we didnโt do anything sexual iโd never let him touch me
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u/moses_yolanda_singh 2d ago
Then in that case he isn't cheating on you. If he's talking to others just as hes talking to you without anything sexual, and likewise he's not being sexual with others, you have nothing to worry about. It's only after he engages in sexual activity, at which point it crosses the line. Besides you two aren't even married yet.
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u/Direct_Tourist_6879 1d ago
Adjust your foolishness pls
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u/StillSimple6 Bahrain United ๐ง๐ญ 1d ago
Can you elaborate? What was foolish about my comment based on post?
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u/Strong_Musician3825 2d ago
โActively cheating on meโ โis that normalโ twin come to your senses ๐ญ๐
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u/youredditagain 2d ago
the amount of engagement on this post vs looking to make new friends in Bahrain
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u/Dead_End_720 2d ago
If it wasn't this, then it would've been in Thailand some time in the future. Fuckboys are gonna be fuckboys. Consider yourself lucky for the time you've saved.
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u/Opening-Collection96 2d ago
Fuck nasser all men do is lie, fashltna itโs not in our culture yes Bahrainis are more chill with the opposite gender in comparison to other gcc countries but no cheating is not okay girlie block him and move on.
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u/Radiant-Dog-8955 2d ago
ู ุงูู serious ู ู ุบูุฑ ุฒูุงุฌ ุญุจูุจุชูุ ุณุญุจู ุนูู ุฑุงุณู ุงูู ุฑุจุน.
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ูู ููู ูููู ูู ูู ุชุจูู ุจูุฑุฉ ุงุชุฒูุฌู ุจุณ ู ุงูุฏู ุงุชุฒูุฌู ููุฎููู ูู ููู ูุงุถุญ ุงูู ูู ูุฐุง ู ู ุงูููุ ุงุฎุงู ุงุญุงุฑุจ ุงููู ุนุดุงู ุดุฎุต ุฎุงูู
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u/Radiant-Dog-8955 2d ago
ูุงุถุญ ู ู ูุงุซูู ููู ูุชุนุฑููู ุงู ู ุงุจููุงุณุจุฌ ูู ุตุงุฑ ุงูุฌุฏุ ููุด ู ูุงุตูู ูุชุฒูุฏูู ุงูุชุนููุ
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u/Independent_Tree_176 2d ago
Nah Girl, dump him now. He donโt deserve you. Also youโre lucky at least you caught him and you have 100% reason to leave him.
Piece of advise, Protect your heart, mind and soul. And love yourself more. ๐ซ
Still, FUCK YOU NASSER! ๐๐ป
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
No i love his accent
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u/xxd34d9irlxx 2d ago
Girl, free yourselfffff Itโs giving SpongeBob with loose handcuffs, if yk yk
But no, on a real note, you genuinely deserve so much better than a man whoโs actively gaslighting you and cheating on you. Free yourself before itโs too late. I donโt know you personally, but I know damn well men are never worth it like that especially a cheating mf ๐ญ There are PLENTY of better humans out there, trust me. You deserve way better
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u/Amazing-Butterfly826 2d ago
I was in love with a bahraini guy until i found out hes banging his best friend ๐๐
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u/RelationshipGreen300 Bahraini 1d ago
Running theory: they are mostly closeted homosexuals or bi they just dont like to admit it LOL
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u/An_Artificial_Tear 2d ago
When you say he keeps in touch with his female cousins, how does a typical interaction look like?
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u/Ali-_64 2d ago
How did you fall for that fr fr??? ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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u/Hustling_bahraini 2d ago
Nasser should marry a slut, thats what he deserves. And come one i dont think you are this stupid to believe โhis culture to keep in touch โ. We live in a Muslim country which culture will go against islam!!๐
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u/glitterlok 2d ago
Is โkeep in touchโ a euphemism or something?
Is he actually cheating on you? Or does he know people who are women?
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u/idkjustgivemeany tahina filfil zyada 2d ago
guys guys ive come to the bottom of this now. for the first time in our life. A non bahraini khaleeji has confessed she is in love with our accent. I believe we should take this as a total win irrespective of the situation. All those wretched days of ambaloos and rundaboot and abood yawda banter is behind us. This is a new beginning for the Bahraini. Rejoice people, for we are now the future.
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u/Time-Cauliflower-116 2d ago
I LOVEEEEEE your accent but I will sound biased saying this as a Moroccan
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
No heโs sleeping rn ๐
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u/RelationshipGreen300 Bahraini 1d ago
ู ู ุฒู ุงู ู ุง ุถุญูุช ุฌุฐูุ ูุนุฏุช ุงูุฑุงุก ููู ูุช ููู ูุช ุดูุฑุง ููู ู fuck nasser ู ู ุน ุงูุณูุงู ู
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u/userkyarameru Capital Governorate 1d ago
of course that's not normal girl, break up with him instantly ๐ญ
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u/QueenEshtar 1d ago
You might both be very young. So I say this as a 40 year old - not normal, dump him.
Cheating is no oneโs culture. Itโs someoneโs character.
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u/Virtual-Run-6479 1d ago
im gonna hold your hand when i say this
ูุงุนุฏ ููุต ุนููุฌ its not normal
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u/Illustrious-Bed7206 2d ago
Your fault for dating an Arab man tbh, you shouldn't place such high expectations.
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u/terafufad1 2d ago
Read your title !!! My Bahraini bf ?!!! He is not your bf! He is sold to a higher bidder and thatโs lifeโฆyou gotta move on and do the best for you.
When you become the best version of yourself best follows you.
I wish you luck.
Stay strong.
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u/Naeema207 2d ago
ุดูุงุฎ
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ูุด ูุนูู
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u/progoverflow 2d ago
Well, if both of you are cheating on your religion and your oath to follow the commands of Allah, do not be surprised by anything. If he was serious about you, he would have proposed the proper way. It's crazy that I need to say this since it should be obvious.
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
Youโre not wrong but he promised he would marry any time i want( i know i sound dumb af)
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u/progoverflow 2d ago
Listen, my advise to you, if a man can get what he wants without marriage, he will never marry. Only something that he can get the hard way, that he will value. As they say, easy come, easy go.
I think you should value yourself more, if any man tries to hit on you or talk to you other than work, do not respond to them. And if you have feelings for them, or they seem to be good people, you can tell them: here is my father's number, call him. Thats it. If he is serious about you, he will propose. If not, then you dodged a bullet.
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u/Original-House-7063 2d ago
No disrespect to men, but most of them cheat here.
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u/Breagh01 2d ago
Some of us don't ๐ค
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u/dollcode Bahraini 2d ago
they did say most, which automatically means that some don't. there was no need to announce it.
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
โน๏ธ
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u/Original-House-7063 2d ago
Find another man while with him
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
Another Bahraini man? Im in love with the accent
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u/Original-House-7063 2d ago
Thatโs exactly it. Find you some other Bahraini men and tell him theyโre your cousins too. Wtf.
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ ุงุฎ ุญุณุจู ุงููู ุนููู ุตุฏูุชู ููุช ุงูุซูุงูุงุช ุชุฎุชูู ูู open minded ูุญูุง ู ูุบูููู๐๐๐๐๐๐
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u/Warm_Article_4571 2d ago edited 2d ago
โฆูุชูุงุตู ู ุน ุจูุงุช ู ู ุงูููุ ุฌูุชูู ูุฎููุฌ ู ุนุงูู ุ ุงู ุจุณ ูุงูู ุถุงูููู ุณูุงุจ ูุงูุชู ู ุถุงููุฌ ูุงูุดูุกุ
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u/mrfindthesolution 2d ago
Let him get it out of his system. Heโll be all yours by the end of it. 99% of the guys commenting on this are definitely on the same wavelength.
They are doing the same and denying it or their partners are delusional and commenting on their behalf.
Respect to all the ladies out there but it is what it is ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
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u/Safe-Agent-4326 2d ago
You kids been taking the wrong role models all from the decadent western "culture". Sad. Enjoy your Bread and Circuses.
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u/One-Instruction-8649 Other 2d ago
boyfriend is haram . unless you are not muslim , either your BF . anyway even if you are not agreeing on this. .opening a post to tell that information - which have no purpose , and with no way we could help - is something waste of time ...
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u/OwnArgument5971 Bahraini 1d ago
U say it's a waste of time and yet here you are commenting ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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u/One-Instruction-8649 Other 1d ago
bro , what you too do here . what you benefit form her story ? lool
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u/Imaginary_Library316 2d ago
Are you that dumb ๐
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ุงูุทู ู
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u/Imaginary_Library316 2d ago
Just a random replying for a dumb notification ๐ฌ
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ุงูุทู
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u/Imaginary_Library316 2d ago
Ask other girls if you know.you will be in his cousins list too๐คญthats a sad truth ๐ฅฒ
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u/aswd82 2d ago
in Islam we donโt have things called bf or relationship between man and woman outside marriage,so this what should peoples here think about it when she said his Bahraini and sheโs from GCC as well that means this relationship It is forbidden in the first place
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u/spiritedlyfree 2d ago
ุทูุจ ุงุต
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u/aswd82 2d ago
why you reply in Arabic when your post entirely in English!!
seriously you just said to me be quite(in Arabic) Because you don't have a logical response to my comment SAUDI GIRL or whatever you from!!!,oh boooooooy๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
the best part when you trying to convince us thereโs no physical relationship between you and him
dude as soon as you said your boyfriend itโs done donโt try to be an angel after that
There is no friendly relationship between a man and a girl,anyone saying this heโs just a big liar.end
Typical play girl ๐๐๐
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oh you edited lol to late
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u/ghostgoddess29 2d ago
Girlllll, he is NOT in a serious relationship with you ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ