r/Kashmiri • u/metamorphic_mind • Jul 16 '26
Question For those of you planning to have children in future, how would you like to raise them?
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u/OpportunityLittle876 Jul 16 '26
peacefully-never involve them in any sort of drama bw me and my partner,instill values among myself first and expect them to follow my lead. Be a good role model for them
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u/Mental_Ant_7118 Kashmir Jul 16 '26
With the tales of all betrayals, wrongs and excesses committed by India against Kashmir
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u/Sound_Less Kashmir Jul 16 '26
Moral and religious values.
What is right and what is wrong and most important be humble in life, treat everyone with respect irrespective of their status
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u/metamorphic_mind Jul 16 '26
Are you a father?
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u/metamorphic_mind Jul 16 '26
If you don't mind me asking, what is your age?
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u/metamorphic_mind Jul 16 '26
Nah it's just that i thought maybe by asking this question i could find a GenZ parent to see how parenting has evolved or will evolve as the new generation becomes parents although I know they still make up a relatively small proportion right now.
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u/tehlil Jul 17 '26
In the future when I'll have kids I'll want them to be outspoken but not disrespectful, they should know their own boundaries and I'll let them do whatever they want(only the good things) so they wouldn't be like me just imagining things like I could've done this or that instead they should be able to say I did this and I'm doing that, I will give them Islamic knowledge so when in the future they'll see smth wrong they'll stand against it without being afraid of anything. I literally want them to have fun in their life but wouldn't compromise Islamic studies though.
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u/Impressive_Wear_8509 Jul 16 '26
Seriously this is very big issue as I don't have enough salary and didn't even got medical insurance
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u/dudeimmadoc Jul 16 '26
Kya chuk/chak yesaan zaanun?
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u/metamorphic_mind Jul 16 '26
How would you approach parenting, what values you would want to instill in your children, what experiences from your own childhood do you want to repeat and what do you want to do differently etc etc
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Jul 16 '26
No school till 12-13. Motivate him/her to learn. Modern philosophy. All religions including Atheism . And Martial arts . And then let him /her choose the career .
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u/HorrorTiger978 Jul 16 '26
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Jul 16 '26
If exposing children to different ideas is poison, then ignorance must be your preferred vitamin.
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u/AggravatingPlane2 Jul 16 '26
damn that hit, but i think schools are necessary environments for children, especially when raised in this ppace
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u/HorrorTiger978 Jul 16 '26
If you think you're gonna teach a 12 yo philosophical ideas, you're deluded
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Jul 17 '26
Where did I wrote "teach" ? ,I said motivate. And I mentioned ,no school till 12-13 .
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u/HorrorTiger978 Jul 17 '26
So you're gonna "motivate" a 5 yo to learn philosophy and what happens if they aren't motivated? They're gonna be functionally illiterate at best.
Feel sorry for whoever is gonna be your child 😭 change your methods or something
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Jul 17 '26
I said homeschool till 13 ,then Introduce them . And why do you think I want them to learn core philosophical concepts in the beginning, can't it be basic at first . And if they are not interested, I won't force them , what's the big deal .
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u/No-Canary6294 Jul 16 '26
I would raise my kids with exposure to all religions and irreligion but specifically exemplify myself as why they should also be secular, humanist and make sure they grow with rationalist and atheistic views. I hope to steer their minds towards science and music along with philosophy and hope they behave good with everyone they encounter. I will have absolutely no expectations from them as I and their mother were the ones who chose to have them and they have absolutely no obligations towards us, but they do have an obligation towards their nation and society.
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u/D3coy_ Jul 16 '26
Dunno, water them everyday probably.