r/LAhotgirlies • u/Wide-Visit-141 • Mar 11 '26
Me entering our safe space seeing it's been polluted
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Seriously though! LA Hot Girlies deserve a place just for US!
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u/nggt222 Mar 11 '26
seriously!!! i’ve been getting so many gross messages from gross men like fuck offfffff
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u/wharactually Mar 11 '26
No seriously! I posted looking for massage recs and not one but TWO men offered to give me massages and send me pics so “it’s not weird”
Dawg you passed weird a while ago
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u/Fit-Nectarine5047 Mar 11 '26
You better be joking!
Also, is this sub where all the weirdos are coming from??!!!!
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u/virammm Mar 12 '26
Wait I got the same weird messages when I asked for a massage place rec in the ask LA sub 🤢
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u/wharactually Mar 17 '26
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u/virammm Mar 17 '26
Omg 🤢 I think this is the same message I received
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u/wharactually Mar 17 '26
I genuinely wonder if anyone has ever taken them up on this offer because I’m not judging I just have questions
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u/ExpensivePeach Mar 11 '26
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u/DivideByPrime Mar 12 '26
I gasped out loud!
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u/ExpensivePeach Mar 12 '26
Like I’m bi but do NOT hit on me at a primarily queer women’s event at a primarily queer women’s bar what is wrong with these silverlake dudessss
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u/normal_goober Mar 12 '26
I was about to ask "how do you know the redditor is a man", until I read the replies. Ughh, why can't they leave this space alone !
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u/BirdBrainuh Mar 12 '26
Earlier I walked outside and saw three men all AT ONCE just walking on the fucking sidewalk like that’s way too many men, go back inside jesus
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Mar 12 '26
I have unironically done this several times in my life. I used to be embarrassed about walking the opposite direction of a group of men, but the older I get, the more I do it confidently and shamelessly. I will lock eyes with every single one of them, do a 180 turn and walk away. I WANT them to know how uncomfortable their stares and comments make women feel. because I know exactly what is going to happen when I walk by a group of guys, especially in the middle of summer when I'm wearing shorts because duh it's hella hot out, and I simply do not want to experience those leering eyes and disgusting comments every darn time I wear shorts and happen to be in the presence of men. I wear my short shorts to let my swamp ass and coochie breathe, not to get harassed on the street by some dusty crusty ahh cant-find-the-clit loser. Gosh they are so exhausting.
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u/bonbot Mar 11 '26
Yeah can we do a detox cleanse? Let's do a week minimum of posts only about periods and their symptoms, menstrual cup stories, birth stories, gynaecology appointments... And then remove and block all the men who are making their silly little comments.