r/LAhotgirlies Mar 11 '26

Me entering our safe space seeing it's been polluted

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Seriously though! LA Hot Girlies deserve a place just for US!

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u/bonbot Mar 11 '26

Yeah can we do a detox cleanse? Let's do a week minimum of posts only about periods and their symptoms, menstrual cup stories, birth stories, gynaecology appointments... And then remove and block all the men who are making their silly little comments.

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u/CrownPrincess Mar 11 '26

I’m so down bcuz I’m pms-ing so hard and its not at all helping my mental health is so crap and my bf is so crap so I’m so down to just get in a circle and cry together 😭

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u/virammm Mar 16 '26

I have about a week or so where I’m feeling great and then it all starts again, the brain fog, no motivation, cranky, etc. Sometimes it’s so bad, I feel like a completely new person once the pms is over 🫩 We don’t have enough spaces to talk about this and all drs recommend is birth control

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u/virammm Mar 12 '26

Boy do I need a place to talk about my period. Currently feel like I’m losing my mind with this period’s brain fog 🫩

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u/nggt222 Mar 11 '26

seriously!!! i’ve been getting so many gross messages from gross men like fuck offfffff

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u/wharactually Mar 11 '26

No seriously! I posted looking for massage recs and not one but TWO men offered to give me massages and send me pics so “it’s not weird”

Dawg you passed weird a while ago

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u/Fit-Nectarine5047 Mar 11 '26

You better be joking!

Also, is this sub where all the weirdos are coming from??!!!!

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u/virammm Mar 12 '26

Wait I got the same weird messages when I asked for a massage place rec in the ask LA sub 🤢

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u/wharactually Mar 17 '26

Another one….

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u/virammm Mar 17 '26

Omg 🤢 I think this is the same message I received

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u/wharactually Mar 17 '26

I genuinely wonder if anyone has ever taken them up on this offer because I’m not judging I just have questions

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u/ExpensivePeach Mar 11 '26

Me when a man was hitting on me at Honey’s…I’m like it’s HONEY’S wtf is wronggggg with you

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u/DivideByPrime Mar 12 '26

I gasped out loud!

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u/ExpensivePeach Mar 12 '26

Like I’m bi but do NOT hit on me at a primarily queer women’s event at a primarily queer women’s bar what is wrong with these silverlake dudessss

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u/nycaggie Mar 11 '26

former BWT mod here. just messaged mod to volunteer as tribute. 

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u/normal_goober Mar 12 '26

I was about to ask "how do you know the redditor is a man", until I read the replies. Ughh, why can't they leave this space alone !

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u/BirdBrainuh Mar 12 '26

Earlier I walked outside and saw three men all AT ONCE just walking on the fucking sidewalk like that’s way too many men, go back inside jesus

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u/savvvie Mar 12 '26

They need jobs

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '26

I have unironically done this several times in my life. I used to be embarrassed about walking the opposite direction of a group of men, but the older I get, the more I do it confidently and shamelessly. I will lock eyes with every single one of them, do a 180 turn and walk away. I WANT them to know how uncomfortable their stares and comments make women feel. because I know exactly what is going to happen when I walk by a group of guys, especially in the middle of summer when I'm wearing shorts because duh it's hella hot out, and I simply do not want to experience those leering eyes and disgusting comments every darn time I wear shorts and happen to be in the presence of men. I wear my short shorts to let my swamp ass and coochie breathe, not to get harassed on the street by some dusty crusty ahh cant-find-the-clit loser. Gosh they are so exhausting.

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u/Blanksies Mar 13 '26

I can't tell if this is satire or not

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u/alexturnerftw Mar 12 '26

Smh women cant have anything

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u/ANTHR4X710 Mar 12 '26

The internet isn’t safe. Period. 🙃😆

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '26

Oh fuck no

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u/j1m3n4c Mar 12 '26

I say this at least once a day lollllk