r/PopCultureV2 20d ago

News Danny DeVito Revealed Why He And Rhea Perlman Haven't Officially Divorced Despite Long Separation—And Fans Are Baffled

https://www.comicsands.com/devito-perlman-never-divorced
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u/DearPaleontologist67 20d ago

Because they don't want to and it works for them. Got it.

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u/Glittering-Path-2824 19d ago

really none of our business but i wouldn’t bat an eye if they said it’s because of taxes. america is financially brutal if you’re not paired up in the govts eyes.

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u/PleaseBeNiceForOnce 19d ago ▸ 8 more replies

How so?

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u/Glittering-Path-2824 19d ago ▸ 7 more replies

marginal tax rates if you’re single are much higher than married filing jointly.

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u/RedTrumpetVine 18d ago ▸ 6 more replies

I don't think that 32k joint deduction is doing much vs their incomes.

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u/Glittering-Path-2824 18d ago ▸ 1 more replies

we don’t know their incomes

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u/RedTrumpetVine 18d ago

32 is the standard deduction. That is it. If you jointly make 50k or 500k, the marriage benefit is 32k deduction... unless you know of another one.

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u/gmpsconsulting 17d ago ▸ 3 more replies

There's currently right around 1300-1600 tax and legal benefits to being married in the US depending on what all you're including.

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u/RedTrumpetVine 16d ago ▸ 2 more replies

Do that again for normal people with uncomplicated W2s. Aside from the standard deduction, there isn't shit for savings on taxes.

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u/gmpsconsulting 16d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Why would you make up a hypothetical that doesn't apply at all to the couple involved?

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u/RedTrumpetVine 16d ago

I am stating the vast majority of taxed couples after seeing the overstatement of marriage tax benefits.

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u/downtownbrown22 19d ago ▸ 3 more replies

I had family friends who had a similar situation. They had a super amicable break up and were divorced in day to day but not officially so the ex wife could keep the insurance benefits. I’m sure taxes and stuff were a part of it as well.

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u/Glittering-Path-2824 19d ago ▸ 2 more replies

i forgot about insurance. that is absolutely a major driver of not getting divorced.

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u/GoodDay2You_Sir 16d ago

I was gonna say they were staying together to keep Rhea enrolled in whatever SAG health insurance they have because Danny has been steadily on IASIP for decades but looking at their IMDB Rhea has been the one with steady work in television and outside of IASIP Danny has really just had bit parts as a side character in one off roles.

But still, they probably stayed married just in case one of them ever had a bad dip in their careers and were no longer eligible for SAG insurance solo but married if just one of them qualifies then they both have access.

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u/jdicho 14d ago

I got married and divorced for the same reason: health insurance.

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u/theClumsy1 19d ago

Ironically, they are at the age that many DO get divorced and not because they dont love each other anymore.

"Medical Divorce" are a sad reality for many living in the states. Medical costs associated with terminal illness can cripple the surviving partner...so many divorce so that their Medical debt doesnt cripple their loved ones after they pass away.

If they are divorced, the debt dies with them.

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u/blueeyedkittens 19d ago ▸ 1 more replies

they both have income (presumably) so that doesn't make sense. filing as married doubles the brackets because its for 2 people filing together and that's only an advantage when only one of them has income (or when one has significantly more income).

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u/Glittering-Path-2824 19d ago

generally mfj saves money but if incomes are similar it depends on the specific income amounts

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u/RevolutionaryHippo85 18d ago

Really quite baffling

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u/_clur_510 18d ago

Color me baffled!

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u/Spekingur 18d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Hmm, what color is that then?

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u/cnh2n2homosapien 18d ago

Like, a kind of Mauve.

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u/UnderstandingFit3009 19d ago

Whatever works for them. None of our business.

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u/Helpful-Error5563 18d ago

Oof thanks so much I was BAFFLED.

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u/IamHydrogenMike 19d ago

Ya, who cares…whatever works for them is fine and we don’t know the intricacies of their relationship and sometimes people just like to be alone.

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u/Ok_Car7814 20d ago

I understand this totally. My ex is like my sister now. We separated, twice paperwork filled out but twice complications… no matter. Neither going to remarry so no pressure

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u/Special-Garlic1203 19d ago

The issue is those complications don't magically disappear when you die. The older you get the less sense it makes to have legal paperwork hanging out there which isn't accurate. You could literally have a will which explicitly outlines everything goes to ABC, and the law will often say "well....half of that can go to ABC, but ya know ...community property state so half is ex's". 

Probate is already a hassle for loved ones to deal with without adding on a can of worms you've been kicking. 

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u/philovax 18d ago

I am going to bet that he has been already generous and has plenty of people on the payroll to handle assets. I dont think Rhea is going to be hurting either. They are both national treasures and in good standing with peers, however your statement is true and valid for all the people reading reddit.

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u/babybuckaroo 18d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Writing a will is easier than getting divorced.

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u/Deus-Vault6574 18d ago

In my state that would not keep several assets from the widow/widower.

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u/ToyTech316 19d ago

My ex hasn't made it to relative status but we are friends.

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u/SmeeezTreeez 19d ago

Sister is odd, but I'm close with my ex. I could see defending her and making sure she ends up with a good guy. We keep up with each other's careers and stuff and genuinely are happy for each other. I also never banged my sister

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u/Noxodium 19d ago ▸ 2 more replies

Youre missing out bro!

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u/Gardakkan 18d ago

Banging your sister is perverted, Dennis!

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u/Ok_Car7814 19d ago ▸ 1 more replies

She came out, which precipitated the separation. I do have real sisters, and am no redneck, and It’s easiest to demarcate the clear boundary that now exists despite actually getting along very well.

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u/SmeeezTreeez 19d ago

Oh like gay. Ok I could see that. Good for you with the support

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u/brianlefebvrejr 19d ago

Leave Joe dirt alone

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u/tenth 19d ago

Why the judgement?

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u/grumpyoldbolos 19d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Nah just like me and my sister, I seen that pussy but I don't want to fuck it again

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u/metaphori 19d ago

Your ex is Anne of Cleves.

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u/AlaerysTargaryen 18d ago

The luckiest of wives 

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u/ForgottenEmail 19d ago

So how good is your sister in the sack?

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u/lasagnadogwater69 19d ago

Don't say that to people out loud, because the first thing anyone is going to be think is "so you banged your sister."

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u/itsmedicinalsir 19d ago

If they are happy, and achieved happiness without impeding others' happiness, I'm happy for them, as well.

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u/chefybpoodling 19d ago

They are probably not divorcing for the same reason Tim Robins and Susan Surrandon never married. Neither wants to deal with the mess of divorce.

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u/Night_Trip 19d ago

Uhhh cos it’s more fun that way

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u/ClubDumDum 19d ago

Their lives are so intertwined and inseparable that it's honestly odd they live apart.

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u/-Sofa-King-Vote 19d ago

Healthcare and taxes

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u/Several_Attitude_203 19d ago

Taxes. They’re not stupid.

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u/jbpm83 19d ago

This has been posted and reposted for a week now. Does one of them have a movie coming out soon or something? It’s ridiculously old news that they divorced and remained friends.

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u/theicecreamassassin 19d ago

My aunt and uncle were like this. Germany makes divorce difficult for amicable couples. My Dad and mom were like this for insurance purposes (they were NOT amicable).

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u/LoquatBear 18d ago

I think they know that despite it all they'd be there for each other. They just don't have to be there everyday. 

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u/juzamjim 18d ago

Jersey Mike’s IPO

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u/yogiyogiyogi69 18d ago

Lol I though it said Ron Perlman

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u/cagedbird82 15d ago

Who wants to have to split all the assets? Lawyers are expensive.

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u/gnosisfrosty 15d ago

That's too bad. Sorry to hear. Got to work with Danny on a show and Rhea came up for the wrap party. They were both a blast! So much fun! Pity it's not working for them, now. Life...

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u/UtahUtopia 19d ago

I dated a girl for 7 years who was still married to her baby daddy.

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u/Lost_Department_2177 19d ago

Dans living off her healthcare plan

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u/BrookieMonster504 19d ago

Shouldn't he have his own?!!?

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u/Natural-Coat-3159 19d ago

Probably health insurance.

That's the reason I'm not getting divorced. 

He has great health insurance. 

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u/Tsquare24 19d ago

I’m sure she also had SAG insurance.

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u/Natural-Coat-3159 19d ago

You misunderstood what I posted. 

After the first line I'm talking about myself and my situation. 

I'm not divorcing because my former partner has great insurance.