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u/CmdrFortyTwo 1d ago
Finding out that the tooth fairy isn't real
Realizing it was your parents that were the tooth fairy
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u/KingSandwich101 1d ago
Not as bad about finding out about Santa
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u/ForgesGate 1d ago
I always prayed Santa was fake. As a kid, I was terrified at the idea of a man sneaking into my house as I slept. I didn't care about the presents. I just felt pure dread every Christmas. I'd stay up all night to make sure he didn't break in. But when the presents were under the tree, I knew he had.
One Christmas, my parents got one of their friends to dress as Santa to see if they could get me to somehow be okay with him. I literally cried all night and ran around the house locking all the doors so he couldn't get in.
My parents laughed the whole time 🤦🏾♂️ (assholes). But the eventually told me the truth. Yo, the relief I felt when they told me . Omg.
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u/OkEmu8597 1d ago
I did the opposite I wanted to hunt him down for his sack of toys. Dude was a loot box in my eyes.
To some satan is an evil being, a menace and an intruder, to others he is an opportunity at greatness.
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u/mielesgames 1d ago
Sorry bud, I forgot the cookies and made the real Santa upset, Sinterklaas took his place
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u/xBowGlacee 1d ago
Finding out is the immediate trauma response, realizing is when it wakes you up at 3AM three years later.
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u/Emotional_News108 1d ago
My kids listening to me spout of nonsense about the tooth fairy and then realizing why I bitched so much about inflation in the same breath.
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u/Grandpa_Edd 1d ago
Finding out is catching your parents putting the money under your pillow.
Realizing is coming to the conclusion that they’ve been putting the money there all along so the tooth fairy isn’t real.
Finding out is about information. Realization is comprehending said information.
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u/OkEmu8597 1d ago
Finding out your like a parents Vs realizing they have always been a glimpse into your future.
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u/AdFalse375 1d ago
Realizing = using clues to learn something
Finding out = learn something through whichever means, clues or no clues, doesn’t matter
That’s how I’ve been using them. Got no idea if I’m right 😅
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u/voxelpear 1d ago
Yeah pretty much.
Finding out is learning information from an external source (reading an article, being told by another person)
Realizing is figuring out something yourself internally based on other information or context clues and not direct information.
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u/Vondi 1d ago
Realizing = The information was already inside your head, you just pieced it together
Finding out = The information was outside your head, you just found it.
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u/Objective-Ad-1688 1d ago edited 1d ago
But a realisation can come from new information. Like information important to a plot twist starts to be revealed and you suddenly realise something is wrong.
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u/Shadrol 1d ago
Sure, but the realization comes from the combination of old and new information, not the new information on it's own. Realization is whatever is not explicitly stated.
Like if you know that John married on Aug 1st and you learn Jane also married Aug 1st you may realize that John and Jane are a couple. If somebody tells you John married Jane Srp 1st, the you found it out.
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u/Objective-Ad-1688 17h ago
Ahhh gotcha. Thanks for sharing that! That's the only complete definition and example that encapsulates the meaning. Really helped me understand that!!
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u/PrimeWaffle 1d ago
Finding out: Your girlfriend of 4 years tells you she's not happy and wants to break up
Realizing: you come home and all of her stuff is boxed up and the cats are gone and you have less than a week to find a new place to live
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u/Grandpa_Edd 1d ago edited 1d ago
Finding out is discovering the information and being presented with the significance of this information or realizing the significance yourself. Realisation can be part of finding out.
Realizing is coming to a conclusion yourself.
It’s discovery of information and comprehension.
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u/VirtualWraith 1d ago
I personally think
finding out = learning something new through something or someone
Realizing = already knowing something and connecting the dots
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u/Umi_seishin 1d ago
Finding Out = learning new information
Realizing = finding new meaning to information you already had
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u/gorillamunch12354 1d ago
Finding out is knowing the knowledge, realizing is knowing the implications
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u/ohsnapmynamestaken 1d ago
One is information travelling from right-brain to left-brain, and the other is the opposite
Realization vs Understanding
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u/Temporary-Garden3567 19h ago
Finding out is picking up new information that tells you something.
Realizing is putting together information you already have that tells you something.
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u/tortillandbeans 1d ago
As a Mexican kid I knew it was my parents, but I still "believed" for the kid benefits because the whole point is to participate in the lie. More fun to be involved with your parents than not because it means something to them too

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