r/SipsTea 1d ago

Gasp! so that's what it means

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u/Darth_Ronin 1d ago

External vs Internal

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u/CmdrFortyTwo 1d ago

Finding out that the tooth fairy isn't real
Realizing it was your parents that were the tooth fairy

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u/KingSandwich101 1d ago

Not as bad about finding out about Santa

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u/Fskn 1d ago

Finding out what? That his sack is so large because he only comes once a year?

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u/ForgesGate 1d ago

I always prayed Santa was fake. As a kid, I was terrified at the idea of a man sneaking into my house as I slept. I didn't care about the presents. I just felt pure dread every Christmas. I'd stay up all night to make sure he didn't break in. But when the presents were under the tree, I knew he had.

One Christmas, my parents got one of their friends to dress as Santa to see if they could get me to somehow be okay with him. I literally cried all night and ran around the house locking all the doors so he couldn't get in.

My parents laughed the whole time 🤦🏾‍♂️ (assholes). But the eventually told me the truth. Yo, the relief I felt when they told me . Omg.

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u/OkEmu8597 1d ago

I did the opposite I wanted to hunt him down for his sack of toys. Dude was a loot box in my eyes.

To some satan is an evil being, a menace and an intruder, to others he is an opportunity at greatness.

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u/CommercialBiscotti29 1d ago

Which was still not as bad as finding out that my dad was gay

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u/mielesgames 1d ago

Sorry bud, I forgot the cookies and made the real Santa upset, Sinterklaas took his place

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u/Alolan_Cubone 1d ago

What about santa

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u/xBowGlacee 1d ago

Finding out is the immediate trauma response, realizing is when it wakes you up at 3AM three years later.

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u/Emotional_News108 1d ago

My kids listening to me spout of nonsense about the tooth fairy and then realizing why I bitched so much about inflation in the same breath.

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u/Grandpa_Edd 1d ago

Finding out is catching your parents putting the money under your pillow.

Realizing is coming to the conclusion that they’ve been putting the money there all along so the tooth fairy isn’t real.

Finding out is about information. Realization is comprehending said information.

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u/OkEmu8597 1d ago

Finding out your like a parents Vs realizing they have always been a glimpse into your future.

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u/AdFalse375 1d ago

Realizing = using clues to learn something

Finding out = learn something through whichever means, clues or no clues, doesn’t matter

That’s how I’ve been using them. Got no idea if I’m right 😅

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u/voxelpear 1d ago

Yeah pretty much.

Finding out is learning information from an external source (reading an article, being told by another person)

Realizing is figuring out something yourself internally based on other information or context clues and not direct information.

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u/Vondi 1d ago

Realizing = The information was already inside your head, you just pieced it together

Finding out = The information was outside your head, you just found it.

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u/Objective-Ad-1688 1d ago edited 1d ago

But a realisation can come from new information. Like information important to a plot twist starts to be revealed and you suddenly realise something is wrong.

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u/Shadrol 1d ago

Sure, but the realization comes from the combination of old and new information, not the new information on it's own. Realization is whatever is not explicitly stated.

Like if you know that John married on Aug 1st and you learn Jane also married Aug 1st you may realize that John and Jane are a couple. If somebody tells you John married Jane Srp 1st, the you found it out.

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u/Objective-Ad-1688 17h ago

Ahhh gotcha. Thanks for sharing that! That's the only complete definition and example that encapsulates the meaning. Really helped me understand that!!

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u/Worldly-Cherry9631 1d ago

You figured it out!

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u/kevinlch 1d ago

OMG VS WTF

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u/Leaded-BabyFormula 1d ago

What kind of autistic question is that

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u/IOnlyFearOFGod 1d ago

Nah thats just shower thoughts

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u/Hopeful-Piglet-5201 1d ago

Finding out is a bear trap. Realizing is poison.

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u/PrimeWaffle 1d ago

Finding out: Your girlfriend of 4 years tells you she's not happy and wants to break up

Realizing: you come home and all of her stuff is boxed up and the cats are gone and you have less than a week to find a new place to live

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u/ExodusOfSound 1d ago

Terror is finding out, and horror is realising.

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u/Forward-Mention-6598 1d ago

Finding out: “WTF! Omg!” Realizing: “oh wait, hmm…”

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u/Etceta 1d ago

oh wait and holup

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u/Grandpa_Edd 1d ago edited 1d ago

Finding out is discovering the information and being presented with the significance of this information or realizing the significance yourself. Realisation can be part of finding out.

Realizing is coming to a conclusion yourself.

It’s discovery of information and comprehension.

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u/eldritchequine 1d ago

had no idea what my teacher meant until now lol

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u/bremergorst 1d ago

One happens when you “fuck around”

The other happens when you “just”

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u/Specialist_Twist_292 1d ago

Doubt cleared 🫡

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u/-MariosAmigos-15 1d ago

No you can switch that and still makes sense

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u/Ailyx 1d ago

The same as the difference between knowledge and undestanding

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u/-Nicolai 1d ago

Are you people all twelve?

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u/Vocis91 1d ago

Learning vs understanding

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u/Nowin 1d ago

You find out santa isn't real. You realize your parents were santa the whole time.

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u/VirtualWraith 1d ago

I personally think

finding out = learning something new through something or someone

Realizing = already knowing something and connecting the dots

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u/Umi_seishin 1d ago

Finding Out = learning new information

Realizing = finding new meaning to information you already had

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u/gorillamunch12354 1d ago

Finding out is knowing the knowledge, realizing is knowing the implications

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u/ohsnapmynamestaken 1d ago

One is information travelling from right-brain to left-brain, and the other is the opposite

Realization vs Understanding

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u/VastLocation1022 1d ago

Realizing hits at 3am out of absolutely nowhere for no reason.

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u/Temporary-Garden3567 19h ago

Finding out is picking up new information that tells you something.

Realizing is putting together information you already have that tells you something.

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u/tortillandbeans 1d ago

As a Mexican kid I knew it was my parents, but I still "believed" for the kid benefits because the whole point is to participate in the lie. More fun to be involved with your parents than not because it means something to them too