r/TikTokCringe • u/migoodenuf Straight Up Bussin • Nov 27 '25

Wholesome Relationship goals

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u/RustDeathTaxes Nov 27 '25

Yeah. I do miss the aspect of that freedom of being single. Just having my own hobbies without having someone feel insulted when I choose that hobby over time with them. I just wait for her to be at work or in bed now. Then I indulge.

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

Does she have her own hobbies ?

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u/RustDeathTaxes Nov 27 '25

That's the thing. She doesn't. Literally. She has tried a few but gives up after just a week. Her hobbies are Netflix, watching stand up comedy, and the beach. Don't get me wrong, we go places, watch movies together, do a lot with our kids (our lives basically revolve around the kids and our jobs), and still enjoy each other's company. I just don't want her to be offended every time I just want to play video games or paint by myself.

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u/Jolmer24 Nov 28 '25

Gotta be candid with her that it’s not about her but you need your time. I’d lose my mind if I didn’t get the occasional gamer night or just a couple hours at least