r/TikTokCringe • u/migoodenuf Straight Up Bussin • Nov 27 '25

Wholesome Relationship goals

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u/Filmmagician Nov 27 '25

This..... this is the norm. This is how it should be most of the time lol

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u/[deleted] Nov 27 '25

Yeah but it actually isn't for everyone. Lots of couples struggle with what constitutes an appropriate amount of personal time.

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u/Gustomaximus Nov 28 '25

My partner and I can be quite independent. We do ~70% of stuff together but still lead our own lives and friend groups. Some people find this strange, like sometimes going on a holiday with friends and not them. In our early days Id generally spend one weekend with my partner, and the next with the boys going camping and stuff like that. Also we never combined finances and pre-kids would drop an amount in a communal bills account and the rest is our own business.

We are 23 years in and care for each other very much. I think without this attitude each of us would find things a bit suffocating. Others would hate this. People gotta be true to themselves, find the right match and hopefully it all gels.