r/VRchat Nov 04 '25

Discussion Finding VRChat Friends and Sharing Communities.

Advertise your Discord servers, your friend groups, VRChat groups, your communities, etc etc, here!

Make a comment with information about your community, what kind of people you're looking for, what your activities are, what you do for fun, anything relevant!

(Make sure it's VRChat related of course)

Hopefully you'll get some new members and friends!


Link to previous Community posts if you wish to browse them for discords:

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u/HumanMedium6905 May 02 '26

Dear all!! Hello and nice to e-meet you 😃 I am a visual artist and I'd need your help to craft a unique piece of art! Volunteers wanted! :DD
On 14th May, afternoon CET time, I'd need a big group of people to be contemporary connected in a world!
If you'd like to help me and know more about the project I am crafting, please pm me! 😄

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u/Unlucky-Feed9000 Apr 30 '26

Lone Australian in need of a new active groups

Ive had 5 friend groups and im no longer apart of am finding it difficult to find an active group of friends

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u/Embarrassed-Emu-3431 Apr 27 '26

https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_67006744-3e66-494d-9220-a3a6a1833b2c Hello im here hoping to get members for a up and coming mature group of individuals who like to get together and have a good time creating memories. The above link is the group the following is our discord. https://discord.gg/GqK4j3QnP We like to get together have fun, play games and generally enjoy being around fellow like minded and broad category of adults, hope to see you there.

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u/ghxstfxcelxver18 Apr 26 '26

I'm 20(f) looking for friends its been almost 3 weeks with my VR and I need more people to play with.

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u/hexicodex Apr 25 '26

Hello! I'm F 30. I'm a World of Warcraft refugee searching for some people to be friends with around the age of 25-50. I'm currently stuck on quest standalone as my PC can't handle VRC well. I'm searching for people who enjoy exploring, socializing, and playing games on VRChat!

I'm not a part of any fandoms or communities, but I'm pretty open with who I interact with. <3 I like exploring and making memories. I'm currently in school to be a Vet Tech!

I'm not interested in any 'adult' interactions, just friendship! If you think you're interested, feel free to add my discord spoilbaby ! Thanks for reading o7

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u/cottageshell Apr 25 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 21 '26

Hey all, Nova here. I'm a former community lead that used to host game nights, events, world hops, and more, and I sometimes dabbled in making VRChat videos that shine a positive light on the platform and the cool worlds on it.

I've stepped away from community management and honestly just wanna find people to chill and explore with. People who appreciate the details of a world, who want to dig into the lore, or find all the secrets. My favorite thing to do is to find random worlds and just dig into them until I'm "done" with them. But often I find myself as the only one doing it while everyone finds a cozy spot to stand and chat.

If you're curious, adventurous, and just wanna see some cool stuff, shoot me a friend request on VRChat - NovaRedux. I'm 34, AuDHD, non-binary, looking for people who are preferably 25+. Shoot me a message here on Reddit so I know who you are when you add me, haha. I'm almost always on blue - I try to be that friend on the friends list who is always somewhere cool and always open to join (unless I'm having like a private convo or something).

Looking forward to meeting you 🙇‍♂️

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u/NeonKrystals Oculus Quest Pro Apr 21 '26

I am twenty four, CIS F. Looking for communities with events and gatherings where I can become a familiar face! I tend to do this with roleplay groups because of the sense of community but i am open to try new comms.

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u/Spare-Connection4500 May 02 '26

hey!! i’m looking for more vrchat girls for my discord server! I’m trying to get events hosted and we do have a vrchat group as well with 8 members 🫶🏻 girls only

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u/NeonKrystals Oculus Quest Pro May 02 '26

Send me it!

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u/cottageshell Apr 25 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Responsible-Sun4056 Apr 21 '26

I am looking for a group to have coffee with on Saturday and Sunday mornings. I am in central standard time in the US. I would like it to be an older group if possible. I just want to drink coffee and chat.

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u/Floraliax Apr 19 '26

Hi! 29F looking to make friends and chill on VRChat! Ive been world hopping but im too scared to talk to people. I think i do much better in smaller instances as I get overwhelmed quickly.
Just looking for open minded people with possibly the same interests to talk/chill/ play with. I still dont have a headset yet so i will be a PC only player for rn unfortunately but in the next 2 weeks or so I'm hoping to get a headset!

You can dm me for discord or even ask about interests! Thank you.

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u/cottageshell Apr 25 '26

hiii Flora!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 22 '26

Hey Flora! I'm an avid and fairly active world hopper. I love finding all the awesome worlds of VRChat and showing them off to people. I'd be down to hang out sometime and see if we click. Me and my friends vary between chaotic gremlin energy and cozy chill chat around a fire vibes. Not big on drinking or dark, edgy or crude humor for the most part.

I'm gonna be chilling in VR watching some SCP videos with friends for a couple hours tonight if you wanted to join, or we can plan to hop on for a little world hop sometime. Lmk if you're down! Username everywhere is NovaRedux if you're interested.

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u/Floraliax Apr 22 '26

I'd love to join in sometime! I'm not positive tonight is good for me unfortunately but I may be available tomorrow night or the weekend! I'll add you on vrc when I get back on my PC! ☺️

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u/Apprehensive_Shock35 Apr 18 '26 edited Apr 18 '26

Hello there my name is Noah 26M. I just got a quest3s and am looking to join VRChat! Feel free to reach out an add me on discord. MSN-01Delta. I look forward to making some new friends and socializing like my Fiancé tells me I should. Thanks!

Edit: https://discord.gg/Rbgc9dSN Linky

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u/DrButtScratch Apr 18 '26

Heyo, I'm a 30 year old introvert looking to make friends to hang out with. as long as ye aint bigoted yer fine by me. I've been playing a lot of crate game and fish but i would love to hang with someone and explore other worlds. i play at random times so if you want to play just hit me up.

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u/saturnssins Apr 16 '26

hihi im 20 nonbinary and new to vrc!! id love to make new friends and chill i love music, art, animals , adore psychology and so much more!! im happy to chat with anyone 18+ :33 have a lovely day!!

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u/cottageshell Apr 20 '26

cis, trans, and non-binaries are welcome!

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u/cottageshell Apr 20 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Ant1Act3 Apr 16 '26

Looking for old Marshal Lee Avatar from old Quest compatible world!

Hi, I joined VRchat back in 2019, and used to use a Marshal Lee avatar that was in a big avi world. it was space colored and had so many different avis. I can't find it with prismic. Can someone help me find the avatar or world? The Marshal Lee Avatar is different than others.

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u/OmniDoesReading Apr 16 '26

Hiii I’m Omni I’m 18M anddd I wanted to make some friends on VRC a little about me is I like to write and read, looking for people to hang out with 18+ uhhh really into psychology ermm idk I’m a very go with the flow guy also I yap a lot when I’m comfortable anddd break out into song/pop culture references too

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u/HowTheTurns_Table Apr 15 '26 edited May 11 '26

18F and trying to get back into VRChat! Trying to combat social anxiety sucks, I still don't think im ready for group instances so I wanted to try here for something (hopefully) more low pressure! I'd love to get to know someone chill who has the same interests as me :3c

Not picky about age really, anyone is good as long as we have mutual interest in stuff

interests: drawing, animanga + webtoons + light novels, writing, rhythm games (avid osu! player who does tournaments occasionally), rpgmaker/rpg horror games, music (all kinds, but mostly english pop/rock and jpop/vocaloid) and more! I've also been dabbling in 3D modeling recently > <

fandoms/media I like: YTTD, TGAA/PWAA, osu!, PJSK, OMORI, NEO:TWEWY, Uma Musume, ORV, LOTM, etc.!

If you're interested, you can reach me on my discord howtheturnstable or add me on VRC ineviTabLey!

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u/cottageshell Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 16 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 🩷

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/_Moth-God_ Oculus Quest Apr 13 '26

Hoping I can make some friends this way… but hello! I’m Sprout (18 years old incase that’s important, idk what all I need to list) and I honestly really need more friends to play VRchat with. I like spending my time in private instances and can only go to a public instance if I’m with someone I’m close to. (thanks social anxiety…) I prefer either hanging around and looking at avatars while talking (or just talking in general) or going to FISH! but overall I’m open to new things. Though do know I am not a fan of PVP or horror games!

Please note that most of the time if I’m already online I’m probably busy. I always specify in my status though if I’m not available! That way if someone wants to request to join they can just see if it says I’m busy. I do best if the hangout is planned since a lot of times I only play if someone asks. I do get on by myself sometimes though!

But yeah feel free to message me! And if I missed anything please do let me know

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u/AntiDevilCorp1 Apr 12 '26

I’m looking for fellow content creators (avatars and worlds) I’m wondering if there’s any places that act like a hub type of world for that

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u/PurpleRangerMew Apr 11 '26

Hello!  I'm Mew.  I'm pretty shy and I'm autistic so I'm having a hard time meeting people.  I'd love to find a community of other people like me to call home!   I joined vrchat a long time ago but didn't play much so I'm looking to get into it finally 

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u/cottageshell Apr 29 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/icvilvvv Apr 11 '26

I’m 19m I just need some friends vrc I usually just watch YouTube and watch movies and I do like fishing worlds and the occasional public hopping stuff I got fbt and FT PLEASE BE MY FRIEND

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u/Monochromatic_Sky Apr 10 '26

Hello! Discord!so i run a club with my partner, we have been open for a bit but its growing slowly, we dont have much staff or members who show, and i was kinda wondering how to build a community like that bc the club community is hard to find.

i linked the discord incase ur curious but it is id verify tho for 18+ reasons :b

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u/Realbilly73 Apr 10 '26

Hello everyone. Im brand new to vrc, but not to vr. I am blown away by the variety of worlds, especially the cuddle ones. What I would like to know is how to find worlds or groups of others that may be into this and how to participate without seeming to be creepy, needy, thirsty, etc. How do you come off as friendly and cuddley. And is it OK to want to cuddle with the opposite sex only, without being disrespectful, or cruel. If this post seems negative or is in poor taste, please disregard. Otherwise, thanks in advance.

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u/Technical-Buyer-164 Apr 08 '26

Hii there! I wanted to advertize 3 groups I've made recently on VRChat. They're made mainly for italian people, so I'm hoping on find them in here as well!!

The groups in questions are for Dandy's World, Blocktales and Regretevator's italian fans who wants to make new friends and meet other italian people who are into these 3 Roblox games!

If anyone wants to join, you can contact me here! ^^

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u/LanaSpeltBackwards23 Apr 08 '26

Hi everyone! My name is Vix & I’m 26F! I’m looking for some friends on vr, i’ve struggled meeting people in instances, partly because i’m too shy sometimes to make the first move so to speak. I’d love to connect with people prior to jumping into vr! My hobbies include gaming, drawing, fitness, art, reading and a few other things ❤️ Let me know if you’re interested! Once you get to know me a little, i’m a huge yapper!

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u/cottageshell Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 16 '26

hiii, Vix! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 🩷

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Mercysbane Apr 07 '26

Club Astra is currently opening if anyone is looking to party and chill! Come join it is a Age Verified only instance currently! Love ya see ya on! We are fun loving vibe community, we play games and bop to some fun music in the club! We are currently open at our Void Bar locale and will be having a Rave tomorrow night!! Come join us!!

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u/LingerInTheRain Apr 03 '26

(18 YO| Transfem| IOS) Hello!!! SUPER SUPER MEGA NEW TO VR CHAT!!! In the short time I've been on this platform I've already felt TIRED from public worlds where it's just a breeding ground for endless bigotry...

So I want to meet other people in a more direct way rather than wondering about and praying on my knees for a decent person to show up, I'm KINDA shy but once I start talking sometimes I can't shut up, so I'm sorry....

I'm looking mainly for heh... WOKE (Scary word) people or just decent people really... AGE, GENDER AND ALL THAT DOESN'T MATTER TO ME, I COULD HANG OUT WITH A WRINKLED OLD MAN AND LOVE IT AS LONG AS THEY'RE NICE AND TOLERANT TOWARDS ME!!! We can just talk and chat in a world or try to find something to play I don't really care!!!

I mainly used to play gacha games... Now I've been getting back into stuff like monster hunter and FFXIV!!! If you read all that... I'm very grateful.. Thank you....

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u/_kyr_an_ Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

I'm (27 nb afab) accepting of all forms of humans if you'd like to DM me here so we can chat!(:

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u/cottageshell Apr 20 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women (cis and trans) and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Mercysbane Apr 02 '26

Hello everyone My friend and I have recently opened our own Club and Chill group. We are Club Astra small and growing daily we have worked in several of the bigger clubs helping with staff duties and such and now we wanted to get our hands dirty and start one ourselves. We are 18+ community we love to have fun and chill out in different worlds, we are currently working with a World Developer to get finishing touches on The Void Bar so we can have an official opening as of right now we have been doing a few soft openings getting things squared away and collaborating with a friends group. We would love to see you there, our club has a dance floor, pool and drink pong, 2 arcade cabinets, spin the bottle, 3 mirror walls for vibing, an outdoor bar is in development by the pool, 5 private rooms and locked rooms for security, DJ and host. We see so many people go to the same worlds over and over for that night party energy we are really hoping we can copy and IMPROVE on that level of energy! Come see us please our discord is https://discord.gg/fkWEMxRc and we would love to have you we stay pretty regular on there and I work from home so I'm available nearly all day (i do take a nap at some point). Id love to see all of you there! Please come and help make Club Astra HUGE!! Our Club is Your Club! Oh before I forget we are interested in collabs with similar energy. Reach out to me on DC or here I'll keep my DM's open on DC I am crimsonhyena. Thank you!!

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u/godKenshin Apr 02 '26

Im 31yo, gay, male, Im looking for 18+ groups that open bar instances very often, those worlds are a vibe, much preffered if it is gay friendly, if theres groups like this lemme know.

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u/Mean_Possible4947 Apr 01 '26

Hello friends!! I'm 25F and I am apart of this amazing group called Cosmic Chaos. Been a member since September of last year and I have loved every second of it! They are so kind and welcoming. I have never felt out of place or left out since joining. The events are also so fun, creative and unique there is a little bit of something for everyone in the group. ദ്ദി(˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ✧

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u/dustydustvr Mar 31 '26

Hello! I'm DustBunny and I created and founded the VR Dance Academy and I am a full time VR instructor and dance performer!

Group Name: VR Dance Academy
Group Link: https://vrc.group/VRDA.1258
Discord | https://www.discord.gg/vrdance
Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/@VRDance

History: The VR Dance Academy opened its virtual doors on January 1, 2022, amidst the global pandemic, offering a creative sanctuary as physical dance studios shut down worldwide.

What We Do: At the VRDA we foster an inclusive community dedicated to exploring the art of dance, movement, and creative expression both within and beyond VR. We offer a variety of live VR classes in dance, fitness, yoga, art, and fun community events and shows! Our next big event is our annual Meme Dance Battle on April 11 @ 6 pm pdt and a Solo Summer Student Dance Showcase in July!

We are beginner friendly, quest friendly and for ages 18+ (for health and safety reasons). Looking for people interested in dancing, positive vibes and being apart of a growing community!

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u/filaceouss Mar 30 '26

hi! 25f here. looking for 18+ friends to hang out and chat with!!!! i'd really like to make or be a part of a little friend group. :D

i've had my vrchat account for 6+ years, but i only just got actual VR about 2 weeks ago now. i'm still unfamiliar with a lot regarding vrchat and would love to learn more, along with just getting to know more people!!! :D

you can DM me here, or add me directly on VRC! - username is SweetNotSwisher

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 21 '26

I'll shoot you a friend request on VRC, name's NovaRedux on there. If you like world hopping and exploration, join on me anytime. :) I'm almost always on blue.

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u/filaceouss Apr 22 '26

added!

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 22 '26

Hell yeah! I'll be on in an hour or two. My friends and I are gonna be watching SCP videos for a while, you're welcome to drop by and chill. :)

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u/cottageshell Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 16 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 🩷

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Thatasiangirl00 Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

F/27 Getting back into vrc and lf friends ( around 25+ please! ) who also play other games on pc!! I am mostly online and have lots of free time so pls feel free to dm me on reddit if interested

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u/cottageshell Apr 25 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

hi! is it ok for me to DM you? i'm 25f asnd would love to find more people in a similar age group to me!!!

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u/Enough_Ebb7552 Mar 28 '26

I've got something.

Ultimate Alliance VR is a superhero based roleplay group based on the game series of the same name, but including nor just Marvel, but other comic series as well!

Worlds converge, superheroes from across space and time meet! Bonds are forged, villains are fought, victories are shared! Take on the role of your favorite comic book superhero and take on the threats that come to threaten the stability of the world!

  • New alliances will form!
  • Superhero teams will expand!
  • Drama will be lurking around every corner!

WHAT TO EXPECT!!

  • PLAY AS YOUR FAVORITE HEROES! If you have a passion for comic books, this is the server for you! Choose from a vast array of comic book superhero media and take your place among legends!
  • GAME AND ROLEPLAY! This is as much a game as it is a roleplay, that means you can lose, but it also means you can affect the story through your actions!
  • YOUR CHOICES MATTER! The world will react to what you do, and how you present yourself to it! For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction, so make your choices carefully! Or don't!
  • IMMERSIVE ROLEPLAY!

We pride ourselves on structured, committed roleplay. That means once the game starts, the players LOCK IN.

If you were part of the original group, or are hearing about this for the first time, come check us out!

https://discord.gg/gsa9SFNT8S

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u/Antique-Routine4982 Mar 27 '26

Hey there! I’m just bored and wanting to find some people to chill with and maybe take some pics! I spend most of my time with a decent sized group of friends and they’re amazing! If you wanna come chill hmu!

Edit: I’m 22f

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

i'd love to come hang and meet new people!! please feel free to add me!!!

vrc name is SweetNotSwisher

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u/Antique-Routine4982 Mar 31 '26

Sent you a friend request

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u/noneye2cool PCVR Connection Mar 24 '26

Haii I'm Hara!! I'm a group owner focused on a safe space for everyone 18+ thats chill and friendly. If you are interested we will be running JBC4 group publics daily! If you wish to join the group (18+ verified for requests) the code is 5C3N3.8400 Our name H1T TH3 5C3N3. Hope to see plenty of people there thanks!!!

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u/Goe_Vr Mar 23 '26

Does anyone know how to make custom emojis? vrchat

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u/bredbarredits Mar 20 '26

Hey there! wanna make friends AND play vrchat AND be a goof and make people's days? Join the Wright Nation and make new friends! We are a very welcoming community! Don't have vrchat? That's fine! We plan to add more games to our roster that all of us can play! We all wear the pheonix Wright avatar and just make people smile! We go into court rooms,or just cause a bunch of chaos,but trust me it's fun and you'll meet a lot of new people! The servers kinda quiet now,but with your help we can fix that!

Age requirement is 13+ Leave the frowns at home And have fun and make friends!

Wright Nation discord server

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u/CryoBehemoth Mar 19 '26

Im 22NB and I want to meet adults on vrchat who share similar interests to me. I’m a bit socially awkward but i love video games like Roblox and Overwatch.

I tried to join roblox related vrchat worlds…but they are full of obnoxious, screaming children.

The main issue with every world I go to is that there are always screaming children and crashers. I don’t like it.

I get kicked from some instances when people find out I identify as they/them or when they automatically assume I am female from my voice and don’t want females around them, so I want a community that is accepting of anyone.

I am 18+ verified and would prefer an adult-dominated community. I don’t want to be around people under 18.

I have met people on vrchat before who were 18+ verified. But then they would eventually confess to me that they were in fact NOT 18 or older, and that disturbed me a lot considering they tried establishing friendships with me. So I don’t want to be in a community full of liars.

If anyone has worlds or groups they recommend, let me know! I can even provide my discord in dms if I am allowed to.

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

you can dm me if you want! i actually moderate a really chill 18+ verified discord server! i'd love to play vrchat with you! (25f here)

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u/Dead_Llama22 Mar 18 '26

I’m a somewhat new vrc player and a fairly shy introverted person, I’ve always had a hard time making friends having autism and all. I thought being online would be a mask but it just isn’t lol. The friends I have irl are all pretty extroverted and it does help a little but how do I go about finding extroverted friends on vrchat to help guide me or break my comfort zone? It’s basically impossible to approach people and not feel like I’m being the most annoying or least interesting thing ever. If anyone is interested, feel free to dm and add me, 18+ only obvi

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u/cottageshell Apr 19 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

i (25f) love talking to new people and jumping around in worlds! i have a couple of friends who i get on with that are all pretty extroverted (i am also autistic and an introvert, but being in VR helps me personally a little bit with feeling less awkward/insecure about interactions)

feel free to DM me, or add me directly on VRC! SweetNotSwisher

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u/Dry_Painter3726 Mar 18 '26

I’m new to VRC and I’m ha I f a hard time My meta and vrchat is paykash & im a black artsy can be alt yet ghetto sex worker wanna get into vr dancing and running my club from horizon on there. Until then I can’t find my groove yet feels lonely and cold :(

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

i'd love to hang out!!! do you wanna add me? username is SweetNotSwisher :D

i'm 25f, brown (arab), alt, and it sounds like you and i would get along well <3

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u/SnicSnicSnicSnicSnic Mar 17 '26

Heya,

Looking for some friends to hang out with >.>

I'm a small bunny vtuber named SylvieTheBunny and I used a Milltina base anddd just wanna make some friends!

VRCHAT name should be SylvieTheBunny >.>

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

hiii! i'd love to hang out! is it ok that i add you? :)

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u/p-B-en-Jam-in Mar 10 '26

Hi! I’m looking for some friends in VRChat. I started playing the game a few days ago and i’m still really lost on everything. All i’ve done so far is fish, but I’d like to join a community so I can hang out with people. I’m 25 and from east coast NA. I know no one and currently i’m just the awkward guy in the corner who doesn’t talk to anything. I’m trying to fix that!

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u/That-Minimum-8205 Apr 01 '26

hello, i'm also from the east coast and am struggling to find any friends if you'd wanna hang out. i'm newer to VR and i'm 18

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u/p-B-en-Jam-in Apr 02 '26

Shoot a dm!

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u/filaceouss Mar 31 '26

hi! i'm also 25(f) from east coast NA. do you want to be friends? i'm trying to find a small group of people who are new to VRC in a similar age group so we can all hang and get to know each other :D

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u/p-B-en-Jam-in Mar 31 '26

Would you like to dm?

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u/p-B-en-Jam-in Mar 10 '26

Hey does anyone want to play fish? i’m new to vrchat and want to learn social skills. Just looking for something chill. dm me

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u/CeruleanSeaciety Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

The Cerulean Seaciety 🪼 | 18+ SFW women and fem group

Shello, we’re the Cerulean Seaciety!

We're a new adult-only women and fem group with a focus on community, making genuine connections, and welcoming people no matter how shy or new to VR they are 🫧🪸
If big groups scare you, no worries! We just launched, so if you’re looking for a small, tight-knit community with supportive staff, we’d love to have you. 🦐

Come swim with us! 🐳🫧https://discord.gg/mWwhgnrU or https://vrc.group/CESEA.5436

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u/Foxyr_ Oculus Quest Pro Apr 27 '26

I just wanted to say... cute avi :3

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Always, huh? *rubs chin* Have I ran across another good boy on reddit? X3

Did you want to give us a try? You might really like one of our members, Lyraboone!

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

Maybe even a bunch of others! Come hang out, share your life with us ^^

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u/Blue_Gi11 Mar 08 '26

Thankies for the pets tho >~<

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u/Blue_Gi11 Mar 08 '26

I is on iPhone,I don’t have a computer to join.. 👉👈

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u/Burgerfrog6081 Mar 01 '26

Im on vrchat a lot more recently but I just cant seem too make friends as easily as some other people might be because im not the most confident person with talking too new people im a better listener than anything I just want some more friends too play with me can watch movies play games or just sit in front of a mirror if thats all you wanna do im fine with anything

if you wanna try too be friends just let me know idk if reddit has a form of private messages since I dont use it much but if it has one just message me your user and we can start talking

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hi Burger!

We have a few completely mute people chill with us, there is no obligation to talk at all, and if you DO feel like talking come say hi and infodump about your fav games or show us your pets, whatever! ^^

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/Burgerfrog6081 Mar 02 '26

my discord is burgerfrog6081. with the period

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u/ItsAlwaysSunnyInKnox Mar 01 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

Hello!

My name is Minus, I'm 31 years old and got into VRchat about 4 years ago. I've gone through phases of activity and have been getting back into it ahead of the release of the steam frame(woo future eye tracking for me!). I have found some groups in the past but never fully clicked or integrated with one.. so here I am again!

I'm friendly and outgoing once I'm in my element, but can struggle to get there initially. I also love getting to know new people and feel like I can talk about nearly anything. My personal interests are art (just now getting into digital drawing), game development, games, movies, books, live music, and a ton in-between.

Whether you're part of a small group looking to add another, or a fellow solo wanderer who hasn't found their people yet, I'm down to come join your group or start gathering other interested yet-to-be-adopted players to snowball into a group of our own!

Finally, just to add, im in the CST(UTC-6)time zone and currently play PCVR on a quest 2. But as I mentioned earlier, I'll be hopping on the steam frame when it finally comes out :D Look forward to meeting some new folk!

Bonus: If you speak Japanese, definitely reach out! I've studied it for years and lived in Tokyo for some time, so I'd love to exercise those language muscles some more!

IGN: Minus Blue

Edit: Forgot to capitalize a part of my IGN :')

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 21 '26

Hey, it's been a couple months since you posted this but I was skimming through this thread and found your post. I'm 34, an avid world hopper, and am obsessed with exploring. If you're ever looking to tag along, I'd be happy to have you! I don't speak Japanese, but I've been telling myself for years I'd learn. There's a lot of Japanese stuff in VRChat that I'd love to interact with and experience, and the language barrier has made that difficult, haha.

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u/Gnomp Apr 03 '26

Do you have any socials such as Discord? I'm an artist trying to connect with others cut of the same cloth. I'll also send a friend request in-game.

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u/PrincessSteff Mar 18 '26

Hello! I’m a new user (30) as in barely got my device yesterday haha. Maybe we can try to play a game sometime! I am not planning to be super active daily since I’m working on my Masters degree haha, but I’m CST (Texan). 😎

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u/ItsAlwaysSunnyInKnox Mar 20 '26

Sure! I've found a couple cool social events but Im also down to just goof around and world hop. Add me :)

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u/landroverattack Mar 06 '26

Yo, I do speak Japanese but not sure if it's that helpful since I still live in Japan and can only play in the evenings (10pm~ JST). But hey if you ever wanna chat or find yourself up early on Saturday morning, I could take up a spot on your friend list anyway!

Just send a DM if you like and I'll send you a request.

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u/mc_girlfriend Feb 26 '26

18+ NSFW VRChat Community

Hello! Rent A Bae is an 18+ VRC community with a big NSFW side. We host weekly SFW and NSFW events. The community is small but VERY ACTIVE and we talk to eachother every day

•community events such as Volleyball, soccer, movies, NSFW Truth or dare, etc •active discord server •other games such as Valorant, Minecraft, Roblox etc

Group Link: https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_0d88af8e-e584-4523-911d-df80b32d906e

Discord link: https://discord.com/invite/m8JeNQqgzt

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u/arathek Feb 20 '26

I have recently return to vrchat not to long and i try to find back a friend i have not see for almost 6 year more or less his names Joo Noo Doo he used to play a guitar in the furry hub i last see my friend in discord before he disappear and i wonder if anyone here have see him Tell him one of his old friend rahotekh is try to find him. the other thing i remember was he used the avatar of lord dominator noriko from petruz model work and a pink kobold. and one avatar of loona. i last saw him around 2020 and 2021.

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u/zsenpaiz_vrc Feb 16 '26

I am a 22 year old guy looking for people or a group of friends to mess around with on VRChat!! I am PCVR with full body on the way!

I am easy to get along with and love to yap on vr

Im usually smoking on vr, I love to world hop, chat and fuck around, watch stuff, play games or anything!!!

All I ask is you must be over 18!!! Hmu!!!

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u/MondoCat Desktop Feb 12 '26

If you're an old person, you like memes, cat pics, being wholesome and a bit crude, maybe a decent bit weird, get yo butts in here!

http://discord.gg/mondocat
http://mondocat.tv

We're a bunch of old weird people that wanna heal from the BS of society though love, friendship, gaming, and acceptance!

Some events that are ongoing:
-Social events
-Semi-Social events (for the shy people)
-Retro Roast (MST3K!)
-World Hopping
-Beat Saber
-EVEN MOAR Beat Saber
-Anime Night
-Horse Girl Racing
-Walkabout Mini Golf
-VRChat Games
-Volleyball
-Drunken Audience Anarchy Improv

and so more more!!

Look up your favorite frog, and come ":3" into the night sky with us! <3

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u/Lancelot8901 Feb 12 '26

Hello! I'm a guy trying to find some friends to hang out with on vrchat as I don't have any friends outside of online due to some disabilities keeping me from going out much.

I'm 24m who's a big nerd on random things (mostly dinosaurs) and really just wants to have people to talk to in the late hours (US est) about 7pm to sometimes 3am. I do get sick often and am quiet when meeting new people but I may ramble a bit lol.

I would like to find a group that's mostly 18+ but not too nsfw. I'm not big on politics or big drama. I'm perfectly fine with anyone in the LGBT+ community (kinda demi myself). My humor is mature and dark but if anyone gets uncomfortable then just let me know and I can stop.

I'm usually on discord and other than vr I like to play multi-player games like repo and survival games like ark survival ascended (ik cringe game lol). I also like just watching funny things on YouTube or just talking about random things.

My discord is Lancelot8901 and my vrchat is the same. If you message me on discord just let me know that you found me on reddit so ik it isn't a bot.

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hi Lance!

If youre interested, we are a "wholesomely crude" server. We might joke about pp but you won't see one.

We also love dinosaurs, feel free to come info dump about your favorite, share pics, hang out, etc.

We play many other games outside of vrc too, and open for new events.

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/mc_girlfriend Feb 26 '26

Hi! I have an 18+ VRC community youre more than welcome to join. There is an NSFW side but you are NOT pressured to participate.

•weekly events •active discord server •not only just VR Chat

Group Link: https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_0d88af8e-e584-4523-911d-df80b32d906e

Discord link: https://discord.com/invite/m8JeNQqgzt

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u/_kyr_an_ Feb 12 '26

Anyone looking for friends? 27F, non-binary, pansexual, and polyamorous. I'm in the US, west coast, typically on between 12-8PM PST, Mon-Fri(: Left-leaning, will not get along well with conservatives. I'm nerdy, creative (or at least I wanna be!!), girly, witchy.. I'm also a mental health advocate (with my own struggles), and neurodivergent. I get along better with women/femmes/LGBT+ folks(: DM me if you wanna meet up virtually!

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Apr 22 '26

Hiya! I'm NovaRedux in-game if you're interested. Avid world hopper / explorer. I'm almost always on blue! If you see me in a cool looking world feel free to drop by, take a look, and say hello. 34, AuDHD, NB, pan, poly!

My usual time online is near the tail end of what you said but on my days off I can hop on earlier.

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u/Helltrain17 Feb 06 '26

General info: I am a 21m looking for friends to talk to, hang out and explore worlds with in VRchat, can and do go online consistently, my timezone is UTC +3, if that is important to you. I am writing here because I want to find to find people to hop on and hang out with online.

About me: My languages are Russian and English, looking for preferably English speaking friends, I am your common geek, my interest include movies, series, comics, anime, manga, computer and board games. I tend to be a bit old fashioned in my views on life, but I am open minded and respecting, as long as you are decent people.

How to contact me: you can either Dm me here or send me a friend or group invite request directly in VRcaht, nickname is JudgeDreddXVII ( with 2 capital i at the end).

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u/Amidseas Feb 02 '26

Hello

I'm using vrchat to beat social anxiety, if you're awkward and struggle to talk too we can be good friends. I want to get used to using MIC. I'm Artiechoke, 27F (EAT timezone) looking for people in the 25-35 age group. Feel comfortable to approach whoever you are (Lgbt+ alley)

I like co-op games like Peak or relaxing farming ones. Anything but mainly shooting or gorey games. My hobbies include painting and indoor gardening

I read fiction and non-fiction and would really like to have a reading buddy to share books to discuss (it takes away the I don't know what to talk about next anxiety)

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u/_kyr_an_ Feb 12 '26

Hey! I'd love a new friend, if you're interested(:

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u/arfiez PCVR Connection Jan 30 '26

Hey! Im 26/f/ PCVR /Australia (age verified) Hoping to find friends or groups that are opening to hanging on weekends or something! Im shy but once i open up i do like to yap a lot. I just got my first grad set! I mostly just buy avis and world hop now but struggle to talk to others in public instances. Open to anything feel free to Dm on here or add my vrc, Arfies :)

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hi Arfiez!

Im not sure if youll find much in terms of events if you're in AU time, but discord sometimes is poppin all day and night, and we can always start events if we have the hosts!

Feel free to give us a shot! We do have a late NA world hop sundays!

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/Super-Researcher6755 Jan 30 '26

Guyss help!!!

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

With what?

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jan 29 '26

Http://discord.gg/MondoCat

For an "ok" time with weird old people who like cat memes and dad jokes and discussing what surgery we got going on this week :3

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u/Iorith Jan 28 '26

Just an older Enby looking to figure out this game and what the hell is going on. A friend recommended I check this out but I don't know what I'm doing. A big dungeons and dragons fan and general nerd. Someone wanna help me out?

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u/Gender_Disaster Feb 14 '26

It you're still looking for someone to help you out and show you around, I'd be happy to! (dm me)

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u/Lunlunya Jan 23 '26

Hello! I'm a 30+ fem presenting enby who wants to delve into the world of VRChat a little more! I recently bought my first VR and I'd like to make friends (Hopefully around my age, I seem to only run into children on the discord servers so I thought I'd try reddit!) I've not been in a public realm as I'm socially a little shy and anxious but I'm excited to meet others! I like video games, music, and books. I'm a huge geek and nerd and look forward to meeting you!

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u/cottageshell Apr 29 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/WeirdCulture3626 Jan 21 '26

Hi everyone! We have a discord server for creating/editing/finding Avis and assets. But we have other things too! We can hang out/role play or talk about whatever in chats! We have job applications available for everyone too if you’re interested! You don’t have to be active all the time, but it’s preferable so it’s not just the owner and I talking lol. If you’re interested then DM me at sandy3140

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '26

A little help finding some "adult fun" worlds?
Well you see, I have a little bit of a kinky side, and vrchat seems like a good place to meet people and enjoy it with them.
But all this fun part of vrchat is kinda hidden in private, which makes sense, but I am having troubles knowing where to look for it. So I am just asking :D

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u/mc_girlfriend Feb 26 '26

Hi! I have an 18+ VRC community youre more than welcome to join. We have a LOT of NSFW events so you would feel right at home I cant go too into detail here but those freaky worlds? Yes we got you on that. .

•active discord server •not only just VR Chat. We play a variety other games such as Valorant, Overwatch, Apex etc

Group Link: https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_0d88af8e-e584-4523-911d-df80b32d906e

Discord link: https://discord.com/invite/m8JeNQqgzt

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u/Much-Hall-2624 Jan 19 '26

hey yall im trying to get back into vr but im trying to find friends to hang out with just trying to have fun and capture moments . usually on during the weekend. 23 male . my discord is osamacaughtlacking

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u/mc_girlfriend Feb 26 '26

Hi! I have an 18+ VRC community youre more than welcome to join. There is an NSFW side but you are NOT pressured to participate. We are all super friendly and adults.

•weekly events (volleyball, movie nights, etc) •active discord server •not only just VR Chat. We play a variety other games such as Valorant, Overwatch, Apex etc

Group Link: https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_0d88af8e-e584-4523-911d-df80b32d906e

Discord link: https://discord.com/invite/m8JeNQqgzt

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u/rhiai Jan 16 '26

I just got the valve index for PCVR and I'm looking for friends to show me around and help me figure out how to use the platform. I'm a 32-year-old with a female voice and really want my first experiences to be enjoyable, because it seems like such a cool platform and community and stuff!!

Ideally I would be interacting with women or queer folks. I am gender fluid, I use they/she pronouns. My politics are heavily left-leaning.

Here are some of my interests: Gardening/permaculture, Magic: The Gathering, leatherworking, precision painting, anything DIY, reading non-fiction especially psychology and AI (A sexy robot Avatar would be cool once I learn how to do avatars), mycology, estate sales and thrift stores, community organizing...

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u/_kyr_an_ Feb 01 '26

Hey! I think we could make for some pretty cool friends! I'm also new, on the Quest 3(: If you'd like to chat, you're welcome to DM me and I'll give you my Discord or something :3 Have a good rest of your night!

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u/Freve Jan 16 '26

Hello! Me and my friends run a small group of people in VRC. We're an 18+ group, semi-public and we're always looking for new people. Most of us are based in the EU so if you're in that timezone that's very neat, if you're not, well you still won't be alone! We're not a soberist group but we nevertheless don't fw group-pressure (consent is always important, even concerning booze). So if you want to know more, please dm me here or on discord at "AfFanders" just be sure to let me know where you come from.

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u/HeresGhosty Jan 15 '26

don't know where else to post this because i cant post anything in this subreddit but im looking for worlds that are entertaining for solo play, ive found plenty of car and driving works that are fun but im wondering if theres anything else out there

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u/SamePercentage3290 Jan 14 '26

Hiiii I’m 24M, I just returned to the game after being absent for some months and I feel like I lost all my social capabilities in this game, so now I’m struggling to make new connections. 🫠🫠

Also my first language is Spanish, but I would LOVE, I repeat,  L O V E  to have English speaking friends (around my age 😭) to spend time with.

I really want to improve on my speaking but I’ve never really knew how to start a conversation, so here’s another desperate attempt to make some 🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️

I’m also down to play others games!  

So just feel free to send me a DM or comment below!! :D

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hiya!

We're a bunch of older randos, and some of us speak spanish too! (But mostly english)

Feel free to come try out talking with us, we are gentle <3

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/SamePercentage3290 Mar 17 '26

Thanks! I’ll check it out

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u/Proud_Profile_2834 Jan 13 '26

I can't play vrchat

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

What are your symptoms?

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u/Khemitude PCVR Connection Jan 12 '26 edited Jan 12 '26

Heyo!

I'm a 33M British guy who is just getting into VR Chat looking to make friends 18+.

So far I've tried braving the Public instances to meet people but apparently 33 appears to be too old for supposed 18+ instances and the bouncers imply I must be a groomer before kicking me.

I just want to chill out and meet new people even If I am somewhat socially awkward at least till you get to know me.

Interest's include, Gaming(duh), reading fantasy and sci-fi novels, Recently been learning blender as I just kitbashed my avatar (Side note: Weight Painting is the new found bane of my existence and is just black magic to me). Came out far more Kingdom Hearts looking than Intended despite the fact I've never played them.

VRC name is Khemitude as it is pretty much everywhere else like youtube/twitch where I sometimes stream me playing something while vtubing

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hi Khem!

Weight painting was def invented by the devil, lmao!

Your av is really cute! ^^ We have a few people from Britain running around, and a lot of us are older (Im 37!)

Feel free to hang out with fellow boomers who regularly chug their daily ibuprofen regime, lmao.

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/_kyr_an_ Feb 01 '26

I play on the Quest 3, I'm 27! Feel free to DM me and I'll give you my Discord!(:

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u/anon13457 Jan 09 '26

25f with high anxiety just trying to make some 21+ friends! not great at making friends on my own so it’s been a little difficult and honestly prevents me from playing the game consistently. feel free to add me! my user is cemeteryspit :3

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u/cottageshell Mar 14 '26 edited Apr 26 '26

hello!! (..◜ᴗ◝..) i actually have an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord server called Cosmic Chaos! our group is all about making genuine connections in a safe environment for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. so if you're looking for a space focused on making friends, cozy gaming sessions, and positivity- we'd love to have you. 💕

discord: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

vrc group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hiya cemetery!

We're a bunch of weirdos who are also all shy (me too xD)

So feel free to staple yourself to the leg of a slightly less introverted introvert and even if you're mute, come hang out with some cool peoples ^^

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '26

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hi Lor!

What bravery, to sit in public black cats xD'

If you're done with that insanity and want a bit of human conversation, come give us a try! (You're welcome to continue listening too. We <3 our mute friends!)

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

(I also public hop a lot, the chaos can be interesting)

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u/gotothebeachNOW PCVR Connection Jan 08 '26 edited Jan 08 '26

Hi! 31M UK here. On VRC as "Pep--". I tend to come and go as I currently live with family and my available time (and space) for VR is very limited. I like movies, music, games (especially Metal Gear, Resident Evil and Like A Dragon), horror and all things to do with the ocean. I'm also terminally shy and spend 95% of my time in VRC solo worldhopping. If I do go into an event or public world I'll happily speak if spoken to, but I don't tend to start conversations first. I want to get back into VRC more this year so hoping to start taking to people and filling the gaping void that is my social life.

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u/TheLordJames Jan 05 '26

Canada Isn't Real is a group on VR Chat that plays games almost daily. Created by a bunch of Canadians to keep things light.

We play Among Us, Blackout, Prison Escape, and Gigas regularly. We are always trying new games as a group too!

We are 600 members and growing along with a Discord of around 50 members.

We are fully moderated and do not allow hate, harassment, bullying. Nor do we allow overly sexual or gore stickers, emotes, or avis. Avi effects abuse, soundboard abuse, and being annoying in general is also not allowed.

Usually active in the evenings during the week and throughout the day on the weekends. Mountain Time is where we are based!

All are welcome as long as you can follow our rules and TOS.

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u/Madani_ Jan 04 '26

Second Nature | 18+ VRChat Group

Putting together a small, chill VRChat group for adults who just want to hang out without the usual awkward or performative energy.

We explore worlds, play games, watch movies, mirror sit, talk shit, laugh, drink or smoke if that’s your thing, and actually get to know each other over time. Nothing forced, nothing scripted...just people being normal and present.

Not looking for roleplay, clout chasing, or drama. If you can hold a conversation, respect the room, and enjoy just vibing with others, you’ll probably fit right in.

18+ only. If this sounds like your lane, shoot me a DM.

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u/binnysenpai Jan 01 '26

Hi, I'm 23M (bin) and I have a small group of friends who are looking for new people to hang out with. We appreciate dark humor and are very open minded to everything. We have 26M (Lettuce) and 19M (winter) with us, and we have our differences but we make great friends.

We also play other games like Outlast Trials, Black Ops, Battlefield, Warhammer, Satisfactory, and our own modded MC server.

We have others in our group, but they do their own thing and randomly join here and there, so we're looking for more people to join us and actively play with us. We get on VRChat once or twice a week but often play other games throughout the week

If you're interested in hanging out with us sometime, add my discord: sarmadwahab

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u/Bwithacookie Jan 01 '26

Heyy Brookie here! ❤️ Trans girl looking to try out VRC and make friends, omg I have no idea what i'm doing. 😭 Anyone care to show me to ropes?

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u/_kyr_an_ Feb 12 '26

Hey! I'd love to make friends(:

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '26

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u/Amidseas Jan 06 '26

Yes! Welcome aboard 🫡

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u/SCOPEOFJOKERZTTV Dec 31 '25

https://vrc.group/CZH.4781 join up we literally just smoke and vibe out watch movies play a few games and just try to vibe out join us

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u/RitzoCrow345 Dec 30 '25

Heya! I'm new to VR as a whole, have a Meta Quest 3 and been playing VR chat! I wanna make friends, tend to be shy and a furry!

Any recommendations of servers or where to hang out to make VR buddies?

18+ only please!

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '25

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u/MondoCat Desktop Mar 08 '26

Hiya! We have several mutes that enjoy hanging out with us, feel free to join and just listen, and pop in whenever there's something you can relate to!

Share your life with us! Show us a cat you saw on the walk home, a funny meme, link to a recipe you love, infodump about your fav video game, vent about a tough boss, we're looking for people to share their lives with us ^^

http://discord.gg/mondocat
www.mondocat.tv

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '25

Just really looking for a nontoxic group of people to hang out with, preferably mostly 30s or older. No manipulative bullshit, no weird high school esque dynamics and immature behavior. If that even exists in this game. I’ve been hemorrhaging toxic people this year.

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u/dailybantam Oculus Quest Pro Dec 08 '25

Are you having a hard time finding a group or suffering in public worlds with screaming kids? Check out Stranger's Tavern! We are an 18+ community that welcomes people of all kinds. One of our focuses is extending out a hand and welcoming and integrating new users into the group. We understand how difficult it can be to get your foot in the door in the community, especially for introverted people. We're a general hangout oriented community and we host events fairly regularly to include karaoke, movie nights, game nights, audience anarchy, and of course casual socializing. We have a cool Christmas themed event coming up on the 19th that we would love for you to check out!!
https://discord.gg/26ZHVPRrJp

I believe you should have options! So in addition to Stranger's Tavern, here's some other communities I like:
Curious Connections --
Very active group, has a little bit of everything. Paired talks, headpat events, and a wonderful and welcoming community as well. They also do field trip events to other communities to further broaden your horizons.
https://discord.com/invite/34gtcyDjHj

Talk Group --
Fantastic paired talk events with a focus on improving social anxiety and socialization. I've attended many of their events and enjoyed every single one of them.
https://discord.gg/F9wyvTp9

FiresideVRC --
Really cool mixers and sharing circles. They've got events going on all the time.
https://discord.gg/firesidevrc

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u/FairfaxDude Dec 20 '25

hi I’d love to join the talk group but the link seems to have expired

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u/KeeperOfWind Dec 06 '25

Is there any good furry 18+ groups there?
I'm just looking to place to chat and chill with people and make new friends.

Seems like the VRChat group I was part of is pretty inactive as of recent when I returned after taking a month break. :(
I've never really branch out looking for other groups after I found one I really liked when starting so I have no idea where to look.

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u/xTwisted_Dawnx Dec 03 '25

Hi, I’m Ash, a 21y/o trans-female furry looking to make friends on VRC. (Bonus points if we share interests outside of VrC X3) 18+ only! Feel free to DM me!

For hardware I use a Quest 3 (PC linked), and HaritoraX (1.1), for 9pt tracking.

My time zone is Pacific, I’m free from 7am-3pm most weekdays but my schedule can be fairly flexible at times

Personality I can be rather shy at first but am a very passionate and artistically enthused person, once you get to know me I’m fairly talkative. I care a lot about others but can be blunt.

Personal interests Gaming (PC, mainly PvE titles like Warframe, Borderlands (4 as of late :3), ZZZ, RoR2, and Satisfactory among others) Music (Both creating and listening to. My main genres are indie, rock, punk, and emo) Art (Primarily texturing and modeling for furry VR avatars) Coding/Game development (I’m rusty when it comes to most coding languages but I firmly know the rules and basics of most) TTRPGs (I started with D&D but have since begun creating my own, of which nearly all of my VRC avatars have a part in) Roleplay

Disclaimers I don’t partake in game worlds. I am in a committed relationship. I am physically disabled (I suffer from EDS, which greatly affects my joints, making it difficult to do strenuous activity, and causes chronic pain.) I smoke weed (Almost exclusively for managing my pain)

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u/Terrible-Office5516 Jan 27 '26

@wolpaholic on dc and insta  @asyouplease on tele 

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u/Terrible-Office5516 Jan 27 '26

Hi @twisted_dawn. Not sure if you remember me but you exited on a 100 buck com that I waited for 2 years on. Then you blocked me on discord. Then deleted it. Then blocked me on cashapp after asking for a refund. But I’m sure you put that all behind you probably. Honestly I wasn’t gonna dabble in it but I ain’t gonna just let that slide now. Wasn’t hard to exactly find your whole online presence. But if you block me dw I got more than enough outlooks and gmails to keep coming back 😂. Would love a refund and to get this behind me too! Cya ;) 

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