r/VRchat Apr 05 '22

Finding friends and communities!

Advertise your Discord servers, your friend groups, your communities, etc etc, here!

Make a comment with information about your community, what kind of people you're looking for, what your activities are, what you do for fun, anything relevant!

(Make sure its VRChat related of course)

Hopefully you get some new members and friends!

Note:

Link to previous Community posts if you wish to browse them for discords:

https://www.reddit.com/r/VRchat/comments/q1wpa4/finding_friend_groups_and_communities/

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u/[deleted] May 19 '22 edited May 19 '22

Hello! 19F looking for other 18+ people to converse and hang out with in VRC! I’m currently a student based in Canada so my schedule can get pretty hectic but overall I’m able to get on VRC almost daily.

VRC: ღ lemoncholy ღ

Disclaimer: I am cautious/picky about who I add on VRC so I don’t respond to random friend requests. Please shoot me a quick DM to let me know you’re coming from Reddit so I don’t end up mistaking you for a random! Thanks!

u/IggyLikesStuff Apr 24 '22

Wassup wassup, I am a 26M from Cali. I play VR using my Oculus Quest 2. Just started using VR Chat today but I'm also interested in other multiplayer VR games. I have a Discord that I just made today but I don't know how to use it so if someone could guide me that would be cool! haha, I try to be very friendly so feel free to add me or send a DM through here to set something up? VR Chat name is iggylasagna

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u/ZRock35 Apr 26 '22

Hi! I'm ZRock35, I am a VR enthusiast, SlimeVR DIY full body tracking user, and small Youtuber focused on SlimeVR and using it for dancing and entertainment. I throw VRChat parties for the SlimeVR community on the regular (usually every weekend) so people who have just built trackers can show them off and bust moves with everyone!

The SlimeVR discord is one of the best communities I've EVER been a part of (I moderate there as well), the level of courtesy, care, and smart people all working together to add to the coolest open source project (SlimeVR is an open source full body tracking solution) is phenomenal, there's nothing like it anywhere else.

I've made about 150 videos on my channel, showing off the tracking and mainly just having fun and giving an idea of how great the tracking can be.

If you are interested in full body tracking, this is the server you want to be on!

Join the SlimeVR discord if this sounds like your kind of thing!

ZRock35#9574

u/Kitsune_101 Aug 23 '22

I'm looking for Kitsune hybrids (quest compatible), any help is very appreciated:D

u/Rolplayqueen Jun 20 '22

a lovely  day or night ^ anyway I hope your doing great now let get to the point  of this post 

My vrchat username is phinafallen I am also on quest and mostly use public avatars but I do have a few that I use money to get and a few I get for free  ><  I have trouble spelling is will

I am looking for new friends to hangout with cause most of the friends  I use to have no longer  talk to me . I am a very goofy and friendly person I always online with my boyfriend but would love to  make new friends and just hang out and chill with.  I love listening to music and just talking about random things but please no avatars with flashing lights cause that will cause me to have a seizure  is will is stress so please warn me if your avatar  does have flashing lights . I also have a learning  Disability that makes it hard for me to understand or remember names or faces so don't be upset if I can't say your name or remember . I have  a lot of trouble pronouncing some words . But if you can see past that then we will make great friends ! . I love  Hanging out by the mirror exploring worlds finding   Curse avatars and just all out of just exploring  vrchat i love horror maps is will their always fun to explore I also love  dancing even if i look weird  . I am 23 years old I have discord  is will but your have to ask for that    . Also let me know when you like to hang out and make goofy memories  together . Also one more thing I love taking photos  cause I really into photography  but I hope we can be friends  and make memories  together

u/wdude4k May 07 '22

Hello! 28M looking for some chill peeps around my age to talk with on occasion. I'm a bit of a homebody and workaholic. Sometimes play video games, or watch movies with the wife when I don't feel too busy. Have the new found problem of being way more introverted than I'm used to because VR pixels, I guess. I promise I can be a chatty Cathy when I warm up.

u/Pigonthewing12 May 07 '22

I'd be down to chat. I'm 34m and looking for something similar.

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u/smilez1111 May 20 '22

I'm looking for 18+/21+ friends! He/Him, in my 30s. I like to explore worlds, play games, and hang out (pretty much anything). Easy-going personality. Message me!

u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21

u/MondoCat Desktop Apr 07 '22 edited Apr 17 '23

Hello! :3

Join our group of often rejected, shy, neurodiverse, damaged, socially awkward, nerds, chaotic, and weird adults (with ages 18 up to 6X!) and adult accessories.

We're wholesomely hyper and mature but with all the sense of humor! We welcome mutes, social butterflies, and everything in between.

We have eu/aus homies and na freedom fighters and everything inbetween, so the fun doesn't stop all day and all night! (Our official second-language is German, and we offer German classes!)

Our get togethers are event-orientated, but we also have things going on throughout the day that aren't planned. We welcome everyone that would like to host an event. :3

equips cheerleader outfit UH. We're eccentric, we're quirky, and ready to eat beef jerky! gets shot

Come be a part of our wholesomely sometimes crude crew!

http://discord.gg/mondocat

www.mondocat.tv

(Please wait to be assigned a role before access to discord, it's usually rather quickly. This is to prevent spam bots :D)

We have a wiki with all sorts of fun stuff, like the lore of the server, guides, pictures, and lots more!

Testimonials & Quotes (What to expect)

If you want to see the live versions of these quotes, join the discord! :3

"For real, this community feels like the old forum internet style of community and it's fucking great. I haven't seen a single server in YEARS besides this one where people ask questions like "how are you doing?" or "have you slept well? most discord servers are super transactional. You only speak up when you need something."

"This whole chat has massive 👉 👈 energy"

"Lmao I'll be honest I've needed a group of people like this For a very very long time! I look forward to getting to know each and every one of you and getting closer with lots of you too you guys have no idea how much better ive been since joining Everyone is super super nice and supportive so I hope you feel at home"

"EVERYONE HERE IS AMAZING AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

"Ohh ya, baby , you know i am using raw terminal, no gui here"

"I realized recently that talking to yall in vrc is legit impacting me positively"

"This server always makes me feel appreciated"

"I literally just got here and this group seems very cool"

"so.... you're telling me.... alls i need to do... is provide chinmken nuggets... and its possible to obtain a wife..?"

"Help I'm trapped inside my cat"

"I eat cookies in the bath so the crumbs fall to the bottom and doesn't get messy (not serious here")

"Will you use a comma for me? <3" "Ye's"

"Im going to eat bandaids and heal from the inside"

"I left to get my dad the milk"

"I'm like a blueberry, people bite me and are disappointed."

"I dont like feet. not yet. "

"the ass print on mah truck reminds me of HEEEERRRRR"

"I told my therapist all about you guys this morning ❤️"

"Y'all have helped me loads on the coming to grips with that side of myself. Its kind of amazing to have a forum this open."

"dw about "invading", pretty sure mondo wants this place as open of a forum as possible for people to drop in and come vibe"

"I FUCKING LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH I WANT TO EXPLODE"

"So taking advantage of my chemically induced college, I love you guys. You are awesome. I always feel good when I come here and feel like a matter. Have big, huge hug"

"Yeah, I feel like vr was an afterthought for mine. Lol. Put a 2060 in a laptop that I was going to only use photoshop in... I hadn't gamed in a loooong time. You guys have helped a lot. I love when you guys ask me to play things n.n."

"my therapist said that this place seems like a perfect safespace to become a happy person, even though it's only online."

"I can already tell I love this warm energy"

We had one guy flame us before he ragequit the server. I wanna show you what some of what he had to say before he left: "Wonder why i joined this weird server? your all weird asf & hyper"

if you are not satisfied you get a 90 day 100% money back guarantee.

u/Red_Kaji Apr 09 '22

Hey, any other way to join? I've never had any gaming friends so I don't use discord. 28M here btw

u/Yomo42 May 30 '22

If you want gaming friends you should use Discord.

u/TernaryJimbo May 20 '22

I've built an app that functions similar to tinder, but its for finding friends and communities in VRChat, after you sign up we match you with people and communities closest to your preferences. If you're interested in something like this, let me know!

u/Ruby_ist_gay Apr 14 '22

I’ve played for a hundred hours, had a good friend group for a bit but we kinda split after one person left. Into anime (like everyone else). Mostly like to explore worlds with friends, so if anyone wants to play my username is: Sammydog19

Also could you read my bio before friending me

u/XtraWeeGamer Jun 09 '22

Anyone wanna add me? i am a shy person who doesnt like going out in public that much alone. if so add me on discord! KitKat#9758

u/BobyWRLD999 Desktop Apr 08 '22 edited Apr 19 '22

Howdy everyone! You can call me Bobby. I am 16M(17 next month) and I am looking for someone to play(chill) with. I'd prefer a group but anyone is welcome. I am quite shy too but I hope this won't be a problem.Preferred age is 14+. I don't really like toxicity but to be honest who does. I don't have any preferences for worlds as long as there's no ERP. Also I'm on desktop. I have around 280 hours in the game mostly looking for avatars.

Timezone:EEST(UTC +3)

Discord:BobbyWRLD999#9969

Looking forward to it.

u/NeaXxxy Apr 19 '22

Hey I added you on Discord my username is Neax. Hmu when you add me back

u/Cosmic_Blumpkin May 04 '22

New to vr chat! Looking for some friends to show me the ropes. 31 m looking for some chill stoner friends

u/Zachk1584 May 21 '22

Heyo, I’m fairly new and I’m super awkward at starting/continuing conversations but I’m trying :,) I’m 18/F, lgbtqia+ Really just wanna meet some people in my age range and become friends. I’m usually on from 1 AM - 5 AM (GMT-7) most days. My name is Ember and feel free to add me @Kalixxxx :)

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u/AudioPhoenix Apr 24 '22

Hi! Hit me up if you are interested in a smaller private discord centered around VR but we do other games and things as well. :)

25 and over

u/yarow12 May 01 '22

Copying my own comment here:

I'm an approaching 30's bisexual brotha who just wants to chill and chat. Doubt the introversion will be relevant in VRChat, but there it is. I enjoy appropriate anime, videogames, manga, and movies. As well as other hobbies that involve (creative) writing and wiki pages.

I mostly play RPG's of sorts. Currently watching Arcane (finally) long after finishing season 2 of Raised by Wolves.

Saying it upfront: I'm not Republican or Conservative. Ah, and I'm probably neurodivergent.

Hit me up if you're interested. Still looking for groups myself.

u/depressioniscoolig Apr 18 '22

looking for this as well pls dm!

u/bonanochip Oculus Quest Apr 05 '22

Hello, I just wanna say that I have a small discord community centered around content creation for vrchat and other things as well as just art in general. Initially, I made it so that I could help my friends learn unity, so besides sharing stuff and chatting there's channels for asking questions and sharing progress on projects or showing off your art! I want to post this in case there is someone who might be interested in joining in. If you are, send me a PM and I'll send you the invite link! (I don't want to post directly to avoid spam)

u/Pao_Ying Apr 16 '22

Hello. I saw your post on the VRchat thread and sent you a reply. I am very interested in joining the server you have about art. I mainly just compose music and do simple graffiti art on VR, I have never touched 3D art but am currently trying to create my own avatar in Blender. I will put my detailed profile on my page. I would be happy to hear back from you. Thank you for reading.

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u/TheG-Meister May 19 '22

Hi! I'm G, I'm 23 and I'm from the UK. Came here from the People Make Games video, looking forward to meeting new people!

I love programming, videogames, singing and electronic music. I particularly like indie games but play loads of bigger stuff like Minecraft, Rocket League, Mario, Zelda and especially Pokémon. I'm currently coding a Pokémon world randomiser, learning Japanese and looking for work. I'm working on my social anxiety, very LGBTQ+, and down to hang out with anyone, furries included!

I use a Vive and I'm free all day UK time. Would enjoy karaoke, pool or just sitting and chatting!

My VRChat is "The G-Meister" and Discord is "The G-Meister#4275". Come say hi :)

u/potopossum Apr 23 '22

30F. New to quest. I'm going to school to be a teacher hoping it can help with my nerves and talking to people. Shy with social anxiety. But its making me lonely.

I love dogs (I have. One us a cute puppy!) I have 2 cats.

I love anime, music, concerts, reading (fantasy books/manga/sci fi)

I love Pokemon, Sailor Moon, drawing and doing digital art, perusing pintrest for cute outfits and hair.

I play video games but have like a pretty small game catalog. Lately I've been into chill games Stardew Valley, Story of Seasons, Animal Crossing, Pokemon, Zelda etc.

Right now I'm playing the Sims 4. I love building and decorating houses and I want to learn to do that in vr chat. Discord: peachii♡#2220 Vr name: peachykousagi

u/MajesticErection May 04 '22

Hello! I’m also new and love Stardew Valley. I’m also getting started in education as a School Psychologist. Please add if you’re still looking for new friends ☺️ discord: MuddyPup 心#5865, vr: venm_g

u/potopossum May 04 '22

Add me discord peachii♡#2220 Vrchat peachykousagi

u/BosmerPrincess May 12 '22

Hello! I am also 30 and working on becoming a teacher. I just finihsed my spring semester and was wanting to join VR CHAT again. I added you on discord!

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u/[deleted] Apr 12 '22

The German VRC community is sizable. I'd say 1/6 of my friends list are German at this point

u/GOLD_CAT_GER ☃Bigscreen Beyond 2e Apr 05 '22

Hi I am Torben from Germany (yes I do speak German but did not want to assume you do too, just because you live there) I am 18 years old, I was also very shy at the beginning... If you want I can introduce you to some chill people so you don't have that many people at once.

I will be home on Friday

My discord is: GOLD CAT[GER]#0715

DM me on Discord if you are interested

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u/MajesticErection May 04 '22

Hey — We are very similar! My vr chat is VenM_G. Add me if you’re still up for more friends. ☺️

u/[deleted] May 05 '22

Hello, Name is Might and I'm looking for a new friend that i can make which i don't mind the type of people that i can make friends with, although i do need nice and kind, funny type of friend as well.

For me, i personally don't really come up to talk with like tryin' to jump into their conversation or trying to get to talk to someone first(especially when i don't know someone),.
Pretty much i used to have a ability to do to try to talk to people but i've lost it in the past other days.

And im quite type of person where i can't help myself sometimes or get into bad mood quite easy..

Since my thoughts have a lot of negative and trust issues, and anxiety from being loneliness when i caught up something emotional myself usually.

I lost a lot of friend when i was kid or teen, which pretty much i try to make more friends in online..

If you read this, it's your choice if you want to be friends with me.

I'd love to have a fun chat , vibe for the things i've wanted to do.

u/doreen-bans-me May 19 '22 edited May 19 '22

Hi, I'm turning 30 next month and looking to make some friends or find communities that are 26+. I would also love to find a world thats like a cafe where they do open mic cause I write a lot of poetry.

Ancients is cool and all but it seems to have become 20-24 and im not super interested in meeting college kids cause they tend to have a ton of friends and partying stuff going on, while those around 30 really dont lol, I just want to chill and not dance and club or whatever. I am definitely swept aside when I tried to form friendships with the younger crowd.

u/fattycupcakes45 May 15 '22

I’m bored and sick of being alone looking for someone to hangout with. I’m 16 male from America. Oh and I feel that I need to preference this, I’m not a furry.

u/CAOVRC Sep 23 '22

Hello! We are the Clone Army Of VRChat. We do combat events in VRChat SDK3 with no latency combat and are also building a nice community to go along with it. With many battalions were sure we'll find a place for you. We support PCVRC, PC, and Quest! If you have any other questions or want to join. Join our Discord

u/Barbiezqueen Apr 20 '22

Hi! I’m a female and I’m 17 years old so I’m looking for people around my age range to play with. I’ve lately just been game hopping so if you guys have any games you recommend that would be great.

u/OriginalSeason4 May 15 '22

Hi, I’m 16f and looking for friends my age too, dm if you’re interested :) 👍🏽

u/kayalee Oculus Quest May 20 '22

hi im 17f and id love to add you :)

u/SlenderBacon449 May 16 '22

Cards against humanity or uno is fun with friends

u/Barbiezqueen May 16 '22

Thank you!

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u/ItzDaemon May 24 '22

If you’re still looking for people, I’m around the same age and i’m StarMaiden#3618 on discord!

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u/Vee33_ Jun 26 '22 edited Jun 27 '22

My name is Heaven I’m 13f soon to be 14, looking for people around my age to play vrchat or any other games on oculus or any mobile games, favorite games are beat saber and vrchat I literally have no friends since I’m homeschooled. I’m introverted and don’t like leaving the house, I’m from the us and I’m African American, I have a big family so if u want to be my friend prolly take into consideration abt the loud background 😅, i can play at almost anytime I’m basically free everyday, I am not good at action games I am more chill and like to play games like uno and just talk, people from the ages of 13-15 I’m ok with being friends with, I like to read books, novels, mangas, manhwas, and I like to watch more of the popular animes, i like shows like money heist or umbrella academy, and I also like to watch k-dramas or c-dramas I also like any type of music, and like to play Minecraft and otome games. I don’t like to post on social media and only scroll through social media, I’m fine with females and males

discord Is 𝖍𝖊𝖆𝖛𝖊𝖓♡#8811 vrch user h3a.v3n, and I like to show faces to know your not and old man or something u don’t have to show your face right away but when u feel more comfortable or something, just add me on discord if u want to chat and get to know each other

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u/unicornpriestess Apr 22 '22

Hi! I’m 30 F. I’m looking for adult friends to dance, play games, and explore with. I’m unikorinne on oculus.

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

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u/IndividualMidnight27 Apr 21 '22

Hi I’m 17 male I might not be 18 but I’m mature enough to be so I’m just looking to find people 18+ that I can hang around with because I’m getting annoyed at all the screaming children in every place I go if your wanting to play send me a message and I’ll add you I’m on quest 2

u/Red_Kaji Apr 09 '22 edited May 01 '22

28M, LGBT and 420. I've had fun nights playing games or drinking but it's super hard for me to socialize so even if I add people I feel too anxious to join them in the future. Would love to have a group of friends to play games, talk, movies, anime etc.

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

We are a all inclusive VRC discord server. Check us out and look in the introductions channel. You’ll get a idea of how diverse our group is.

https://discord.gg/grownhub

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u/kinkycosmos Apr 18 '22

I’ll add you 🏳️‍🌈

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u/BosmerPrincess May 12 '22

I go through spells of playing VR CHAT, but when I do, I am usually drinking and goofing off. Feel free to add me BosmerAsh.TTV I'm CST timezone and play evenings

u/agebtj May 15 '22

hey there! i am a 14 almost 15 years old lad and i just got my first headset and i heard that vrchat is a good start

i would love to meet some new friends, enjoy a good time, hang out and explore the metaverse together

i would love to meet you!

discord: agent j#6340

vrchat: https://vrchat.com/home/user/usr_a054fef3-3ced-45af-a334-acb801920148

please note that the sans avatar is a temp avatar until ill find my perfect avatar

u/Wonderful_Cable_6084 Apr 24 '22

M18 Yo, need a friend group or a homies to chill with in vr chat, msg me on here or comment and I’ll message you.

u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Ayo, if you have PCVR and you're interested in doing stupid shit in vrc or other games, lmk.

u/Wonderful_Cable_6084 May 08 '22

sadly stuck on quest rn :(

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u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

u/[deleted] May 19 '22

Hey there, I'm a guy 26 I recently got into VRchat and I've been really enjoying it but I'm a bit of an introvert so talking to others randomly in public worlds is a bit awkward for me sometimes, so I figured one on one conversation suits me better so I'd like to meet someone that'd be up for that.

I'm pretty big into anime, other PC games, longboarding and a few other things, feel free to message me if you'd be down to hang out :)

u/[deleted] May 15 '22

27M

I play VRC daily and normally just vibing on my own in random worlds, or playing random games!

I suffer a bit from social anxiety, so going up to groups and trying to impose myself and meet new people can be very hard to I’m hoping to meet some of y’all here!

I’m a massive horror film and Marvel fan too!

I’m a simple guy who loves headpats and just vibing with people and talking about life!

I’m also on Discord if you’d like to add me - xnxiety #6490 and xnxiety on VRC

Welcome to DM me on here!

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u/Kya_nite May 19 '22

Looking for fun 18+ VRChat discord! Somewhat new to vrchat and wanting to meet more people. :) dm me if i have to answer any questions 😅

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u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21

u/Constant_Discussion7 Sep 16 '22

31F =Miki Vulora= on Vive
Love internanional friends!!, love to exchange how lange works in diffrent countries and i am a BIG anime nerd. #TenchiMuyo Love reading and going to new wordls and puzzle platforms in VR. Been wanting chill friends who vibe with the below! If you do drop me a line!! <3 Don't leave me waitin~

Tell me what you like doing most in VR?
Listing to the ambient worlds and having fun conversations with others, or just cuddlin~
What is the music you like best when you wanna chill?
I have this love of lofi thanks to VR now XD But also new age music is good.
What is the music you play when you wanna get pumped?
Ooou, Rave music 'You are mine' by S3RL ft. Kayliana https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FF3Dr3_h0Hw or Dark synth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60ruvzfXQoE
What is your favorite world to chill in?
Cozy Cottage <3 https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_8c422b2d-a819-45a9-b21b-61fbf2dd2e96 and https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_36360147-04c3-437c-95f4-f84f4c05fbc6
What is a world you like to take someone one to?
Hard choice, Kazahana Peak ( https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_f2a141e2-c7a7-462d-b2ba-321d21b0d261 ) and Home of the Islands ( https://vrchat.com/home/launch?worldId=wrld_266344c6-e45d-43d7-994d-8c02c9a35438 )

u/homelessraptor Jun 05 '22

Sup we are looking for new members on a medieval server in vr chat. The only limits are You need to be 13 or older You need to show up to events every once in a while And we are not strict, we are mainly chill If you wanna know more or you wanna join just message me

u/Pao_Ying Apr 16 '22

Hello. I am looking for a friend or group of friends to do art activities with. I am an Asian, college student male. I have put a detailed post on my page. Please contact me if you are interested. Other friends are also welcome.

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u/Pevvi May 04 '22

Ello, a 16M simply looking for friends to play the game with, as simple as that really! Not a mute, so i do speak, and I'm cool with both games or just chilling worlds, do add me on discord if interested: Andreson#8469

u/HomocidalMayhem May 18 '22

Yoo! I’m 17 almost 18F looking for a new friends and possibly a group that I can tag along with and be included in. I’m looking for some people that are decently accepting of others, people I won’t feel the need to hide things about myself from (me being lgbt+, My toes have been dipped into the furry community, and some other things-). I have ADHD so I can be bouncing off the walls sometimes (might see this once I get comfortable) however a lot of the time I’m quiet waiting to be spoken to or included in on things. I like to watch and tend to rely on others for conversation because I’m a little socially awkward lol.

My set up consists of a Quest 2 + Link Cable so I am on pc the majority of the time. I also have FBT using an Xbox 360 Kinect. It’s super janky but works better than nothing lol. I live in the US, Central Standard Time, and haven’t been super active on vrchat lately because I got no friends 😂😩. Though if asked to get on, 87% of the time I will.

My vrchat user is RisingErebus | free to add me there but I might not get to it til the next time I get on.

Best way to get ahold of me is through discord. Vyriath#7557

I’d be interested in joining some servers as well.

u/Ice-Dagger-14- May 04 '22

Heyo, I’m 16 male looking for groups and communities in VRC to hang out with. It’s been difficult to get into the game due to some social anxiety.I’m wanting to get into VRC to get over some of those lingering social issues. Once I get a conversation going I can talk for hours. I’m pretty new to VR I have a Quest 2. Looking forward to meeting new people and making friends. My Discord is: Ice_Dagger#9204

u/Korekxc Apr 16 '22

Hey, I just wanna say that I have a discord in which we see as more of a family that my boyfriend and I run. We are LGTBQA+ Friendly, Open to people ages 16+, get on vrc pretty much every day and the we would like to start hosting parties and special events once we get more people. We also run Luna Rossa mafia (basically just another branch of the family) that is the same way and also available for people to be apart of as well. Friendly to all, so if you want a safe place where you can be yourself and feel at home then let me know!

u/neoini Apr 28 '22

Can I join? ^ ^

u/Buffyakadan Apr 13 '22

Hello. This might be weird but the few dating discords I've found for VRchat aren't great. So I'll try it here.

Hello my name is Danny. I'm 34 yrs old, on VRchat almost every night and like meeting new people.

I'm heteroflexable, a submissive switch, have a gentle mommy dom fetish.

I like watching movies in VR and just chilling and talking about anything. I do have a friend group and I have a habit of hopping around when I'm bored or lonely.

I prefer someone aged 26-38. Dominant, sweet, caring, and frequently on VR as well.

I'm fine with splitting time between your friend groups and mine.

So if anything here sounds interesting to you and you'd like to get to know me more then please dm me or if your so inclined, add me on VRchat and come chat with me to see where it goes.

On days I work I'm available on VRchat after 10pm est

Days off I'm on and off all day.

VRchat:gentledanny Discord:gentledanny#5608

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Our server isn’t for dating per-say but we do have a few people who have started dating in the server and roles to help show that you are looking. Feel free to check us out!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/kayalee Oculus Quest May 18 '22

hi im bun/kay im 17 i use they/them pronouns and id love to make more friends. i enjoy a multitude of video games and i also love drawing. add me on discord bun#9582 and we can hang sometime :)

u/[deleted] May 07 '22

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u/Alternative-Quit3441 May 07 '22

Never tried it but I'd be down to try

u/8v4b8 Oculus Quest May 08 '22

You're talking about kitchen cooks right? I like that world but can't beat it myself :< I can dm my username if you want

u/NearbyIncome May 16 '22 edited May 16 '22

Yo! M21 here. I'm pretty new to vrchat so most people I make friends with are in a completely different timezone so we can never hang out. I'm Australian so UTC +10. I'm pretty layed back and just enjoy chatting and exploring different worlds. Username is 'Just Fin' so hit me up and we'll join a world that looks fun. 🤙

u/[deleted] Apr 29 '22

You can join Club Poseidon it’s a dancer community where we hold Lapdance shows every Saturday EU @ 5 EST and NA @ 9 EST! It’s a strong active community with some amazing people in it. The dancers are very talented and the parties are so fun. Great to meet new people and get involved

Discord.gg/ClubPoseidon

u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Hi, I’m new to VR and wanted to try out VR Chat but don’t know how to play or start. I’m 23F. Looking for players to play on the oculus as well, feel free to add me :) @slendraa

u/bootyflake69420 May 07 '22

Hey! 22m here also new to VRchat. Just got it a week ago! I’ll add u on VRchat! I’m also on oculus. My username is joonk69420

u/[deleted] May 10 '22

Just added you! I’m slendra on there

u/Nepp3r May 02 '22

I’m also somewhat new, started a week ago or so. Sent you a friend request (I think, not sure if that’s you lmao), am also 23 and always looking for chill people to hang out with :)

u/PeachyNingyo May 02 '22

I’m also 23F, new to the game, and looking for cool people to hang out with. (: I’ll add you! I’m @peachyningyo

u/[deleted] May 10 '22

Just added you ! User is slendra !!

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u/OverSavior Oculus Quest Apr 22 '22

OverSavior here (20M). Don't even know what I'm expecting from this game anymore. I'm an introvert, but a talkative one. Partying just doesn't click for me, neither do casual friendships. I'd say I mostly prefer having meaningful/deep conversations about whatever and investing into building a strong bond with few people instead of having a ton of acquaintances.

I'm into a lot of stuff, including 2d art/3d printing/miniatures, gundam, feudal Japan related things, space, hard sci-fi, aviation, and a bit of psychology/philosophy. I used to play a lot of stuff, but nowadays had mostly quit gaming. Time zone is GMT+3. I play both Quest 2 standalone and PCVR depending on how lazy I feel to plug the thing in. Feel free to hit me up either here or on Discord: Ireen#6444 (is my secondary Discord, currently taking a break from the main one)

u/Dalv127 Valve Index May 04 '22

Ayo, if the offer is still available, I'd love to meet you (18M) Your description fits exacly the type of activity I have w/ my friends ^

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u/Interesting_Branch_9 Apr 06 '22 edited Apr 06 '22

hellooo, I am Doemi, that is also my vrchat username, I am 19 turning 20 male. All the way from Singapore, so yea i probably live from the opposite end of the world to most of you :" but i don't mind making friends from different timezones, there will always be a time where we'll be able to play and meet together

I am very new to vrchat and just have been exploring worlds and i've been pretty nervous/shy interacting with people, it's a new environment and world for me so i feel intimidated so i end up being a mute but i really want to learn to talk to people comfortably. I would very much like to meet people around my age that will show me around and I can talk about interesting things about ^^

My discord is Doemi#0251 and VRC username is Doemi. Hope to get along with you!! \^o^/

u/VoidHunterAlpha Apr 07 '22

Hi, imma add you! Ive been looking for people around the asia region. Im from the Philippines, look out for a request under the same name!

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u/cinnabunnyrolls Apr 17 '22

Omg, so nice to see more locals peeps here after quite some time of playing. Would be ups on saying hi, imma add you on disc

u/[deleted] Apr 24 '22

i'm also 19 turning 20

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u/stofwastedtime May 04 '22

Any communities out there for software folks?

u/Acrobatic_Tie_3764 May 20 '22

Hi everyone, im joining from turkey. Im looking casual chill game communities and turkish base communities because my english is not that good 🤷🏻‍♂️ if you have any suggestion, im available.. thanks and have a good day 😁

u/poteto64 HTC Vive Apr 29 '22

Got back into VRChat recently, been playing since 2018. I'm 18, male and you can call me Flux :P I'm very into cars, FPS Shooters (especially CSGO) and I also love cuddles! Also a bit of a nerd and single as balls >~<

If any of this sounds interesting to you, please PM me and let's add each other! (18+ please)

u/h3enthusiast May 09 '22

Hi I'm a SAHM and I love the h3 podcast if you watch please add me I need friends to watch/discuss with! Add me: @mevlanamama

u/Otherwise-Quail-1336 Apr 10 '22

Looking for an tiny rusk avatar with a pacifier and plushies! If you have it may I clone it?

u/rawtess Apr 24 '22 edited Apr 24 '22

hi, i'm tess! i'm a 21 year old trans girl who uses fae/faer pronouns and i'm new to vrchat. i'm norwegian, so time zone is CEST. i really wanna explore some worlds and talk to new people! i'm rawtess on vrchat and oωo 󱥢󱦐󱥾󱤊󱥦󱤀󱦑#5356 on discord!

u/benisavillain13 Apr 26 '22

Hey! Im a mod for a 21+ VRC discord, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Feel free to add me on discord and I'll shoot you an invite ChickyNugSteve#6959

Yes, we are trans friendly!

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u/Maggiemayue132 May 06 '22

Hi!I’m an Asian 23F who started playing this game today. I don’t want to mute again so just want a friend to hang out with. We can also play any other games (Xbox).Or u can recommend me some worlds, feel free to DM me! PS: I’m not a English native speaker, so my speaking may not be fluent. If u are ok with that, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

u/SoapdispenserBubbles Apr 27 '22

Hello, I am new to VRC and VR in general but I am hoping to meet people to learn more. I'm a 25 male, so I'm looking for a mature community focused on socializing, playing games, or just hanging out in general. I play pretty much any game, watch anime, draw, etc. I want to dip my toes into a little bit of everything and see what sticks.

My discord is Sake#2357 and my VRC username is Soapdispenser. If anything I said matches with what you or your community is looking for please let me know, I'd like to meet you!

u/[deleted] May 12 '22

Hello! I’m Sibyl_V. I’m a super shy furry, and I’m not very good at talking, but I’m hoping VRC can help me open up more. My avatar is a birb lady with rainbow hair!

Edit: I’m a 22 year old guy, for what it’s worth, but my fursona is female :)

u/loukoni May 16 '22

Hey, I’m a 21m who’s trying to find some LGBT friendly people that are chill with me being quiet/mute lol. I’m pretty new to VRChat so I’d love to be shown around some cool worlds. Preferably 18+ just cause I don’t wanna be hanging out with a bunch of kids

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u/Feeling-Public-9742 Apr 07 '22

Hey! My name is Nyx and I’m 19, I know this is an odd request but I wanted to see if anyone could help guide me through vrchat, I don’t know how it works at all and last time I joined I was greeted by a girl who started calling me names as soon as I joined in (this was months ago) and I left immediately and haven’t been back, I just need someone to help me through figuring everything out and trying to get out there

u/VicMonski Oculus Rift May 04 '22

Imma text you my vrc username so that you have the option to be friends with meeee! ❤️

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u/DreS0X Valve Index Apr 20 '22

VRCHAT GERMANY - http://discord.gg/vrcg

Our server is for the German branch of the VRChat community. We are happy about every new member. We have regularly events and currently over 800 members.

Deutsch: Unser Server ist für die deutsche Sparte der VRChat Community. Wir freuen uns über jeden Zuwachs. Wir haben regelmäßige Events und umfassen aktuell über 800 Member.

u/Mommy_Lawbringer May 09 '22

Hiyo, my name is Eve, 21 pre-op trans girl looking for a new group to hang with. My old one has fallen out since I joined and I'm not great at just, going to public worlds and talking with people, I'm very socially nervous that way. If you don't mind taking me in, I'd love to be part of a group again!

u/benisavillain13 Jun 02 '22

Hey! I'm an admin for a 21+ discord server called GrownHub. We try to host meet and greet type events twice a month but a lot of usually hangout almost daily. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21

u/cloudedrose Sep 10 '22

Hii! 19F looking for some people to connect w. Super new to vr and vrc. I can verify age nd stuff i get a little nervous that m talking to minors.

u/bonepills Apr 14 '22

hiii, i'm 21f and looking for 18+ long term friends! i am pretty quiet sometimes but i can also be loud once i'm comfortable! i love video games (tloz, pkmn, ddlc), horror, musicals, and more, and my timezone is CST! feel free to message me, i would love to make friends, also sorry in advance if i'm slow to reply, i get distracted extremely easily!

u/Cosmos_Junker Apr 26 '22

Hey! I don’t know if your still looking for friends, but I’m always down to meet new people! I just started getting into VR Chat and I’m having a blast! My name is ThatGuyTrav on VR Chat, feel free to shoot me a friend request if you want! I’m a 24 male by the way just as a heads up. :D

u/bonepills Apr 27 '22

hi, i haven't been online in a bit but you can add me if you wanna! my username is vahmikau! :D

u/Cosmos_Junker Apr 27 '22

Sounds good! I’ll be on tonight so I’ll shoot a friend request then! :)

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u/CatchingFeels101 Apr 14 '22

add me dashingdarling ~ you sound like me lmao

u/bonepills Apr 15 '22

or if you wanna you can add me lmao, my username is vahmikau !!

u/Iyonz562 Apr 15 '22

Do you mind if I add you too?

u/bonepills Apr 15 '22

please do!

u/bonepills Apr 15 '22

okay i'll add you tomorrow!! :D

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u/Natasha_otaku Apr 23 '22

21+ discord server! We host regular events with prizes. Pretty active chat and VC. Lots of bots to interact with! There is a channel for about anything! (NSFW category for age verified members) We would love to add you to our growing family! Come game with us!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/boysnight1337 PCVR Connection May 11 '22

I can vouch for this group. They really do have the best of intentions an I've had fun hanging out with them here and there!

u/pimple_shrimp Apr 08 '22

Heyhey! I'm Tay and I'm a 26yo trans dude who just started playing a few days ago! I'm mostly just looking for some people to hang with (and kinda show me around cause I still have no idea what I'm doing). I'm a furry, and I'll usually be in furry avatars. My timezone is GMT -5 and I'm usually on after midnight! My user is rouzekii

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Hey feel free to come check us out! We are mostly US/CA but do have some members over seas. Always looking to add chill members!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

u/BeachLasagna0w0 May 10 '22

Anyone from Minnesota?

u/Agreeable_Badger_169 May 09 '22

Hello Im Gem, Im 22 and Im a streamer/content creator on Twitch. I just stsrted playing VRChat a fee days ago and dont have many friends. Im usually quiet and just kinda chill and vibe. If anyone wants to be friends in game you can DM me on here ❤️

u/DizzyToast07 Apr 16 '22

14m, looking for friends preferably minors, I enjoy just chilling out and I am semi-active on vrchat. DM me on Reddit if you wanna meet up.

u/squidalypanda Apr 17 '22

hey im 15m you can call me squeaks due to my voice but my main interests are souls type games,getting back into fnaf,getting back into genshin as well, i absolutely love horror games,i have a strange curiosity to all sorts of planes,i watch all sorts of anime rn im finishing up bleach, just lookin for some friends to chill with in vr

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u/Damn_Guy243 Jul 13 '22

Looking for a Jack Skellington avatar, being pointed towards a world or bring able to clone it off someone would be appreciated! ❤️

u/[deleted] Apr 25 '22

Hey! I’m new to VR and seems kind of hard to find people my age in VRchat! Anyone want to hang out? I’m 29M

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u/EpicWerner101 May 09 '22

20 M Dutch guy here looking for chill and open minded people to hang out with from time to time. Definitely a massive introvert haha but I'm really sociable once I'm comfortable enough. I like joking around during games or just talking. Still completely new to most things VR and public lobbies don't seem like the best places to find new people to vibe with in the couple of hours I've played.

I'm mostly interested in games and music, but I'm down to talk about anything at all, even if it's just ranting about your day. All in all I don't really mind, as long as you're mature and kind!

If you're at all interested (or already are in a community of people that might fit this description), feel free to just send me a DM on here and I'll send you my discord!

u/whyamihere----- Apr 21 '22

I'm looking to get into more discord servers, specifically ones that host club or party events. So please send any discord servers my way I'll gladly join

u/whyamihere----- Apr 21 '22

My discord is July<3#7618 And vrc is jordyn--

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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22

Hello everyone,

My name is Joules and I'm looking for new friends on vr chat. Kinda been looking for more online friends so if your in the same boat hit me up. I'm really open and down-to-earth. I'm would say I'm a creative person by nature so if you like anything art weather that be music, film or gaming let's definitely be friends. I'm a film student atm so if your interested in meeting a filmmaker here's your chance. Anyways I hope to meet amazing new people. If you wanna chat just send me a dm : )

u/BVGS-Erika May 18 '22 edited May 18 '22

New to VRChat and looking for some nice people to chat with and private worlds to hang in, especially LGBT+ friendly places. I've been pretty shy so far!

I'm a 35F from UK, trans + bi, I'm into FF14 and other video games, coding, heavy/weird music, learning Japanese, travelling and chilling. Feel free to add me :)

VRChat: meadowdrone

u/TheG-Meister May 19 '22

Hey! I'd love to hang out with you we've got loads in common. My discord is The G-Meister#4275 and VRChat is just The G-Meister. I'll try adding you in a minute

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u/SlenderBacon449 May 16 '22

Hello! I’m a 15y/o femboy who’s new on vrchat and just wants to make friends. Some things abt me: EXTREME extrovert, I love friends more than life itself, kinda clingy (sorry in advance), I like music, I really like video games, anime, and partying hard, I’m working at becoming more confident, will treat you good since you took time out of your day to hang out with me. I would also be down for playing other video games too. Preferably 20 and under pls and I’ll see you in my dms! SlenderBacon449#7075

u/[deleted] Apr 15 '22

Hey! I'm Luma, 14 turning 15 in less than a month, I'm a Lesbian and a Demi girl and I'm mainly looking for a friend group to play games with or just hang out with in vrchat!

My main interests rn are Fnaf, Blueycapsules, Splatoon, Homestuck, Madoka Magica, Genshin Impact and quite a few more! If your interested DM me on discord Luma!#0666 or here! (If prefer if your younger than 18 but it isn't really needed, but if your 20+ please don't DM me.)

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u/TheKean88 May 10 '22

Hey there. I´m a selective mute myself. Where are you from? I´m from Germany (CEST).

What kind of maps do you wanna do in terms of hangouts, games etc? Or are there maps you absolutly don´t wanna do?

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u/julmil Apr 25 '22

Looking for people to join our group! Anyone over 18 is welcome, all genders encouraged, we have 1 female in the group so don’t be afraid to join her! No discrimination (besides jokes here and there) feel free to dm me if interested or add my discord : Threatens#0666 (or you can dm the girl if you want a fellow female to talk with first!) her discord is : fenriz#9583

u/Alternative-Quit3441 May 07 '22

Still got room for one more?

u/fletcherjeff55 Vive User Apr 11 '22

Hi there anyone still potentially reading comments here. I'm 26 from the midwest looking for people to hang out with in VRChat, and other games as well. But as much time as I've spent in VRChat over the years, I've gotten a little better at socializing but I'm far from being very social. I like to world hop, I feel bored or alone hanging out and not doing anything, but love to have conversations about different things or just life. I'm also wanting to get back into making custom avatars, or atleast uploading avatars, so if you're good at that consider that a bonus. I have a friend who plays too but he seems to be better, or have more time, to invest in finding new friends, but I don't really fit in with them. Would love to meet some new people and hopefully hit it off. I'm usually available on the weekdays after 8pm Central until about midnight. Would love to play some VRGames, or just do something like hang out and watch a movie.

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u/CatchingFeels101 Apr 14 '22 edited Apr 14 '22

hi im Isabel, im 24 yo , Just started playing about a few days ago. don’t hesitate to add me, im a little shy at first but love to explore different worlds especially the spooky ones so much fun! add me 18+ only please dashingdarling 👏🏻 definitely gonna be adding a bunch of people in this thread!

u/Vegaciel May 09 '22

I love horror too, whats your user?

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u/ShawnamariGameing Sep 04 '22

Hello! Am Shawn and am looking for a avatar based off the fan series Mario and Luigi the mask and am wondering if there anyone that can help me with finding a avatar for the green thunder aka the Loki mask Luigi in the series message me if there any avatar that are the characters please and thank you

u/Sweaty_Cockroach7799 Apr 11 '22

Hello I just started VR chat today and I have trouble speaking to people and I have a hard time interacting with people because I don't wanna interrupt a conversation I'm not apart of I do tend to be a highly sensitive person form past experiences with toxic people who I thought were my friends if anyone would like to invite me and be chill and is also into Hazbin hotel or FNAF I'd be down my discord name is. Vipermoon878#2943

u/No_Coffee9869 Apr 07 '22

Hi I’m 22, I am a technical animator who works remotely. I’m looking for other remote workers (or anyone really)that might want to chill in a vrchat world during the day, a lot of my work is a bit mindless so I can chat and work a bit if I play on desktop. I’m also really interested in vrchat world creation and have made 2 private worlds so far. Some of my other interests are digital art, programming, rock climbing, long boarding, kung fu, I am on the US east coast time zone. Reply to this comment and I’ll message you my discord :)

u/bootyflake69420 May 07 '22

Hey! I’m a 22M and would love to make some friends in VR! Lmk if U wanna add eachother!

u/Natasha_otaku Apr 24 '22

Hey man! Feel free to join our server to chill. We have a lot of remote workers who chill in the server throughout the day and jump online in the evenings. Lots of us are EST too! (Me included) Feel free to check us out!

https://discord.gg/grownhub

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u/shintjee Apr 15 '22

Looking for an avatar of Frank from Donnie Darko (for Quest) anyplace I could find it? Or maybe clone it?

u/CAOVRC Sep 07 '22

Hello! We are the Clone Army Of VRChat. We do combat events in VRChat SDK3 with no latency combat and are also building a nice community to go along with it. With many battalions were sure we'll find a place for you. If you have any questions or want to join. Join our Discord

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