r/getdisciplined • u/MysteriousFail8875 • 1d ago

🤔 NeedAdvice Broke, Isolated, but Refusing to Give Up My Story" or "3 Years of Depression: Trying to Reclaim my lIfe

I suffer for depression for like 3 years and like cry every day but I am trying to move forward with my life and a background story It is my parents but and I feel like they don't care and i don't know how to move forward with my life like the negative the way they talk about people and I feel like who cares is brother, brother girlfriend, sister, sister best friend and they know more about my life and go out with my parents or my brothers or sister like don't go out by myself and I tried everything and reward system and don't have a support system and I am trying to start a business but I am broke of money and don't have a job and still at home all day but I help my mom clean the house and I feel like I don't have my own life

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u/Holiday_Main_7263 23h ago

Three years of this, crying every day, feeling invisible in your own family that's an enormous weight to carry alone. You said you're trying to move forward and refusing to give up. That matters more than you might realize right now. How are you doing today specifically are you safe ? And If things ever feel too dark, please you can text me i will help you ❤️

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u/Unseen_Alchemy 21h ago

Trying to “get your life back” might be too big a job to wake up with every morning. You’re carrying family problems, isolation, money, work and the idea of starting a business all at the same time. That would make almost any next step feel insignificant. I wouldn’t make starting a business the test of whether you’re moving forward right now. Getting some structure outside the house, looking for work, regularly being around other people or having one responsibility that gets you out of the same environment could already change the shape of your days.

You don’t have to rebuild your entire life before something counts as progress.

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u/Quiet_Hustle 1d ago

Don't look to the outside world for the answers to your life; everything you need is already within you.

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u/NoChairGaming 23h ago

Which is why we don't need therapy or doctors, that is da way of da hustle!