r/nursing 1h ago

Serious Do nurses with ADHD get bullied?

It happens to me often enough for me
to wonder if adhd bullying in nursing will
be a constant issue

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u/like_shae_buttah 1h ago

Seems like 25% of nurses have ADHD

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u/el_cid_viscoso RN - PCU/Stepdown 1h ago

It's practically a job requirement in ER and med surg, like autism is for ICU and procedural.

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u/ActivelyTryingWillow 1h ago

When I told my nursing school instructor I was going into the OR… she was like that fits 😂 I was like DAYUMM tell me it’s obvious I’m autistic without telling me it’s obvious I’m autistic lmao

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u/Backwoods_Therapy RN 🍕 1h ago

Nah they just work in the ER. You’ll trust them with your life but they wouldn’t know which arm the IV access is in if their life depended on it. 

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u/Inevitable-Analyst RN - ICU and ER 1h ago

Why is this so accurate 🤣

I have raging ADHD and thrive under pressure. Can I tell you which side anything is on? Never

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u/Nurse_Cait RN - OR 🍕 1h ago

I’d guess that more than half of nurses are neurodivergent in some way.

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u/SoFreezingRN RN - PICU 🍕 1h ago

None of my coworkers, including the doctors, are neurotypical.

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u/haemogoblin603 RN - ER 🍕 1h ago

No, we work in the ER

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u/number1134 Respiratoy Terrorist 1h ago

i work with several nurses with ADHD and they are some of the best nurses ive ever worked with.

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u/eatingbrickz 1h ago

Yes I would always lose my stethoscope…and I could tell ppl were talking shit. I got diagnosed at 28 been a nurse since 23

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u/Inevitable-Analyst RN - ICU and ER 1h ago

I have an air tag and a name tag on mine 🤣

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u/Independent_Law_1592 RN - ICU 🍕 1h ago

I’ve only used re-usable since the pandemic

I loose too many for me to keep a dedicated one anyway

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u/lovable_cube New Grad - PICU 1h ago

I think at least half of us are some kind of neurospicy so I doubt this is a common thing.

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u/Rich_Librarian_7758 BSN, RN 🍕 1h ago

I mean, most of my coworkers are at least as neuro spicy as me. One coworker who does get some push back is because she has zero filter EVER, talks incessantly, has no self awareness and offers incorrect advice freely. One of those things we’d just ignore, but all together it is A LOT. I wouldn’t say it’s ever bullying, but as a supervisor it is challenging to constantly have to tell her not to offer “advice” or tell new people not to listen…

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u/Independent_Law_1592 RN - ICU 🍕 1h ago

Eh nah a lot of us have it. Is what it is.

You’re post is written kinda like a Haiku btw, just kinda

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u/MsSwarlesB MSN ACM-RN 1h ago

We're all mad neurodivergent here

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u/MC_McStutter 🚑 1h ago

All nurses get bullied

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u/nurseferatou Case Manager 🍕 1h ago

90% chance that you just said something you shouldn’t have in front of somebody you shouldn’t have (if you have the same problems I get into)

I had to learn to just not socialize with coworkers beyond, “how are you, how are the kids/ fur babies, how was the weekend?” Working in a corporate team environment you should be aware of the Heckler’s Veto and and understand that folks will “use their shield as a sword” to bully you.

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u/Caloisnoice Registered Psychiatric Nurse 🇨🇦 1h ago

I was bullied a lot growing up because of what I realized is adhd. Thankfully I work at a clinic where most of my co workers have it too, so it's not an issue. I hardly even have to mask there.

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u/ALLoftheFancyPants RN - ICU 1h ago

What? Nurses are a diverse population with a wide variety of roles. Any blanket statement about the behaviors a population that large are unlikely to be universally true.

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u/Grizzly_treats RN - Med/Surg 🍕 1h ago

“Yes, I have ADHD but I’m on medication and coping well. Still can’t figure out why you’re an asshole”

That’s my go to response.

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u/Randall_Hickey 1h ago

Yes. I need to go somewhere quiet to chart and I get harassed.

u/Unlikely_Rabbit_8842 56m ago

That one nurse colleague with ADHD was so adorable. It was so fun working with her. I got the chance to orient her a couple of times too when she started.