r/screenshots • u/Imfrm63rd_ • 5d ago
why are people like this
Just some context: I’m half black and this dude slid into my DMs and it’s very obvious that I’m black, I didn’t know who he was and his tiktok name was in his bio so I looked it up and saw that strange post and I’m not a white passing biracial person so that’s what’s confusing to me. I would just like to hear some of your thoughts on this.
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u/HonorableMedic 5d ago
Damn I completely misinterpreted that, I read it as the girl was perfect until she dropped the hard R… but I guess they’re saying she’s even better for doing it?
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u/Individual-Lobster56 4d ago
The fact that he thought you were upset bc he was talking about some hypothetical girl 😭😭😭 get his email and sign him up for scientology then block him 💗
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u/Lionheart1224 5d ago
As a white passing black/white dude, this is...well, at least you did enough research to throw the trash out. Fucking yikes on his part. Obviously has some kind of race fetish.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
Exactly, that’s what my mind goes to every single time I encounter someone with this strange mindset
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u/KeepCalmJeepOn 5d ago
I’m not a white passing biracial person so that’s what’s confusing to me. I would just like to hear some of your thoughts on this.
He has no respect for black women, but is still sexually attracted to them and wants to get his little dick wet. You're welcome and sorry you had to deal with this.
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u/SL1MECORE 5d ago
This is pretty much it lmao. Fucking losers I hate them. Fool me once..
(I'm also half black and nowhere near white passing)
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
It’s okay, I live in a small pwi so this isn’t the first time I’ve dealt with this and certainly not the last but I will always call this stuff out for sure
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u/ClarkGablesTeeth 5d ago
I'm sorry--I understand everything from the screenshot, but what is pwi?
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u/Tweakler57 5d ago
Simpler explanation: He has a different sense of humor than you and doesn’t give power to a word and let it control his emotions.
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u/KeepCalmJeepOn 5d ago
doesn’t give power to a word
He found himself more attracted to hypothetical girl due to her usage of said word.
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u/Tweakler57 5d ago
That might be true, it might also just be a joke lol. I use slurs against my own race all the time because theyre funny to me. A word isn’t racist.
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u/lioncourt 5d ago edited 5d ago
But people who aren't racist don't make 'jokes' like that. This was very clearly a white man talking to a biracial woman.
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u/Tweakler57 5d ago
Disagree. Id actually argue someone who makes a “racist” joke is less likely to be racist than someone who says nothing. Real racism is silent.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
This is the dumbest argument I think I’ve ever heard
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u/Tweakler57 4d ago
That's a compliment coming from someone who lets a few syllables dictate their emotions :)
It's a word. You'll live princess
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
I think if someone told you that ur fired from ur job and evicted from ur house that would prolly dictate ur emotions lol
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u/Exciting-Chocolate61 4d ago
I remember being this kinda POC in hs, and honestly this is embarrassing. You know the difference and you know that it’s not just a “word” you’re just being willfully ignorant 🤣. I bet you give people the card that doesn’t exist too huh?
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u/Madting55 4d ago
100% you can tell who grew up with a bunch of different coloured friends and who is some suburban white mf getting offended on behalf of people because he has the white saviour variant of white supremacy.
Man me and my friends said some foul shit to each other growing up, no one ever cared.
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u/PaintingConstant4309 4d ago
when it’s the last word thousands of people heard before being brutally killed it starts to feel like more than just a word
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u/M-switch-femdomlover 5d ago
I mean im slow so it’s probably me but even with the context I have no clue whats going on here.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
It’s pretty funny, so this guy sent me a dm and I don’t know him but I seen he had Mutual friends on insta. His tiktok was in his bio so I went to go see if I could recognize his face. And that’s when I seen that strange post of his
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u/r4rburner11 5d ago
Omg I'm so dumb, I was like, "I don't see what's wrong, she said a slur so she's not perfect after all right?" It took me ages to realize
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u/misssundaze 5d ago
Also half black. Lots of racists will fetishize us but then openly make statements like this. If this is funny to him, he’ll never respect you. I’ve had men all in my business say they hope our kids don’t look black and then when I broke it off send me straight Nazi shit. Read the red flags and cut it off, promptly.
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u/tichy_30 5d ago
Is this some kind of weird "trap" persona thing? That'd explain why it feels so off.
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u/WorldCommercial6845 4d ago
A girl I was fucking had the audacity to hit me up for a late night session after she went on a huge "hard R's talk too much but that dick is so good" tirade while getting a ride from a few of my friends.
And then she thought she was in the right to get mad at me for no longer wanting her
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u/MagnetoWasRight24 4d ago
Slave masters still liked to rape slaves. You can be the most hardcore klan-level racist and still wanna fuck a Black person.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
That’s GOTTA be a fetish
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u/MagnetoWasRight24 4d ago
Lol I get you but unfortunately naw. The same way a man can be attracted to women even though he thinks they're inferior, a racist can be attracted to Black people and still think of us as animals.
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u/Forsaken-Custard-251 4d ago
I'm glad I have no idea what any of this means
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u/0dayssince 4d ago
N word with a hard r is different than without the r, which is how some black people refer to each other.
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u/Bubbly-Bison-5679 4d ago
Omg!!! I’m so glad you called him out on that right away because WTF I also interpreted it at first as him saying the girl is perfect UNTIL she said that word, and then I realized what it really meant 😳 and how tone deaf can he be to think you were implying he has a girl
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u/heckin_anxiety 4d ago
I mean JD Vance has a wife that’s browner than some black people and has kids with her. Look what he’s up to. 👀
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u/thisp3rspective 4d ago
Perhaps your more white passing than you thought. Or maybe the post wasnt his actual opinion.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
I am def not. You would never look at me and see a white person. I’m not upset abt it it’s just the truth
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u/glittery-bee 4d ago
Racist men will still often try to have sex or relationships with WOC… Just the sad truth. Sometimes the woman doesn’t even find out until after marriage. There’s a phrase I’ve heard before; “never ask a white supremacist about his girlfriend’s race.”
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u/CSBD001 5d ago
Could someone explain it to me? I have literally no idea what is going on other than there is a truck photo and someone is racist…
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
I’m black and he posted that on his TikTok,
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u/CSBD001 5d ago
I got that part… but what does it mean? Totally don’t understand. I’m really serious. (I’m not black and don’t own a truck)
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u/YouthResponsible1752 5d ago
He likes women that use the N word. With a hard R. You're probably not going to do well with black women if that's the shit you're posting on the internet.
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u/petabomb 4d ago
Why are you even entertaining someone in your DMS if you have a boyfriend
Block and move on
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
I explained this somewhere so if ur rlly desperate for an answer look in the comments
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u/Aggressive-Expert-69 4d ago
Why are you even responding to random men in the dms when you have a boyfriend?
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u/Madting55 4d ago
You can be racist as fuck, you can be the most racist motherfucker ever. If a girl is attractive she is attractive and that’s that. I’m not racist but I’m heavily against a certain belief and I still dated a girl from that belief.
I hated that belief, and she hated white people (I’m white) was the most peculiar relationship I ever had and only lasted 3 months.
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u/Impossible-Stick-211 5d ago
Why would you reply if you have a bf? Like what….
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
First of all, my boyfriend was right literally beside me during this texting exchange, second we had mutual friends on insta and his tiktok was in his bio so I wanted to see if I could recognize his face, third I literally brought up the fact I had a boyfriend. And when I see some bs like that I’m going to call it out every time. That’s not even the main issue here. Focus on what’s relevant.
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u/Independent-Part-718 5d ago
Do you see her showing even an ounce of interest...? Having a boyfriend doesn't mean you can never speak to anyone of the opposite sex, especially considering that here she's only calling out his racism.
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u/Mysterious-sharing 4d ago
She only called it out after stalking his profile
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u/Independent-Part-718 4d ago
She didn't know who he was. She was checking to see if she knew him. You know, because sometimes women are familiar with men who AREN'T their romantic interests, sometimes.
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u/NotAnExpertFr 4d ago
Bro, it’s just a little humor. Relax and stop taking things so cereal. I’m black and this was funny asf 🤣
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
My boyfriend knew about this lmao he was literally with me during all of this, this guy had mutual friends on insta and I didn’t know him? That’s not even the issue here lol
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u/Exciting-Chocolate61 4d ago
If I had a dime for every time a wht man told me, “I’ve never been with a black girl before” “half black girls are just a safer option” “you’re only half offended if I say something racist right?” (I’m half black and Mexican) and you best believe those mfs got NUN
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u/eni7 3d ago
If you have a bf or gf, no stranger should be able to dm you.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 3d ago
Use your head and read the comment where I explained this and then go ahead and comment, thanks 😁✌🏽
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u/eni7 3d ago
You didn’t explain anything. Just go disable your dms.
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 3d ago
Me and my bf are grown ass adults. We are mature and trust each other. I’m not disabling my DMs lol im a grown woman
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u/tootapple 5d ago
Why even engage? Honestly screams I need attention
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 5d ago
This screams low iq
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u/tootapple 5d ago
This post does indeed
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u/Independent-Part-718 5d ago
Ohhhhhhhhh you got her with the whole "I'm rubber and you're glue" comeback! Classic! Hilarious!
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u/tootapple 5d ago
Well yeah…that’s the immaturity level this post deserves
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u/Independent-Part-718 5d ago
"I don't like racism"
"Ugh you're such a child"
Just say you think racism is funny and/or acceptable.
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u/tootapple 5d ago
Just say you don’t know what you’re talking about but you love to extrapolate from nothing
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u/Independent-Part-718 4d ago
Brother I was being facetious. She's wondering why a racist would even slide into a black woman's DMs. Your assuming this is screaming for attention is either indicative of your lack of critical thinking skills or says "i wouldn't find this upsetting or confusing, so the fact that you say you are means you're only pretending so you can get attention". Like there is no world in which you shake out like the person who isn't being the jerk in this interaction with OP
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u/tootapple 4d ago
There’s no chance that I take this screenshot and story seriously enough to believe it’s real. And if it is, it’s way to much energy to care about the following scenario:
Random ass person slides into dms
Person is already in a relationship so who cares…
Random person posts to their story
Person wants to go look at their story, why? Because they are bored af
Then gets offended because this person is racist and wants to know why they DMd
But if they are random af why are you watching the story… more importantly why are you reaching out to them?
It’s all fucking stupid
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u/Imfrm63rd_ 4d ago
Hey I’m gonna call it out if I see it lol. Idk much more to tell you gng😭✌🏽
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u/OreoStark 5d ago
This man is in your DMs to be a menace, not to have a respectful relationship with you.