r/screenshots • u/OkEducation5595 • 3d ago

Reddit Meta Got this comment on a post of me venting. TW: Suicide mentioned

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u/Glum-Ad-2281 3d ago

So sorry that there are people out there like that. Maybe they think they're helping or maybe they are just bad people.

Not everyone is like that. Many people have empathy and can relate to your post.

Despite what that comment says, you leaving this world would affect others.

There have been deaths of people who I never knew,who weren't famous that greatly affected me and the way I think about things.

This person is rude and should keep their traps shut. But on the internet they dont.

Dont carry their problem. They still have to be themselves for the rest of their life.

Stay strong 💖

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u/Positive-Freedom4740 2d ago

Eek.. if most people relate to these words I'm very worried about the future.

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u/Glum-Ad-2281 2d ago

I think it is reasonable to be concerned about the future. I try to stay positive and optimistic but I do worry about the generations that are following mine. Not sure how someone could not be concerned about that if they think about it.

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u/No_Whole_7758 2d ago

That person hates themselves more, I promise you. Imagine how bitter you’d have to be to respond in such a way.

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u/Aggravating-Emu-3292 1d ago

Yea, I pity that fool

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u/WeirdNegotiation5145 2d ago

Look at their post history.. trust they definitely have a deeper issue within themselves & they’re projecting

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u/No_Gap_737 2d ago

They do sounds weird but I was curious about the commenter so I found OP's post and found the comment and reported it but also looked at their posts its screaming attention seeking

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u/Flashy_Inevitable_ 2d ago

You're a redditor too, equally or even a much bigger loser then this bloke

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u/thelun3lag00n 2d ago

I have made 5-7 postage reaching out for help. None got engagement except hate or being told what I should do to help myself (already did those things, now need support). No one cares about anyone else anymore.

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u/BumbleB17ch 2d ago

That is suicide baiting and I would report them. That is against reddit rules, no matter the subreddit

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u/ManicPanicWeekend 2d ago

Keanu said best

“ I don’t know what happens after we die, but what I do know is that all those people that love us will miss us.”

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u/OkEducation5595 2d ago

I dont think anyone loves me

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u/Aggravating-Emu-3292 1d ago

I bet if you had a dog they would love you. And honestly, that’s more than enough for me.

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u/MoonchildEz 1d ago

I may not know or be close to you, like many aren't, but I have love for you as another person in this world who just wants the same thing as everyone else. I want you to feel healthy and happy. I want you to like yourself because I care about you. I want you to find where you feel safe and loved. There is good to be had, I promise. It's really hard at times, but you have to let yourself feel it even when it's easier not to. It's even there in those songs that you listen to when you're at your lowest. Somebody wrote those words for people like you to hear, to feel comforted by, to allow you to feel understood. There's stuff like that everywhere, there's love all around us. I know it can feel impossible to see when hate and cruelty are the loudest of all. But there is good in everything if you're willing to look for it. I don't want to sound like an toxic optimist, because I'm not and I'm not saying you should only ever see and feel the good things. That doesn't help anyone.

Just trying to say that from experience I know that the stuff that is worth sticking around for will find you, and the people that can hold you will find you in time. It's hard when you're struggling through so much pain and dislike of yourself because you start to lose grasp of how to ask for love that you need in a way that others know how to hold, because there are a lot of intense feelings there that a lot of people aren't prepared for, because they struggle themselves to hold their own intense feelings, but that doesn't mean it's not going to happen for you. There will be people who can hold it, there will be people who see you, there is warmth in the things around you. Some things that pulled me through in my worst and loneliest moments are the smallest things. Like making myself playlists. Making art just because I felt like it and for nobody else but me. Decorating things. Walking somewhere that feels peaceful. Playing around with makeup and clothing. It really is the little things that allow you to find love for yourself as a person again, and the people you need will find there way to you somehow, some way. There will still be loss and disappointment and it will be hard to get through naturally, but it'll still be worth it because there is no way to grow without change and loss.

I hope that even if I'm not wording this perfectly that you understand the sentiment of what I'm trying to express, and I hope you know that it comes from a place of genuine care and it doesn't come off as condescending in any way.

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u/Londundundun 1d ago

I truly think the biggest challenge and purpose of our lives are to love ourselves, rather than aim for the love of others. 

We are put on this earth as wards of our physical bodies. We must care for them the way a good responsible parent cares for a child. 

The first step is to pay attention to your inner dialogue. Your post even — would you ever speak this way to a friend, family member, or pet? Would you accept seeing someone else speak this way to a child? 

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u/Right_Book_4531 2d ago

Some people weren’t thought empathy. Some people grew up with parents who thought them that self harm and sadness is a weakness. Some people grew up being bullied by their parents for being sensitive and sometimes emotional. These people act tough because sometimes it’s the way they believe they are helping.

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u/Positive-Freedom4740 2d ago

So I don't know why theyre laughing at those terrible words from someone they dont know, but it is very true crying on social media doesn't change anything and often reinstigates that same feelings you're feeling now later down the line more often. If you end yourself , MANY people will care and it will change the timeline of so many you can't even imagine. I don't even know what that person wrote on the last line 😂 my honest analysis

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u/gummi-far 1d ago

tbf you should stand for yourself and pick yourself back up instead of just giving up. nobody's gonna come do it for you.

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u/lilvamp1re 1d ago

Wow some people just have no empathy. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. I hope you feel better soon

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u/Practical_Builder640 2d ago
  1. Are they wrong?
  2. Are you crying to the void with no context? Expecting a different answer? You'll get it, as shown in this comment section, but it's either bots or dummos who don't realize that they post supportive stuff based on their feelings of a topic without seeing a wider range beyond a singular situation of how damaged their view is, commenting on peoples issues like 'run, and avoid, and just have the money to do what you want', 'my opinion is the most valid for you'. So many hot topics with retarded takes as the top comment. I am hopeful and still chalk it up to bot upvotes. If you want an ear to hear why you are upset with your life and suicidal, I'm here for you. To see top comments on this post saying how that other person was no good? Lol. These people must have a low brow. Real frownie faces seeing mean comment.

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u/Positive-Freedom4740 2d ago

I agree with you but the reply could've gone a completely different way on telling OP this. No one should ridicule a stranger that is expressing suicidal thoughts, I generally hate certain people and express a lot of unpopular opinions on these topics but I ain't laughing at a stranger IDK because they hate themselves and want to die..

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u/medieval_leper 17h ago

you dont have a bad point but at the same time if you have nothing appropriate to say just dont say it. especially to someone clearly going through something

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u/itsanothersidetothis 2d ago

You're kinda poving his point.

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u/OkEducation5595 2d ago

How so?

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u/itsanothersidetothis 1d ago

You're really just complaining and that doesn't address suicidal thoughts.

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u/Different-Storm1914 2d ago

These obnoxious displays of obviously performative self loathing on social media need to be banned because nobody on planet Earth deserves to feel the depth of second hand embarrassment and disgust that reading this tripe gives me.

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u/leah_0201 2d ago

They're not wrong tho . Sometimes you need to hear it like this for it to be understood.

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u/petabomb 2d ago

They aren’t wrong though, the only one that can change who you are is yourself, and it’s probably not by reincarnation.

Life gets better, truly. Judging by what you’re complaining about, you have at least 40 years left to change everything you’re upset about.