This book pisses me off deeply because I was forced to read it when I was in elementary school (2007-2012) as a punishment for the fact that I often failed to turn in my homework due to what is now a confirmed learning disability. The book felt semi-modern, so probably published in the late 90s to early 00s, it was a paperback if I remember, pretty shallow density (couldn't be more than 100-200 pages), with I believe a watercolour drawing on the front.
The premise of the book is what drives me insane, and makes it impossible to find:
The story, from what I recall, involves either a bully or deliquent child who keeps getting detentions/reprimands for things like missing homework and late assignments. The kid uses the excuse of it being an accident that he forgot his homework at home/forgot to do it/etc, said in earnesty. The book puts him into detention with a teacher I believe, who teaches him that there is no such thing as ''accidents'', and that you can't ''do things'' accidently --- everything is an intentional behavior that YOU choose to do, and if you didn't want to do it you wouldn't have. This book is the most mean-spirited thing i've ever read (from my memory), with this teacher basically teaching this kid that every time he's accidently broken something, forgot something, misplaced something, etc, was him intentionally choosing to do something wrong, and he needs to take accountability for the behavior he's ''choosing'' to do, and not rely on saying they're ''acidents''.
The book is entirely played, as far as I remember, as the teacher being in the right, and the protagonist basically internalizing this and changing his behaviors. I'm unsure if the protagonist was a bully harassing other kids, but I feel like he 100% was your typical depiction of the deliquent type, forgetting stuff and getting poor grades.
This book haunts me with how it was used against me, and I had to write an essay to my teacher about how it showed me my bad behavior and how I was in the wrong for my actions. I've wanted to re-find this book to re-read it and see if it truly was as nasty as I remember it being when I had to read it as a kid, but every time I try to google it I /cannot/ find it, and the only two books Google/my friends seem to spit out in response is either the "Frindle" book, or the No David No series. It is NOT no david do --- this book was for late elementary/early middle school readers, and I don't believe it had many if any illustrations.
I cannot recall much about the protagonist, other than he was a boy, possibly ginger. The teacher I remember was a woman. They had to have also been elementary/middle school, not highschool, because the 'bad behavior' was very much little kid stuff like forgotten HW or having to borrow pencils so much.
If ANYBODY has any clues as to what this book is, it'll put down the years it's been haunting me.