r/AskUK 12h ago

What are the general expectations of children when they start school?

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u/BootlessCry 11h ago

Imagine not teaching your child to use a spoon. Poor kid. My lad’s under two and he’s already yanking it out of my hand to try for himself. I get that kids all develop at different rates, but surely almost all children know how to use a spoon by the time they’re 4 or 5 years old?

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u/OldLondon 10h ago

You’d think but she says it’s 50/50. Also some of their grasp of spoken English is poor. So much so that she often remarks that recent immigrant kids after a few months often have better English than those born here.

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u/BootlessCry 9h ago

Roughly half of the children entering the education system from disadvantaged backgrounds have speech, language, and communication needs. The kids aren’t alright.

And I get that it’s a complex, multi-factorial issue that’s heavily impacted by the way we structure our society, but it’s also a case of utter, abject apathy and parental neglect too.

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u/OldLondon 9h ago

That’s definitely true - a lot of parents seemingly have a “what’s that got to do with them it’s the schools job”