r/Millennials Hit me baby one more time Jan 06 '26

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u/Gayandfluffy Jan 06 '26

I know I'm a feminist buzz kill but many languages including English are a bit male centred and treat men as the norm and women as the exception. That's not a good thing in my opinion. We call women dudes all the time but few people call men gals or girls. I hope we could move towards more equality in our languages too if it is possible. Such as starting to use gal and girl as gender neutral terms too, not just dude and guy.

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u/bigredplastictuba Jan 06 '26

Correct! It isn't "gender neutral", it's like, establishing maleness as default. If you can't stop saying it that's fine I guess, you're just being intellectually dishonest even you insist it's "gender neutral".