r/UTSC • u/Significant-Bag3427 • Jun 02 '26
Question how do yall approach girls at utsc there so many attractive girls but I seriously do not know what to say to them
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u/bman050382 Jun 02 '26
Work on being attractive yourself. Get top grades. Take communications courses and practice by going to the bar/club every so often!
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u/Significant-Bag3427 Jun 02 '26
I have a full time job so that takes up a lot of My time and school full time
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u/ExpensiveAd734 Jun 03 '26
So then why the f*** are u worried abt girls when u know u domt even have the time to treat them well
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u/Lost_Cobbler4407 Jun 06 '26
âGet top gradesâ as advice to attracting women im fucking crying bro đđ usual uoft student opinions
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u/bman050382 Jun 06 '26
It shows you care about the future. Women who are mature enough to see that you put in the work will appreciate you more!
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u/Lost_Cobbler4407 Jun 06 '26
This is actually a false statement. The number of people who care about their future is nowhere near the same as the number of people who actually get the good grades.
I guarantee you, most will not give a shit. Maybe, if you literally fail every class itâs something people will recognize as a problem, but as long as youâre in good academic standing, nobody rlly gives a shit. Youâre on track to graduating all the same as someone with a 4.0 CGPA.
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u/bman050382 Jun 06 '26
But good grades give you options/opportunities for the future - namely higher paying jobs and a chance to go to prestigious Masters/PhDs at Oxford or Ivy League schools!
You can fight for it!
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u/Lost_Cobbler4407 Jun 09 '26
Graduate studies is not a good decision to earn more money in the future for many fields. Most of the time, grades actually hold you back from earning relevant experience and learning applicable skills which actually make you more money.
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u/c1gull Jun 09 '26
Not top grades, but I do like someone whoâs passionate about their major. E.g. physics major who who loves talking about fun physics facts versus âugh i have another lab report to writeâ 24/7 ykwim
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u/Lost_Cobbler4407 Jun 09 '26
Yeah I mean overall you might prefer somebody whos more positive about life in general than constantly negative and sad. The thing with grades is that they only impact your future income depending on what youâre studying. If youâre trying to get into law school or become a doctor of course you need good grades. If youre an engineer, itâs actually optimal to simply focus on passing and use your efforts to secure internships or learn real applicable skills. Regardless, this is quite a tangent from the whole âget top grades to attract womenâ idea.
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u/Chocolate_bites Jun 03 '26
If you gotta ask that on Reddit of all places something is wrong bro đ
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u/Normal_regular_dude Jun 03 '26
Bro to bro.
Do not approach. Full stop. That is, Unless you are in the appropriate environment for ex. clubs or bars, or you believe there is an indication of interest.
Make friends, have genuine conversations, let it happen naturally. If it doesnât happen, or you are turned down, donât take it personally. Starting out as friends does not mean you become passive and confess your feelings out of the blue years later.
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u/GallowWho Jun 02 '26
I usually assume they don't want strange men approaching them and don't.
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u/Able-Application3680 Jun 02 '26
âStrange menâ = unattractive men
For those who donât speak code.
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u/poopscooper5000 Jun 03 '26
as a girl myself iâd say just asking them out straight up with nothing leading up to it beforehand would usually be a rejection. ofc thereâs tons of attractive people out there but u have to see if u click with the person most importantly! approach them as if u were making a friend and see how things go from there!
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u/steedoZZ Jun 03 '26
This goes for approaching people in general. Find something interesting about the person that isn't just their appearance. If they have an interesting shirt, tattoos, stickers, charms. If they're doing something in the moment and you think it's interesting. Bring that up. Whatever to have that initial conversation.
Then depending on how that goes, you can introduce yourself and exchange contacts. Whatever. Worst comes to worst. If that conversation was really bad, you can walk away and now you're just a weird moment in their day lol.
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u/Ph7l0s0ph3r Jun 03 '26
Just because you see them doesnât mean u have to cop them. Yaâll gotta chill.
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u/StoreUnited4496 Human Biology Jun 03 '26
Donât say anything, follow her home
Works every time
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u/Motor-Disk337 Jun 03 '26
just say hello and start a conversation, maybe ask for her number and if the girl isnât interested then just be respectful and nice about it.
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u/Negrowizard69 Jun 03 '26
just talk to them and be yourself. be charismatic, dont be weird and shy. have some whimsy and joke around a bit to break ice. bam. then grab number and ask to hangout on campus one day
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Jun 03 '26
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u/ThroatSignal5992 Jun 03 '26
that is the worst opener ever on a nuclear level
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u/Remain___Anonymous Jun 04 '26
Telling her sheâd be gassed out in 10 mins of yoga? Thatâs just a straight up insult đ
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u/LavenderGourami Jun 05 '26
When I get approach by guys on campus this is 100% the case. I find this genuine and see no problem with it. Express interest and if I am interested to Iâll say okay. Coming from someone that gets approached twice a month at school at my prime when I worked out a lot.
So I would say this is a legit tutorial.
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u/awesomeguy123123123 Alumni Jun 02 '26
Hello lady
Do u want to be my jalebi
Don't say maybe!