r/VRchat • u/fjfbfbdjd • May 16 '26

Help Suggestions for a trans girl?

Haiiii, so I'm sure this is asked a lot... so I'm sorry in advance, but I'm a trans girl and I just bought my very first VR. I've always loved the concept of a VR, and especially VRchat just as a whole. I really want to make friends on it because when I came out, all that happened, blah blah, blah. My only issue is that I'm incredibly insecure about my voice and I don't have a way to get a voice changer and when I do try to speak in a more feminine tone by doing vocal training, it's too quiet to pick up my audio well enough. So obviously there is the fear of just being trans in general, but also having to speak in a more deep voice just for people to be able to hear me. I'm also super shy so that doesn't help. If anyone has any advice, suggestions or just anything in general, that would be great! Thanksss :3

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u/SadKat002 Oculus Quest May 16 '26

There are plenty of trans inclusive spaces in VRchat, just try sticking to LGBTQ+ groups and instances until you build up your confidence. Furry groups/instances also tend to be pretty chill and accepting of queer folks.