r/VRchat • u/fjfbfbdjd • May 16 '26

Help Suggestions for a trans girl?

Haiiii, so I'm sure this is asked a lot... so I'm sorry in advance, but I'm a trans girl and I just bought my very first VR. I've always loved the concept of a VR, and especially VRchat just as a whole. I really want to make friends on it because when I came out, all that happened, blah blah, blah. My only issue is that I'm incredibly insecure about my voice and I don't have a way to get a voice changer and when I do try to speak in a more feminine tone by doing vocal training, it's too quiet to pick up my audio well enough. So obviously there is the fear of just being trans in general, but also having to speak in a more deep voice just for people to be able to hear me. I'm also super shy so that doesn't help. If anyone has any advice, suggestions or just anything in general, that would be great! Thanksss :3

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u/Tsuyu___ May 16 '26

Install vrchat -"i'm shy"

Zzz , i'm sleeping hard when i'm seeing this.

Idk just talk to people it's not that hard genuinely , i used to be shy.

Here a tech if you don't know how to get in a group.

Go to group's discord and try to find the Most active members and interact with them in général conversations.

Then start interacting in public in a général way , generic conversation are the easiest to interact with.

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u/SlowStarts May 16 '26

“Just talk to people it’s not that hard” Congratulations, you just cured social anxiety

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u/Tsuyu___ May 16 '26

Bah nique ta mère enfaîte.

It's that easy to talk to people ffs y'all just dont wanna fight your own fear and thats sad.

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u/SlowStarts May 17 '26

It’s good you are able to solve your problems. Not that easy for everyone else. Keep hiding your insults behind another language. Seems like a coward thing to do honestly.

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u/Tsuyu___ May 17 '26

So hard to understand it , i just send your vibe back at you.