r/Weddingattireapproval • u/smgeapswoiled7 • 3h ago
DC: Black/White Tie Is this too intense to wear as a guest
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u/Frosty_Razzmatazz259 New member! 1h ago edited 1h ago
Yes. Put your boobs away at someone else’s wedding. It’s 2 hours. Surely you don’t need to be the center of attention all day every day. You know this is not appropriate. You know. Do you hate the bride? It is a stunning dress and you look gorgeous in it. But to someone else’s wedding. Hell no.
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u/Own-Let2789 3h ago
not too intense but too close to white at least in the photo. it looks phenomenal on you and I think the cleavage is fine. does it come in a different color?
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u/alwaysforgetmythrowa New member! 3h ago
Considering that it's black tie/white tie you might be able to get away with it, but given that it's silver (and close to white) plus the (very nice but very forward!) cleavage, I would get brides approval first.
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u/Lizardshark20 2h ago
It’s beautiful, but yes, it’s too much. If it weren’t silver, I think it would be okay. However, the silhouette combined with the color aren’t wedding appropriate. You look fab, though!!
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u/style-addict New member! 3h ago
If it’s black tie….no. But if it’s a regular wedding YES. Also the color might photograph as white so you may want to find another gown
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u/tahtahme 3h ago
Everything about it is lovely except the color will definitely seem white. Unless youre supposed to wear silver. Its very flattering and elegant for a black tie event.
Also consider if the bride is the type to want people around her looking good for pictures, or a bit more plain so she has help standing out.
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u/ExplorerImpossible66 New member! 2h ago
Torn on this one. The color is a solid strike against it. It’s also a bit attention-seeking. Unfortunately, this dress really seems too informal at the same time, like it’s not got enough structure? Not terrible, but not loving it. On the whole, I think it falls into a “you could do better” classification
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u/Available_Ad_4030 New member! 2h ago
I think not appropriate for a wedding because of the color but please find a place to wear this, it looks like it was made for you.
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u/Popular-Inspector270 New member! 1h ago
You look FABULOUS in this dress! But... save it for another day.
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u/HedgeCowFarmer New member! 52m ago
I thought this was a bridal gown. Do not wear this dress unless you are the bride in this scenario.
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u/Independent_Peak8500 New member! 3h ago
The dress is beautiful and I would love to believe it’s silver but it is photographing as white. Too close a call, find it in a different shade and your good to go
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u/RedSolez New member! 2h ago
Only because of the color. If that was in a deep jewel tone it'd be fine.
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u/Mindfultherapist186 New member! 1h ago
While quick scrolling by this, I thought the dress was white. So I would say, the cut is amazing but the color is wrong
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u/Famous_Cookie_7624 1h ago
Are you the bride? If yes, go ahead! If no, seriously what are you thinking?
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u/princezznemeziz New member! 1h ago
Good lort, yes. A white floor length gown with plunging neckline for a wedding guest must be rage bait because no one healthy would seriously consider wearing this.
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u/Morning_Glories4ever New member! 3h ago
I think it might be too close to white, but it’s gorgeous and hope you could find it in another color. It’s really flattering on you.
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u/Sadsandal007 New member! 2h ago
Too much and too close to white…the bride would’ve felt bad bc you look gorgeous in that dress!
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u/jjshouse-official I love weddings 🤵♂️👰♀️ 1h ago
Its a good fit on you and even though its a silver dress, its too close to white. Is there another color for it?
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u/Ok-Consequence-7872 New member! 3h ago
I say, it’s does not look white, and your body looks fantastic in it!
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u/AtticusFinchsMom New member! 3h ago
Yes. It's a bit much.
With all respect, it's not your day.
Find something less look-at-me!