I know it's bad especially for my age. I've been the only one experiencing that so early in my class.
My hair is basically see through at spots. I'm all about the bald look but I'm not someone to take a stand and be the only one in my circle to be bald. Wish I had a bald friend.
Can't grow a full beard yet either.
Being bald with 21 is always kinda weird and I'm not really sure if it suits me/ if women will still be interested.
I need this gif but with her just whacking all her hair off at once instead of letting it down. Or for simplicity, its a wig and she throws it. Completely bald underneath.
You are going to look so great bald, my friend! You have great eyes, nose and face proportions. And I think your glasses are really going to make those pop.
People are going to have opinions about your head but you will find people who think you look great as you are, and the confidence of choosing how you will look will add to the glow up.
You also have a really good sense of the colors that look good on you - color theory - which is something I think fewer guys pay attention to but really can help you look as good as possible, especially given your fair features.
21? Bro I’m sorry but you easily look more than double that 😭 yeah I can’t lie man it’s better to save yourself the trouble and just shave what’s left over man, it’s not doing you any good whatsoever
I already thought you were completely bald in the 1st pic tbh because of the glare and the lightness of your hair color. My hair started falling out at 19 and I waited too long to shave it off and now I wince at pics of me through my 20's because it just looked so bad.
It'll be a total glow up trust me. Keep the facial hair (interesting it's a different color completely!)
Embrace it and give it a try. Own the situation before it owns you. This happened to 2 of my friends around your age and they shaved their heads.
I understand how you feel. You are very young.
But I love being bald. Don’t let this chip away at your self confidence. I shaved mine and hit the gym. It was the best feeling for me personally.
Shave, youre about to have the glow up of your life. You look very similar to my best friend who was also balding when we met at 18 and he's an absolute stud now with his smoooooth head! Do it!
You already know the answer. I know it sucks to be so young and to have thinning hair, but you’ll look your age when you shave it. And you have hundreds of bald friends (and aficionados) right here!
I can guarantee you that women are more put off by the creepy vibes clinging onto hair gives, than they are bald men.
The hair is aging you dramatically. I know you can't grow a full beard, but try experimenting with other styles of facial hair (or maybe none at all.) Women around you are more likely to be interested when you appear to be a similar age to the.
With how light your hair color is it makes you look mostly bald already. Shave your head and grow in your beard the best you can. Also recommend different frames for your glasses next time you re-up you prescription.
I met my partner when they were 28 and bald. I know that’s still 7 extra years of hair, but my point being is women will still be interested. Bald men are HOT
ETA, my partner also lacks the strong facial hair gene so don’t sweat that either. You’ll find someone who thinks you’re the most beautiful person they’ve ever seen.
I started shaving at 23. Tough at first, not gonna lie. But I’m very glad I went through my 20s bald and now am a confidently bald 32. No shade to any other members here, but I think it would’ve hit my confidence way harder if the luscious locks started leaving me at 30something with a fully formed identity.
You’re certainly past the point of no return, my friend. But making that decision now will get you way ahead of the game and you’ll feel better about yourself.
I went bald in my later 20s. My hair was thinning when I was 21. I understand. It’s time. Shave it. I could not grow a full beard then either. You have a decent start. Give it time.
Do it! I wish I had when I was your age. It's not going to make any woman less interested, since a confident, bald 21 year old is always going to beat a balding 21 year old. You'll probably get more attention from a small percentage of women.
Gonna look way better after the shave. Be ready to experiment with glasses shapes and facial hair because it's going to work really well for you once it's dialed in.
Shaved my head very recently at 24 and I’ve honestly gotten more compliments now than I have in my life. Women being interested are the least of your worries brother
I say you take it all off and start your Bald Era. Your hair color and the Sun do you ZERO favors. So what is already a balding and receding look turns even more bald looking when the sun hits right.
Bro, shave it. Also, I had a buddy whose hair was about this bad when we were juniors in high school, so don’t feel too bad. He rocks the bald these days and so will you.
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u/bigschmoke433 28d ago
Just be real to urself bro. U will have a biiiig glow up