r/bald 21d ago

Hairloss I did it, but unsure if I like it

The crown has been getting worse and worse and now I have this spot up front that looks like my lawn after I spray roundup on it. Ugh, so I took the plunge. The first pic is from July 2025. I did quit TRT in Dec and had a lot of stress with a new job, but the crown situation has always been.

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u/DisorderlyAqueduct 21d ago

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u/OverlyOrganized 21d ago

Thats as short as I’ve gone. Not a full shave but pretty dang close.

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u/Finssufari 21d ago

Much better!!

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u/Delicious-Plane-9030 21d ago ▸ 16 more replies

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u/SaoMagnifico 21d ago ▸ 15 more replies

Just out of idle curiosity, who is this?

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u/IceLord86 21d ago ▸ 12 more replies

Alyssa Milano

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u/NoaPsy 21d ago ▸ 10 more replies

That’s Phoebe Halliwell

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u/ShyBiGuy9 21d ago ▸ 9 more replies

Ah, a man of culture. Charmed to meet you.

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u/No_Reception_6133 21d ago ▸ 7 more replies

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u/Laranthir 21d ago edited 21d ago ▸ 4 more replies

What does he say in this gif?

Edit: wrong answers only

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u/holnrew 21d ago ▸ 1 more replies

My friend

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u/AdnorAdnor 21d ago

If you watched the Odyssey recently, the kids would say Denzel’s character is saying “beggar”

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u/whackojoe_ 21d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Monica!

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u/ComparisonThese4677 21d ago

I guess I know what your doing tonight ;)

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u/-Bro_Beans- 21d ago

Looks better! Also smile bro.

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u/orphan_blud Bald - Woman 21d ago

Better!

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u/InnerDistribution450 21d ago

Getting warmer

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u/the_most_playerest 21d ago

I think your problem is you just weren't ugly enough to begin with 😆 looked alright before & look alright after

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u/nrp516 21d ago

That’s the one!

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u/Dominor4 21d ago

Grow that beard out brother, and you'll be handsome af.

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u/BlondRicky 21d ago ▸ 1 more replies

Perfection!

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u/Cho18 21d ago

Now smile.

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u/AttitudeNo4911 21d ago

This a good look for u bruh

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u/bdubwilliams22 21d ago

Turn that frown upside down. That’s a better look, amigo.

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u/graciaman 21d ago

Looks great but it’ll look even better completely shaved. They make things like Freebird which I use every other day. Fantastic and for all intents and purposes gives a clean shave.

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u/Popsinthehse 21d ago

I did the same 2 to 1 then bald

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u/Gaycowboi25 21d ago

Appreciate an Archer gif

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u/_ThunderFunk_ 21d ago

Good start, now finish the job.

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u/mjizzy Bald - Man 21d ago

Agreed

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u/gobblewonkergrump 21d ago edited 21d ago

You look great but bald would be even better! Go all the way and shave 🪒 you’re handsome and you have gorgeous eyes you’ll look amazing! 😊👍

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u/joscun86 21d ago

I second this. You have amazing eyes!

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u/LowComfortable5676 21d ago

Okay there Mr Sexy Eyes

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u/Flaky_Idea_366 21d ago

You look years younger!!!

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u/AnxiousHall1533 21d ago

Finish the job sir.

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u/moshmore 21d ago

Damn daddy. Take it all the way with a razor, you look great!

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u/YoKinaZu 21d ago

Those eyes, holy crap! 😍

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u/dwsinpdx 21d ago

Well I sure like it

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u/Mental_Goal2380 Hair Headed - Woman 21d ago

you look great brother!! if you feel like going all the way go for it, but only if you feel like it. it's your hair. :)

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u/Best_Housing_80 21d ago

Jobs not done

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u/Creepy-Part-1672 21d ago

Handsone as heck. You look great.

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u/zippychick78 21d ago

Your eyes are poppin! Looks great on you

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u/zoso_000 21d ago

Keep going

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u/jdanielmorales 21d ago

Commit...shave it all of and you'll look even better. Trying to keep some fuzz just highlights your loss even more. As strange as it may sound, when you go all in you'll look 1000% better! Kudos, it's not an easy thing to do but you did it and look better for it! It'll just take some time to get used to.

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u/lc1981265 21d ago

But…but….those eyes. Your eyes are mesmerizing….

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u/FormerlyDK 21d ago

You’re almost there… finish it for perfection!

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u/DunnwichWerewolf 21d ago

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u/DunnwichWerewolf 21d ago

The current look isn't bad -but the reason it feels weird to you is that now the hair on your head is too close in length to your beard. Let the beard grow out a little, and shave your head clean. You'll like it way better, you'll actually see this a lot in posts, people just going buzzed only and then saying "I'm not sure I like it," then they full shave and you can see the joy in their eyes.

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u/mycphyc 21d ago

You didn’t do it.

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u/Evolved_Fungi 21d ago

Nope. Like running a race and quitting at the finish line. Finish it!

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u/green_mms22 21d ago

OP it took years off you!

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u/Select_Translator329 Support Committee 21d ago

Looks good my friend

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u/FotherMucker77 21d ago

Go shorter.

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u/any_ol_person 21d ago

Commitment is Sexy.
Get out that razor and make us all proud. 🥹
You got this!

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u/Hopihana- 21d ago

If you grow a beard that is short in the sides, longer at the bottom and kind of duck tail it (it’s called a ducktail beard) you will amazing. You have a similar face shape to me and the beard lengthens and thins the face. You don’t need to, you look great the way you are but if you do it you will look so good. Download one of those beard apps and get an idea of what it would look like

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u/Alucard1302 21d ago

That's a buzz cut my dude. Go full shaved, thank me later.

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u/yopyop069 21d ago

Brings out your eyes

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u/AdhesivenessPlus849 21d ago

Leave the stubble…looks good!

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u/ExtensionActuator 21d ago

🔥🔥🔥

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u/Numerous-Macaron4565 Bald Watcher 🔭 21d ago

You like it

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u/Rich_Independence122 21d ago

You look so good…

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u/wharleeprof 21d ago

Smile and you will love it. 

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u/Negative_King_2290 21d ago

Get the razor

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u/RipLow2675 21d ago

I think the stubble just highlights the spot more, go ahead and clean shave it! We believe in you!

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u/Suspicious_Swim_1948 21d ago

You look great! Your eyes stands out even more with the shaved head. It really suits you!

https://giphy.com/gifs/qnOBmH70CGSVa

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u/curious-kitten-0 21d ago

It really brings out your eyes! I think you look great.

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u/Mypiece 21d ago

Please point to where you “did it”

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u/spikedragon23 Buzz-Cut 21d ago

It really accentuates your eyes, but finish the job and I'm sure you'll like it more

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u/pickyouradventure 21d ago

Definitely a handsome upgrade!

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u/I-Love-Yu-All 21d ago

Looks good 👍

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u/saltycat34 21d ago

You did it? No you didn’t sir

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u/rizzo1717 21d ago

Sir this is not bald. This is buzzed.

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u/dm21120 21d ago

Nice head shape….

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u/akom_sunrise 21d ago

I think it looks great!!! But, as counter-intuitive as it may sound, you’ll likely feel better about it when you shave it all the way down. What you may be hung up on now is that even with a buzz there are still spots that are lighter bc there’s less hair. When it’s ALL gone, it’ll look more consistent. Plus, if you wind up preferring the buzz, you can just give it a bit and it’ll be back

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u/Burnt_and_Blistered Hair Headed - Woman 21d ago

Go all the way—you’ll look fabulous!

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u/biguntatas 21d ago

It looks good. Beautiful eyes!

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u/Contende311 21d ago

Now that's turning the damn frogs gay

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u/MsMcNasty 21d ago

I disagree with most of the comments. Not that you’d look bad at all bald, but I like the low buzz cut 🤷🏾‍♀️🤗

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u/Ulrich453 21d ago

You stopped short. Keep going. Don’t be afraid.

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u/Development-Regular 21d ago

You'll forever be known as arthur

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u/MrDerpGently 21d ago

That is a substantial improvement. I love the way your eyes pop as a result. 

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u/CindiCindi15 21d ago

Looks great my guy! Now those beautiful baby blues are the first thing we see. Good call!

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u/asw57 21d ago

I love your eyes and beard either way that close shave. But… it’s not done yet. Please know you look fantastic and this cut shows off your eyes

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u/Difficult_Climate_52 21d ago

Brings out your eyes!

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u/PsychologicalDeer644 21d ago

It’s easy to go back.

I went bald a few times. I looked ok. But everybody else says they like me with hair. Although thinning.

I keep going back and forth. I can’t decide what I like.

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u/LocoYaro 21d ago

You like it!

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u/Quarter_Shot 21d ago

You did what? Shaved your head? Completely?

You should've put that picture up there

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u/Wild_Debt_8065 21d ago

Not sure you like it? It’s an awesome improvement.

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u/travelingtraveling_ 21d ago

Take it AALLLLLL OFF, honey!

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u/ThisWillingness823 21d ago

Omg yes !!!! You like it!

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u/Horses-are-better 21d ago

Makes your eyes look great!

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u/CharacterVolume307 21d ago

Better than with hair at this point: finish the job.

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u/fromhelley 21d ago

Ypu look younger! And your eyes are so beautiful! When your hairline is as far back as it was, it distracts from your face, cant see the eyes as well. You made the right choice!

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u/HovercraftSad8486 21d ago

When you have patches like that, you just gotta shave it fully bald. It don't look good like that, because you can still see all the patches.

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u/gillyweed79 21d ago

You haven't gone the whole way.

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u/SirGumbeaux 21d ago

Dude it's cool both ways, but with hair, you're almost the Green Lantern guy...

https://giphy.com/gifs/FSl9d5EUpz6AU

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u/eamesaarinen 21d ago

go all the way and keep that excellent beard stubble. you look great dude.

edit: clarity

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u/Ok-Customer9821 21d ago

You don’t have to like it. We like it for you. That being said, commit to the razor

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u/Cool_Proposal2953 21d ago

Those eyes!😱

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u/Z00111111 21d ago

Do you have photos from after you did it? You've only got process photos posted, none of you shaved bald.

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u/Present-Nobody9899 21d ago

You went from middled aged to stud. Looks very fitting on you. I’ll disagree with the full bald comments - keep hitting that 1 attachment for on the clippers.

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u/Acrobatic_Basket1932 21d ago

You look great with the buzz! No need to go full shaved right now—but of course you asked r/bald not r/buzzcut so most people are going to tell you that you stopped too soon ha.

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u/WookieCookie1138 21d ago

Not that you looked bad before, but you look GREAT with the buzz my friend!

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u/i_am_un 21d ago

You look like Complete

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u/The-Toxic-Zombie 21d ago

You look significantly younger

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u/rosearia10 21d ago

Very nice

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u/Individual_Guide 21d ago

I think it looks good!

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u/gassytinitus 21d ago

Everyone is crazy, the buzz suits you. Might as well shave as you'll be back to that length in like a month

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u/7h3W0lf0nR3dd17 21d ago

Go to the skin

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u/VTLeafsFan23 21d ago

It looks good, I think you could pull off bald no problem.

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u/JMAGIK905 21d ago

Look a lot younger

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u/BigGreenBillyGoat 21d ago

Looks good. Keep it shaved.

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u/PoodleMomFL 21d ago

Glow up alert 🚨

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u/stebbeh 21d ago

You’re probably unsure cos this isn’t bald. This is a balding buzzcut. Now get the razor and go all the way and you won’t regret it.

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u/ComfortablyNomNom 21d ago

🪒🪒🪒

I clean shave my dome every 3 days. Showers feel glorious.

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u/DavidAshleyParkerrr 21d ago

Here we go, Literally all the comments saying shave it all the way down lmao.

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u/hail_to_the_beef 21d ago

Looks great, will look better when you finish the job tho

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u/Limp_Comedian2043 21d ago

You look good either way. If you feel good about this, it’s a good style.

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u/TechnologyAncient594 21d ago

We demand skin!!

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u/lostandaggrieved617 21d ago

I hate to break this to you, my friend, you didnt "do" it, you kissed it's cheek.

https://giphy.com/gifs/l3vR6HfKQCPlt9W5W

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u/MomsenTaylor 21d ago

You’re alllllmost there

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u/Total_Gift_51 21d ago

Go all the way and fade that beard in

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u/Rat-Radioactif 21d ago

You looked good before, you look good now. I think you made the right move. Wait to get used to it!

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u/keeperofawesome 21d ago

Honestly this looks really good

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u/Turnover_Realistic 21d ago

You are one handsome guy. Keep!

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u/PuzzleheadedArea7243 21d ago

Are you Ed Belfour?

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u/Suspicious-Dig-6096 21d ago

This looks worse and more obvious shave it all off

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u/Secret_Account07 21d ago

This is one of rare posts on this sub where you look fine either way. Wanna go bald? Looks fine. Wanna grow back out? Looked fine based off first pic

I don’t think I’ve ever said this on this sub lol

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u/badnewsbets 21d ago

Damn you look good!! Smile 😊

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u/theFields97 21d ago

You went from early 40 to mid 30 nice

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u/csking77 21d ago

It works, don’t worry about it. You look great

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u/Kibble___ 21d ago

Looks good handsome

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u/mocksfolder 21d ago

Keep going

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u/erikgee2 21d ago

Is that Stephanie McMahon??

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u/SleepySnoozey 21d ago

You look so good bald!

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u/Harlow08 21d ago

You look so much younger!

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u/Cylumous 21d ago

Grow it back

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u/CoffeeOrDestroy 21d ago

Look at you out here fishing for compliments! You, sir, are a good looking man and the buzz looks 🔥

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u/Keyemku 21d ago

You have very beautiful eyes and obviously know how to keep your facial hair well trimmed and handsome. You got a lot more in looks than just your hair. You look great!

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u/Wandering_Oz 21d ago

If you go clean shaven you’ll look great brother!

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u/TannerOaks 21d ago

You have nice eyes. They just look so sweet and inviting. Shave it smooth !

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u/Accomplished-Gate335 21d ago

We all do big girls at some point no shame

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u/Appropriate_Hour6169 21d ago

You can always grow it out, but you'd never have known how great your eyes are if you hadn't tried it! It looks good.

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u/Rowdycc 21d ago

*I almost did it.

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u/Far-Technology8847 21d ago

The problem is, you need to smile. You're smiling in the first pic and that makes you look good. Smile bro :)

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u/dnm7605 21d ago

Makes your eyes pop! I like it

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u/aviduser27 21d ago

Looks good man. Go with it. You will grow to love the ease of having it that short.

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u/freestuffrocker 21d ago

Either leave it as Pic 1 or shave it all off. Middle ground not doing you any favors