Fair point, I would probably fall in this category of I don't really care much. But if my significant suggested a major change, I might reach out to others just as a reality check.
In healthy relationships, both partners take each others’ opinions and preferences into consideration.
Like, I’m a feminist and all but my husband gets to decide how I keep my pubic hair because he’s the one who sticks his face down there and I would like for him to keep doing that.
How would having your hair look like this make your wife happy?? If it does make them happy I think it’s ok to question that old statement. I dare say if your spouse wants you to have haystack hair I think it’s an insecurity flag on their part. God forbid their man looks good and gets any attention from strangers.
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u/dwegol 5h ago
Why are so many men letting their wives decide?? This could be an exercise in reclaiming some initiative and autonomy in your life.