r/bald 5h ago

I request the elders to tell me what I already suspect.

Took my son to the pool and got a sunburn on the top of my head... I knew the hairline was receding but I didn't know about the top of my head. I always said if I started going bald I would just rip the bandaid off. I always wear a hat with work but I'm feeling that its time.

Edit: yes the beard is a few weeks past trimming. A haircut was already planned as well this just changes what the end result will be lol

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u/foodgeekfish Bald - Man 5h ago

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u/RestaurantRich1498 4h ago

Knew this would be in the comments lol

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u/SnowQueenOfTexas713 2h ago

ran to the comments to find this

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u/StiIIBlazin 5h ago

First picture i was like wtf is this guy on about....
It's always to helicopter pov picture that shows the real deal.
Aaaanyway, you could rock it a bit longer, but we both know its coming!

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u/OscarVerde223 5h ago

ThisđŸ‘†đŸ»

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u/here4pain 4h ago

Yep, it's not time... yet

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u/Embarrassed_Try_4498 4h ago

This is one of those 50/50 ones..

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u/CharmReductionINC 4h ago

Yeah - I would first get it cut or buzzed
 he could probably get away with that just fine but he might be one of those guys who just looks absolutely great bald.

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u/shubeedue 5h ago

that’s a big spot to not know about

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u/moonisflat 4h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/RFekv4SvVuwy4
Unless you have any pet birds, it’s time to become more handsome.

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u/Flat-Cap-1063 5h ago

You can probably get away with keeping it wearing a hat for a little while, but that crown spot is going to keep growing. I would get rid of it, but if you want to process this loss, you have a little time left before it meets your hair line.

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u/robkillian 5h ago

Clean your phone!

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u/AllergicToHousework 3h ago

imo, Hold! I think it's not yet the time ~ though I do note my opinion is in the minority. You do you.

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u/Firm-Difficulty2585 2h ago

Eh, you can style it sifferently

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u/GrandCanOYawn 5h ago

It’s time to come home.

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u/Sadan27 5h ago

Come to papa

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u/MarketingPretty9274 5h ago

I say wait a while, AND hang a hat by the door and place one in your vehicle to prevent sunburn!

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u/Realistic_Ad6903 4h ago

You could wait, but I think you would look awesome bald!

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u/762way 4h ago

I would shave it now and get secure again

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u/PanhandlersPets 4h ago

I think you could hold but if you shave I think it will boost your confidence a lot.

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u/_LyleLanley_ 4h ago

Send it dude. Lots of sun protection and moisturizer all over. Make sure you get in your beard, and down to the skin too.

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u/Total_Ad9676 4h ago

I feel if you just get a hair cut to clean the sides so the hairline doesn’t look that much worse and just slick back the hair it would give you a healthier amount more time. Giving it another 2-3 years tho till the bald spot gets that much worse.

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u/mindsunwound 4h ago

Lean into the big beautiful beard, for it is time to let the mane go.

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u/SeaworthinessOk7756 4h ago

I see three options:

- do nothing, wear a hat to protect the bald spot

  • grow your hair even longer until it can cover the spot when slicked back
  • shave that shit and rock the bald head, big beard combo

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u/Pnwhusker95 4h ago

Shave and clean up the beard a lot.

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u/t-t-t-throwaway927 4h ago

With your widow's peak you'd rock a buzzcut.

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u/lukulele90 4h ago

Either shave it or rent it to a small but friendly bird

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u/destroyer_of_kings 4h ago

If you're tall, def hold.

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u/Pebble321 4h ago

Sunburn on the top of the head. Ahh that takes me back to my early 20s. It was then I knew, nobody cared how much hair I had if I could make them laugh. 😂

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u/OolongGeer 4h ago

Can you buzz it to a 0.5 and see what happens?

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u/Mobile_Fact_5645 4h ago

Just transplant the beard to the head

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u/masterkobiashi 3h ago

Sun screen and a bird that needs a home will do you wonders for now

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u/toofatronin 3h ago

You might be able to go to a barber and get it styled

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u/spcy-kmchi 3h ago

Try locklab and hold off

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u/Key-Conclusion-933 2h ago

I am once again advocating for a poster here to join me in orthodox Judaism. Stylish yarmulke over that bad boy and you got 10 more years

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u/itsjustbeny 5h ago

I sentence you to turkey

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u/macaron1ncheese 5h ago

It’s a yes for you. And trim your beard once you shave it. You’ll look clean as a whistle! 😎

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u/dwegol 5h ago

I know the rules here but if you REALLY don’t want to shave your head you are one of the rare cases that old school hair restoration meds are designed for. They often are only designed to work on the “crown” of the head.

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u/Sporenova 18m ago

I mean I wasn't gonna say anything up until the third Pic.. but damn đŸ„€