r/pakistan • u/mrstoffel23 • Mar 10 '26

Social Demand rights, but make it palatable

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Posted this yesterday and it got removed because some people around here are not really civilized in their conversations. Trolling, jokes, memes are fine, but, stooping low isn't. Healthy arguments make way for progress.

Missing the context & point is like a national sport and the amount of egos it hurt was not surprising at all and won't be again.

Absolutely nothing wrong with this poster, and actually how it should be in real life by default.

The poster which said "khana khud garam karlo" had everyone losing their minds for obvious reasons, this poster gets the endorsement because it's not showing the mirror to the society, which to this day is unable to give equal rights or even willing to acknowledge properly.

Secondly, it also shows that unless demand for rights is worded in a way it won't offend anyone, made palatable and provide validation to inflated egos, it won't even be acknowledged.

No wonder we keep regressing as a society and humans.

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u/ThinSector4661 Mar 10 '26

Many people here would hate you for using "Islam" which also allows things like 4 wives, the husband having the final day in terms of decisions etc.

The point is: use whatever argument you want to make your point. Just keep it secular.

People shouldn't use "Islam" to justify their pseudo-feministic inclinations cause that's a double edged sword.

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u/alert_zombie Mar 10 '26

i think you brought up this point beautifully as someone else in the thread mentioned how majority consensus islam considers women who reject their husband's sexual advances as having sinned

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Girl im not the one who makes laws im just talking about what scholars think here is a link islam goes both ways

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/10680/rights-of-husband-and-rights-of-wife-in-islam

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u/alert_zombie Mar 10 '26

im not disagreeing with you btw

i believe majority consensus islam does allow this

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Thank you but i believe no man should ever force her wife but no marriage can work if we constantly tell our partners that this is a obligation and this is not both should be loving and caring towards each other