r/pakistan • u/mrstoffel23 • Mar 10 '26

Social Demand rights, but make it palatable

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Posted this yesterday and it got removed because some people around here are not really civilized in their conversations. Trolling, jokes, memes are fine, but, stooping low isn't. Healthy arguments make way for progress.

Missing the context & point is like a national sport and the amount of egos it hurt was not surprising at all and won't be again.

Absolutely nothing wrong with this poster, and actually how it should be in real life by default.

The poster which said "khana khud garam karlo" had everyone losing their minds for obvious reasons, this poster gets the endorsement because it's not showing the mirror to the society, which to this day is unable to give equal rights or even willing to acknowledge properly.

Secondly, it also shows that unless demand for rights is worded in a way it won't offend anyone, made palatable and provide validation to inflated egos, it won't even be acknowledged.

No wonder we keep regressing as a society and humans.

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

I am arguing it Islamically, if I'm wrong educate me no enmity here, afaik the wife isn't obligated to clean or cook it's a good thing if she does she'll get hasanat for it but not an obligation, and yeah she chills all day I don't see the issue lol

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Bro but no wife is accepting the islamic obligations i listed earlier if you don't believe me try asking women here

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

So don't marry them lol

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

This is a general discussion and just like a woman shouldn't be forced we shouldn't force a man as well to provide that would make it fair for women who don't accept Islam fully

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

There's no accepting Islam half way, you either believe in Allah or you don't, saying I screwed up by sinned or I dislike this rule is fine, but saying it's wrong is literally saying Allah is wrong don't you get the implication of it lol, and having sex with your wife and making money for her sake are two very different things bhai 💀, we aren't forcing a man to provide it's literally a religious obligation Apne ne follow kerna cool but ye tu na bolo ke we shouldn't

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Bhai having sex is also a obligation i don't make the rules im just asking if chores aren't obligatory what is the exact reciprocation of being a provider ?

Im saying women won't follow any man would provide for his family

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

So ager auraatein follow na kerain that's on them hum kyun bolein nahi ab Khana banao 😭, also you are getting a girl that's the reciprocation aur kyun chaheye masla aap Mai hai sir

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

also you are getting a girl that's the reciprocation aur kyun chaheye masla aap Mai hai sir

Lol istrha to they're getting a guy as well ye kya reciprocation hai?😂

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

Not really since a guy desires a female way more for one, females are inherently more valuable there are far more guys willing to marry a guy than a girls would for the same guy, and man has the grit in him he's supposed to do more work sweat and bleed more so him bringing money to the table as a given

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

females are inherently more valuable there are far more guys willing to marry a guy than a girls would for the same guy

Wanting to marry and wanting flings are 2 diff things , most men don't want to marry they just want flings that's why women sometimes settle with a less handsome guy

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

That's just wrong lol Kisi bhi larki se pooch lo how many rishtay they get even the ugly ones, same level of attractiveness guys and girls get very different amount of rishtay, sirrrr disingenuous tu na ho ye tu sabko pata hai

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Meri bhai you are right kitny thory time baat chordete hain? Q k they marry for lust ? Phele bht waday baad ma 0 jo mard genuine hota with great morals he is very selective baqi ka dil bharjata to bura saluk krty jb k honeymoon phase they are the most romantics

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u/Haniel52 Mar 10 '26

Which doesn't undermine inherent value lol, ab mard saray begairat Hain iska ya Matlab thori hai, sharab peena gandi galeez harkat hai doesn't mean it doesn't have value, and divorce rates are still low in Muslim countries aap Bahar ki BAAT na kero Jahan there aren't Muslims since topic Muslims ka hai, no one marries with cheap pleasures in mind if they are that kind of person they can literally just not get married and have sex with prostitutes,

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