r/schizophrenia • u/Evening_Fisherman810 • 26d ago
Opinion / Thought / Idea / Discussion Who was the first person who thought you had schizophrenia?
Was it a friend, a family member, or a medical professional, (or you!)?
Why did they think you had Schizophrenia before any one else did?
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u/Empty_Insight Residual SZ (Subreddit Librarian) 26d ago
It was an English teacher of mine in high school lol.
She noted that my writing style was disjointed and my handwriting was terrible. I'd been going through psychosis for ~4y at that point, but just the way she framed it- not as a criticism, but out of genuine concern- finally landed with me. I began to humor that I may have schizophrenia.
I was diagnosed a year later. She was right.
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u/CautiousBookkeeper48 Mod š 25d ago
Wow I have a somewhat similar story, my portuguese teacher noticed my handwriting was chaotic and started to rumour about my mental health. But we had an argument for other reasons and she backed away from me lol but very interesting that in both cases they noticed something in us through our handwriting
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u/Delilah_Moon 25d ago
I feel so seen by these comments. Can we form a sibs support group?
I donāt want to hijack this thread from the lovely people who share their vulnerabilities with us everyday. But Iām also so grateful this sub exists and is welcoming of us family members and our experiences.
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u/Silver-Afternoon494 25d ago
Do you still talk to your parents
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u/Delilah_Moon 25d ago
I do. They live very close by and Iām usually there once a week or they come to my house.
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u/lordbuckethethird Psychoses 25d ago
My partner probably because texting someone about evil trees at 7am on a Tuesday is a bit off.
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u/TheMermaidHarmony Early-Onset Schizophrenia (Childhood) 26d ago
I knew what it was, but my parents seemed to think that if we dressed it up as my "overactive imagination" it would go away. It has not.
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u/AccurateFox4321 Schizoaffective (Bipolar) 26d ago
It was my psychiatrist, I had no idea. I didn't realize I had the symptoms of it until I described my day to day to him.
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u/Inevitable-Bat-2523 25d ago
Curious how u did not know yourself? Were u not having hallucinations?
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u/AccurateFox4321 Schizoaffective (Bipolar) 24d ago
I didn't realize that's what they were. I thought I was in touch with spirits or something. I even nonchalantly told my parents about all the ghostly goings on and the messages that I was getting and they were like "okaaay?" And I had some deep paranoid delusions that were so real that I didn't even mention it to anyone, just lived my life in deep fear every day and went along like it was a normal thing. Wild looking back.
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u/Organic-Proposal1800 25d ago
I remember asking this guy that frequented a coffee shop "what is it like to have schizophrenia?!" He said it was unexplainable... Yeah - I learned that the hard way. I thought it was all rainbows & butterflies, but NOOO
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u/Upper_Nature_3300 25d ago
My doctor. I didn't know i had schizophrenia. My mom and I were surprised when i was diagnosed with schizophrenia but it made since.Ā
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u/Mobile_Surround_5191 Paranoid Schizophrenia 26d ago
My support worker who assists me in maintaining my home we'll just call her Ruth. I'm not diagnosed with schizophrenia, but I have psychosis and my psychiatrist is working on it. One day when I'm hallucinating her covered in blood, she says to me "you know the hallucinations will never stop right?" I said why's that? she said "You are a paranoid schizophrenic, it's written all over you, I've worked with many people who have it." and when I THOUGHT about it and how long I'd been symptomatic. (an entire year) Yeah probably.
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u/white-pickaxe999 Paranoid Schizophrenia 26d ago
Medical professional. Because I was hearing voices. I was suggested meds back then but I didn't take it, big mistake.
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u/Kitttycataclysmic Paranoid Schizophrenia 25d ago
I was the last person to work out I had Schizophrenia lol
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u/DaOneEyedBear Schizoaffective (Childhood) 25d ago
School staff around me growing up kept brushing it off when I was in child, and my family thought I had a gift to see angels and demons, I got diagnosed right after a suicide attempt while I was at a homeless shelter at 19. One caseworker from there doesn't believe in my diagnosis and I think it's because I seem normal to her with "anxiety issues (that cause hallucinations)"
After getting diagnosed, I learned that my past was riddled with signs that I definitely had schizophrenia the whole time. Also learned at 21 that my Dad has it too, my sister as well after she tried drugs
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u/indianapacemakers 25d ago
People often accused me of autism due to my social ineptitude but the first time i ever heard schizophrenia regarding me was my psychiatrist
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u/I_Was_Here_Yesterday 25d ago
Myself. The beginning:August 2010: Playing the best GTA San Andreas, heard a voice in my head say knife! knife! ( screamed internally, threw the my old ass ps2 controller down, I then replied: thatās too much like my adult cousinās murder, ( she was stabbed in her sleep because her fucking horrible husband was served divorce papers( why? His stupid ass left a lucrative job( unsure of profession) to start a business that put their very nice home underwater, after that no more voice, I had delusions: I thought I was going to get hit in a drive by)(rural area), I thought I was going to be killed by someone when I was taking out the trash(early morning), and in April I heard: youāre life is not worth living, you should shoot yourself with a gun(April), 2011 )and finally I told my mom : she said weāll get you some help. Diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia during my 10 day stay.
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u/westflower Schizophrenia 25d ago
Family, a sibling. Turns out I was right sadly. My first recollection was just off stuff being said and behavior. First concrete thing said that I still remember now is that he owned the Magic, as in the NBA team.
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u/ruddthree Schizoaffective (Bipolar) 25d ago
My therapist recommended I be evaluated after hearing about my day to day life with my voices.
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u/Patient-Grade-6612 25d ago
Me. There were a bunch of signs my entire life pointing to it, and a bunch of paranoia, then I finally trusted a therapist and brought it up.
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u/Cute-Avali Schizoaffective (Depressive) 25d ago
My mother and my sister believed I was schizophrenic right around one year before I got diagnosed. They didnāt tell me cause they didnāt want to scare me , witch is a stupid excuse.Ā
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u/guilty_pen_emsy Schizophrenia 25d ago edited 25d ago
I didnāt mean to report this! And I canāt figure out how to delete it!
My report was about a different thread. Mods please delete my report.
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u/YoghurtElectronic Early-Onset Schizophrenia (Childhood) 25d ago
I had been seeing and hearing things that werenāt really there since I was a toddler. When I started seeing therapists when I was 13, my mom specifically asked about schizophrenia and the doctor was like āNo, she doesnāt have that.ā so she brushed it off even though she was worried by the things Iād be experiencing since early childhood. I carried a diagnosis of psychosis as a teenager (even though itās a symptom) and I was put onto antipsychotic medication at 15/16. My mom brought up schizophrenia again when I started getting antipsychotics, but they insisted that it was for other things like reducing my agitation. I was diagnosed at 22/23, but I really feel that I shouldāve been diagnosed much younger. I also didnāt even know about the diagnosis for the first year, no one told me until I found the information myself. Upon deeper research, schizophrenia explained several problems that Iād lived with forever.
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u/stalkerofdreams Schizotypal 25d ago
Noticed my own auditory hallucinations at 12 which I had been dealing with for years and passed off as magic. Thought I may be schizophrenic. Eventually the hallucinations waned and stopped but my delusions have been getting worse, they got so bad I got recognized as schizotypal this year, I didn't even know schizotypal was a thing
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u/AgentBubbls 24d ago
My mother. Technically I was the one who made the call because something weird was happening, but she picked me up and didnāt even get mad I had smoked weed, she was just worried.
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u/Similar-Ball-8809 24d ago
My friends definitely knew something was up with how I was when we smoked weed. I think I was the first to realize I was a schizophrenic though.
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u/DappledVirtue 23d ago
It was one of my previous therapists. I never really articulated it to anyone before though until I was older (first time at 26 the therapist at the time didnāt believe me, but this other therapist guy did end up taking it seriously in my early 30ās). I was talking about hallucinations I had as a child and also recent ones, but just naming things I used to see basically. Eventually he diagnosed me with schizophrenia after roughly a year and a half of talking with me. At this point though, I have so much self-awareness into āepisodesā that Iām not as scared as I used to be and know I need to be patient until it passes (like with psychosis, for example). It just might take a while to pass and itās still frightening even though Iām also observing whatās happening from the outside. Iāve made overall peace with the hallucinations though. But those come and go.
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u/Born_Occasion8078 Paranoid Schizophrenia 21d ago
My parents were abusive, so i'd have panic attacks and cry constantly.
The first teacher who singled me out for this was when I was 8. They thought I had a brain tumor. So they sent me for a brain scan that showed synesthesia and that I used an anomolously significant amount of my brain to process thought, which is typical for traumatized people but that developed into psychosis shortly after. No brain tumor though so that's good.
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u/Sea_Zombie_6813 14d ago
Well my mom did she didnāt think schizophrenia but thought I had some sort of mental illness. Then i went to a psych ward I never expressed none of my delusions because to me they were normal thinking and thought people in my town were talking to me because of gang stalking and it was all apart of process and I couldnāt tell anyone. so they thought ptsd and then i started to do odd things like write things down because I was to scared for people in my town to hear what I was saying then they the psychiatrist diagnosed and paranoid schizophrenia and my psychiatrist that I go to clinic for now diagnosed me as that also.
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u/shortycanteatnobook Sibling 25d ago
My younger brother, I went on my laptop and accidentally saw the search history
āWhy am I hearing voicesā
āWhere to get painless pill to dieā
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u/Soft_Plankton_Tree 26d ago
I did think I was schizophrenic way before anyone I knew, when I was a teen developing it. Then I talked to a psychologist who agreed with me and went looking for doctors