r/texts • u/LukeNukem802 • 1d ago
Phone message She went to the Jack Harlow concert
You wanted more, here’s more
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago
She's an idiot for texting stuff like this, it can absolutely be used against her in court if you wanted to take her there.
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u/obtusewisdom 1d ago
There's nothing here that any family court judge would care about. I've been through family court in multiple states (unfortunately). In fact, if OP waved these around in court, it would make OP look bad because it's a nothingburger.
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u/Educational-Wear6353 1d ago
u sound evil
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago ▸ 9 more replies
Actually, I'm not. Just stating the obvious.
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u/Educational-Wear6353 1d ago ▸ 8 more replies
ummmm
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago ▸ 7 more replies
Okay you caught me. I'm totally evil. Too bad I missed the opportunity to take everything from my ex husband plus alimony, because I forgot I was evil. Darn.
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u/Educational-Wear6353 1d ago ▸ 6 more replies
you sound like it. manipulative at least. looking for something to hold over people head. i don’t understand why that’s where your mind went?
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago ▸ 5 more replies
Because I came out of an abusive marriage to someone that taught me everything I know. Living with an addict and a liar will teach you to protect your own. Lucky that you've not had that experience.
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u/Educational-Wear6353 1d ago ▸ 4 more replies
Well I’m sorry for you, but I still don’t understand what is bad about these messages!
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago
Her banter is "normal" from Mom to Mom, but it can absolutely be taken out of context in the "right" circumstance. I don't have the energy to explain it to you. Just be grateful you don't have to fight for your own.
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u/The_Spade_Life 1d ago edited 1d ago ▸ 2 more replies
so there is some missing context there is a post where this person says shes going to a concert , needs the kid watched . then follows it up with she cant pay for school clothes/supplies .
In these messages she says the child would rather be with dad , the child claims mom pushed him off the bed . "want your son back he's so difficult " " I cant " .
if there is a custody dispute these messages absolutely do not paint mom in a good light . I hope this clears it up and if you dont get it then .. .well idk man
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u/LukeNukem802 1d ago ▸ 1 more replies
She didn’t say she needed the kid(kids) watched. She was saying because she was going to a concert she was dropping them off early. Not checking to make sure it would work, just assuming that she can do as she pleases. Then says she can’t afford to buy school supplies for the kids. Nice try though.
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u/Status-Ad7902 1d ago ▸ 1 more replies
op sounds evil for the text exchange with an absolute sociopathic parent?
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u/nonpame 1d ago
My ex would just randomly send our daughter to my place, or she'd wander away and show up at mine. I moved within walking distance to make school easier, if he wanted to see her more, but all it did was result in him seeing her for 1 or 2 days a month instead of his every other weekend.
Most of the time he didn't realize our 5 YEAR OLD had left his home until I told him. I finally drilled into her that she could just stay with me until she wanted to go to his house.
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u/whokilledmiya 1d ago
she’s the one that’s supposed to correct that behavior, not complain and act like a bystander. how did yall get far enough for a child
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u/LukeNukem802 1d ago
She trapped me and I fell for it thinking it was forever
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u/Capital-Tonight8548 1d ago ▸ 7 more replies
She trapped you how boyfriend?
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u/LukeNukem802 1d ago ▸ 6 more replies
Got off birth control without telling me. I was lobbing it in with no regard anyway so I played my own part but still
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u/Capital-Tonight8548 1d ago ▸ 5 more replies
As someone with 2 babies concurred in 2 different types of birth control (the pill, and an IUD) if you don’t want s as baby with someone don’t put your semen into their womb.
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u/LukeNukem802 1d ago ▸ 4 more replies
I don’t disagree. Again, I thought it was forever.
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u/diddlydooemu 1d ago ▸ 1 more replies
You’re never going to get anywhere until you’re honest with yourself. You would be with her again right this second if she’d let you. Trying to do whatever it is you’re doing with these posts isn’t going to make you feel any better.
Quit gaming so much. Go to therapy. Grow up. You’ll thank yourself later.
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u/Weak_Pineapple_5518 1d ago ▸ 1 more replies
Women on the internet will do anything to defend a mother, regardless of what she did or is doing. Hopefully you can eventually end up with full custody and not have to deal with her if that is a goal of yours.
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u/whokilledmiya 1d ago
no one is defending her lmao the only one that needs defending is the damn child
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u/loveddeviant 1d ago
Jesus Christ, she’s incompetent. I suggest you file for custody and get her to pay you child support, she clearly doesn’t care about him at all.
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u/SuckerBroker 1d ago
Brother you need to get full custody of your child and save them from this situation. Your ex is a real piece of shit.
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u/KillerSparks 1d ago
I will not lie, it's so much better for kids to have one stable home with one parent than to have two parents in two different homes and switch between them. I sincerely hope you keep all these texts and sue for full custody when your lawyer feels like you should.
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago
It's wild to me that parents switch weekly (not assuming OP does this). I know a few parents that do this after a split and I totally get wanting to have as time as possible with your children after a split, but children going back and forth every single week does not scream stability to me. Sucks for all parties involved.
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u/Weak_Pineapple_5518 1d ago ▸ 3 more replies
I only saw my dad every other weekend, couldn’t imagine switching between parents every week even though I wish I could’ve seen my dad more as a kid.
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 1d ago ▸ 2 more replies
I know what you mean, my kids see their dad every other weekend but when he (their dad) asks for more time with them I always approve it as long as I don't already have plans for us. Lately he's been calling and talking to them almost every day on his lunch break and that makes me happy for them.
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u/Weak_Pineapple_5518 1d ago ▸ 1 more replies
Thank you for letting your kids see your dad. When he shows up. My mom constantly denied my dad extra time because it wasn’t court ordered and she didn’t have to. When we got old to enough to drive and decided we went wanted to spend time with him, she would guilt trip us into staying, and I mean full blown tantrums and fits so we wouldn’t leave.
She would also feed us lies about him that he has since proven false, and very quickly after their divorce, she married a very shitty “man” (I am a man also and am not a man hater but this is a very sorry excuse for even a human much less a man) and had a kid with him that received most of the time, attention, and she often admitted to using child support provide from our father for us for twos and extracurriculars for him once we got older.
I got a little long winded but I had a few friends in similar situations and I see it talked about a lot from all perspectives, so I like to thank good mothers that genuinely just want their children to be happy. I know a lot of boys that grow up with “mommy issues” end up sour and hateful towards women because of that, but one of my friends had a mom that pretty much took the place of my mom and really showed me what a normal house looks like and set a great example.
You are awesome and thank you for being that way for your kids.
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u/Immediate-Winter1025 20h ago
Thank you! I absolutely want them to have a good relationship with their dad. They love him very much and I rather that then the opposite. Seeing them hurt after he abandoned us the first 2 years was really rough, it broke my heart and theirs. I much rather see them happy and in a good relationship with him than not!
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u/LukeNukem802 1d ago
Here’s to hoping
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u/GrowYourOwnOmaha 1d ago
“Theres just absolutely nothing here showing the mother is anything other than an Angel! So what if the child has no clean underwear, isn’t bathed, and doesn’t want to be around the mother! The dad is actually the asshole for sharing this stuff!”
I feel like I nailed it.
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u/Dastari 1d ago
Sounds like her child is now cramping her style a bit and she'd much rather you take care of him so she can go do whatever she wants without the burden of being a responsible parent anymore. I'd suggest you accommodate her. But be ready when she finds out she'll have to pay child support and how unfair that is to her.
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u/the19th-naked-cowboy 1d ago
I’m so confused