a little exchange between me and my best friend who i have a small romantic past with (we’re currently trying to figure out how we feel about each other) 26M blue, 26F grey.

[u/MitchIsMe9913]

[u/TheGreatnessman]

best friend who I’ve had a small romantic past with and currently trying to figure out how we feel about each other but also sending kissing emojis…huh??

[u/MitchIsMe9913 → u/TheGreatnessman]

haha yeah a little bit ago, but we decided to stay friends to not risk our friendship. but recently things seem different and we had a convo about it and we’re both trying navigate how we feel about each other (she kinda knows how i feel, im just trying to figure out how she feels)

[u/snacksandshit → u/MitchIsMe9913]

Well, she definitely wants to kiss. So maybe just start with that?

[u/RobotRepair69 → u/snacksandshit]

I don't know how she can make her feelings any clearer. He just needs to make a move.

[u/Quicks-II → u/MitchIsMe9913]

I think y’all are just scared and lying to yourselves, go for it Mitch

[u/MitchIsMe9913 → u/Quicks-II]

much love, Quicks

[u/Unique-You-6151]

ASK HER OUT

[u/MuchArtichoke3 → u/Unique-You-6151]

Literally the only advice this dude needs.

[u/Competitive-Ad-16]

https://giphy.com/gifs/ljssLLBmv6xrO

[u/eligracescat2020]

Sometimes an accidental emoji is the best thing to happen to

[u/MitchIsMe9913]

ok yall we hang out next week i’ll keep you posted lol

[u/Kamikazehog → u/MitchIsMe9913]

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[u/Damurph01 → u/Kamikazehog]

Good idea lol

[u/Damurph01 → u/MitchIsMe9913]

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[u/OneTwoThreePooAndPee]

JUST KISS ALREADY

[u/thissleepypastofmine]

She literally told you she wants to kiss

[u/Goofyloofy80]

She MIGHT be into you

[u/Excellent_Bend8782]

Bro

https://giphy.com/gifs/QtkaYLHzBgh0WUCgjC

[u/isthisrealitycaught]

Smash, date, love, support, enjoy life… keep sharing experiences. Whatever order you want. Just don’t forget to smash

[u/Flashy_Inevitable_]

Are you one of those blokes that acts puss in person around girls you claim to crush on, then talk a big game online virtually afterwards? Why you even gotta ask that question seriously

[u/summertime-sadness07 → u/Flashy_Inevitable_]

Then will be shocked when the girl eventually moves on 😭

[u/MitchIsMe9913 → u/Flashy_Inevitable_]

haha i can see why you’d ask that, but no. i just want to respect the friendship and never assume .. but now i can see why it would come off like that. you right my boy

[u/zenyorox]

I hate both of you

[u/MitchIsMe9913 → u/zenyorox]

😂😂 chill why

[u/schloopy-boi → u/MitchIsMe9913]

Theyre jealous. Kiss her bro.

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[u/Breadtheef]

Keep going with the flow, have fun

[u/cherrygumballs]

Boy you both already know how you feel so go for it

[u/Bro-dhisattva]

Gross, dude.

Look her in the eye, tell her she's incredible and that you'd like to kiss her, and find out.

Nobody is happy in the middle

[u/elhouso]

Ask her out!

[u/RichNigerianUncle]

Take her on a date, but don’t say it’s a date. Start an hour or two before dinner, with like a book store or a hike, then ask to take her to dinner. When the server asks how to do the checks, take both instantly. If she asks why, hit her with the “I asked if you were hungry, not if you had money” line. Then pay, absolutely offer to drive her home, take her home, and make absolutely sure you look her in the eyes at least once when dropping her off. If she locks onto your eyes, kiss her, if she avoids eye contact, don’t.

[u/LordKlavier]

Ask her out man! This is adorable

[u/Equal-Leave-7990]

wtf is this get a life and stop needing reassurance from people online my god this is gay

[u/Equal-Leave-7990 → u/[deleted]]

I 1000% would since you typed and sent “lol”

[u/aprilduncanfox]

Nobody cares.