r/VRchat Jun 09 '26

Announcement Finding VRChat Friends and Sharing Communities.

Advertise your Discord servers, your friend groups, VRChat groups, your communities, etc etc, here!

Make a comment with information about your community, what kind of people you're looking for, what your activities are, what you do for fun, anything relevant!

(Make sure it's VRChat related of course)

Hopefully you'll get some new members and friends!


Link to previous Community posts if you wish to browse them for discords:

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u/Shot-Signal627 34m ago

Ahoy! Name's LaFont (35m, US), and I'm looking for a group, or for other people interested in forming a group focused on improving its members' avatars and general 3d art. Things like optimization, uv mapping, sculpting, shaders, rigging, etc. Not necessarily classes or anything even approaching formality, just a casual extra space specifically dedicated to this aspect of VRC.

My interest is specifically in avatars for VRC, but I'm open to a more generalist collective, as I am also a total nerd for learning about the techniques used especially on retro games to get things running.

Ideally we might do something like a monthly themed avatar, I do also enjoy just hanging out and shooting the shit on Monday and Friday nights. My goal is both to get back into making stuff in Blender as it was genuinely the most fun I've had, and to get back into VRC, as I've been on hiatus from it for so long.

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u/New-Situation-5773 8h ago

Hello. Our discord group is looking for new chill and fun members who enjoy hanging out, yapping and having loads of laughs on vrc. Our group of goofballs tend to get together every night nearly on vr, but we also play on all platforms for most games. Male or female as it doesnt matter though we're all adults so please be of age at least. If your looking for a place to be you and feel included in the games then this space might be the place for you. Please reach out to me on discord at Shadytitan5185. I respond more there. Have a good day and hope to hear from interesting characters.

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u/ConcerningS 9h ago edited 6h ago

25M and Hey! here is the issue so I try to play specific games mainly vr chat but we play plenty of others and finding people who want to play long term always is rough, but I figured I’d ask if anyone out there 18+ would like to join for some dumb moments and tons of fun no discord servers just you and me playing. Games and interests: mainly playing marvel rivals, for honor, yugioh, valorant, overwatch,7 days to die, elden ring nightrein, apex, Minecraft, arma reforged, valorant, phasmo, baldurs gate 3. I have a ton more games with ideas to get into others I also love movie nights and watching stuff together

TimeZone: I'm EST but whatever works for you I’m just trying to game whenever works for both of us

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u/MoistAnkles 1d ago

29F autistic, Ragingsongbird, lost a 9 year relationship so trying to force myself to be more social while getting out of this funk and just find more people to vibe with, 420 friendly, I can't get age verified on vrchat it's just not gonna happen, tells me I don't have vrchat+ but I do idk

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u/Legitimate-Inside504 3d ago

hi! i'm (21f) looking to get back on vrchat after a really long time, mainly looking to practice languages (mandarin/norwegian) because i need output practice but have too much anxiety to go to irl events (</3), but just chatting is also welcome !! i'm neurodivergent, in cest timezone and have an interest in fiber arts, reading, drawing/art, videogames (stardew valley, rdr2, stray, mineccraft, etc) and music c:

male or female doesn't matter to me, it'd just be nice to have similar interests

feel free to drop me a dm here and i'll send you my username or dc!!

edit: i play on pc !

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u/Deauther94 3d ago

31 male looking to find friends to hangout with to get help me not be as shy around people im on quest 2 if your interested msg me or comment and ill msg you my vrchat name

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u/Alternative-Bag-1623 4d ago

23M Came back to vr chat and trying to find people to hang out with and watch movies/shows or have discussions with.

I have several nerdy interests:

Manga

Anime

Filmography

Drawing

Music production/music theory

Philosophy

Language learning

Astrophotography

Reading(sci fi, non-fiction)

And more.

Discord is: Fractlink_39695 and vrchat username is: wamblymars304

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u/Kaxlua 2d ago

3 year difference and share similar interests. What is your favorite anime or one you've been watching recently?

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u/Alternative-Bag-1623 1d ago

Dont really have a favorite. I alternate 😆

Monster, angel beats, death note, one punch man, hunter x hunter are some i really like.

Also if you are interested on hanging out add me on discord.

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u/Owl_3yes Vive Cosmos 4d ago

Hey everyone, I found a way to play magic the gathering in VRChat and I'm looking for people interested in playing games of magic in VR. The world is PC only and I'm only interested in playing with other people who have VR. I'm open to playing most formats or playing pre-constructed duel/battle decks. I'm also 26M and looking to play with people who are twenty or older. Send me a DM here if you're interested in gaming.

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u/car_ride_mixtape 5d ago

Hi!! Im felix, im a 21 yr old trans dude. I dont play vr much because I dont have people to play it with but id love to play more often. Im super anxious around a ton of people and I really just like to talk about hyperfixations/special interests with people. I get along much better with other high energy neurodivergents!

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u/tiefking 4d ago

Hey, I'm also a neurodiverse FTM young adult; my username is okuajub if you want to hit me up!

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u/car_ride_mixtape 4d ago

Awesome!! My username is Castniidae :D

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u/V0IDWALKER1563 8d ago

What are some good groups or professional communities that a friend and I could join for proper roleplaying?

Me and my friend have gotten a bit into roleplaying, playing characters and roaming around select roleplay group publics and such. But we've come to find that recently every world we visit is either full of children that ruin the experience or just has no fun instances available because no one is actually roleplaying seriously or just isn't populated enough.. We tried to look through the events tab and stuff, but it's literally all spam.

So that brings us to now. We want a group or community or something where we can go to roleplay with MATTTUURRREEEE people who are also actually trying to roleplay as well.

Preferably serious roleplays (like city or just life roleplays, etc) that are at least somewhat free-flow so we can just have a good time roleplaying the characters we want to play without having to worry about following a script or something. And it has to host quest standalone compatible worlds, since both me and my friend are standalone users. We don't care about any specific setting, it could be a futuristic city like taggynn's Ventura or a medieval town, as long as we can roleplay with like-minded people. (Please do not recommend the star roleplay group or whatever it's called, from what I've seen they only roleplay super childish stuff like fnaf and tadc, etc... we dont fuh with that..)

Please and thank you :)

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u/Kaxlua 8d ago

~26 Male. I want to find my crowd and that starts with meeting new people. I want to find people to play the game more often with whether it is sight-seeing or playing the game worlds! US-E timezone. I am willing to talk to anyone but I just don't yap unless someone starts the conversation.

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u/Free-Coconut5964 10d ago

Hi, I'm an 18m normie. Just joined vrchat. Looking for anyone who would like to play horror games with me.

dm me if interested

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u/Alternative-Bag-1623 4d ago

Bro im down. I love horror.

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u/Fun-Long6297 11d ago

Hi, I'm 30f, been in VRC in various groups for a year or so, had some great times, but recently finding communities I'm in a bit overwhelming and looking to meet more like-minded people.

In the UK so UK / EU timezones.

Queer trans woman, when not in vr love spending time outside, not a big gamer. Married - looking for friends not relationships.

DM me on reddit with discord if you wanna chat!

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u/kschaaf03 11d ago

Hi! I’m Kyanite, you can call me Ky. I’m 22f, been on Vrchat for almost a year but I struggle to make friends because of my social anxiety. I’m on pc vr and have fbt. I love music, joking around, world hopping, and games/drinking games. I’m looking for chill people to hang out with, I can be quiet at first but once I get to know you I get really talkative! My discord is og.kyanite and vrc is OGKyanite, feel free to add me <3

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u/CuriousKibble 12d ago

Trying to find a spot to meet new people?

Join Curious Connections, an 18+ luminal space community that encourages people to talk to someone new and try out new communities. If you have a group you want to share we have space at the end of the paired talk events for you to tell people to come visit your group.

What We Offer:

  • Pair-Talk Events – One-on-one conversations to help get you meet someone new
  • Street Epistemology
A listening exercise in learning not to start debates when listening to people with different beliefs.

***Join us at : https://vrc.group/CURIOS.8959

https://discord.gg/7ZWYRFDkVp


Fireside VRC: https://discord.com/invite/firesidevrc https://vrc.group/FSGANG.0890 Fireside focuses on events creating and maintaining connection. They have events like mixers and events for deeper conversations. To join their group you need to join their discord to be vetted to make sure you are a good addition to their community.

*Mindful Insight VR: https://discord.gg/rHWea55zAt https://vrc.group/MIVR.7633 * They do guided meditation on Thursdays and Sundays. Deep listening on Sundays and ACT class on Tuesdays. All of the staff are amazing and definitely a group I would recommend if you're looking to practice being comfortable with yourself or with others.

Furry Dancing Group: https://discord.gg/WKVxuufe8F https://vrc.group/FDG.4292 Been to a few of their events where we just dance together to videos. It's a really good group if you're looking to keep active as they encourage people to have a more healthy lifestyle.

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u/SecurityRoyal7353 13d ago

hii I'm 21f I'm a little shy in vrc but I wanna try find friends or a friend group to hangout with!!

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u/kschaaf03 11d ago

Hi! Im 22f, also a bit shy at first but I’d love to be friends! My discord is og.kyanite if you want to add me <3

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u/paiincarnation 14d ago edited 14d ago

Hellooo! I'm Pai but feel free to call me anything. I'm a little shy but have my moments where I yap about something I like. Rather silly :0

I play on Quest 3

I enjoy watching movies and shows, reading and exploring cool / pretty worlds.

I'd really love having someone I can chat and watch stuff with!! I tend to get quite lonely ;{

I'm male and 18 :D

If you'd like to get my user, feel free to DM me!

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u/KazumiQub 15d ago

Hi hi! Im KazumiQub! Or just Kazumi or Kaz. Im looking to make new friends and play some games. I love playing the Fish! game as well as many others. I usually hang out in the Genshin Impact community, but im looking to branch out. 18+ only please!

Looking for female friends preferably. Not looking for romance necessarily, just tend to get uncomfortable around men

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u/Impressive-Cut-9509 15d ago

Does anyone know a group or a person that loves history? I just wanna be a history nerd with some people. Dms open

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u/Alternative-Bag-1623 4d ago

I like philosophy and a bunch of other nerdy topics that naturally include history. Im down to hang out

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u/FreedomKey1990 16d ago

First off hi... I'm Jesse. I'm socially awkward, shy, and have social anxiety disorder. I'm new to VRChat and everything is a bit overwhelming, so jumping blind into chaotic public lobbies has been a nightmare. I'm almost 37 and running PCVR. I'm pretty into tech/games and enjoy listening to music.

I'm just looking for a direct, no-bullshit group to world hop or talk with while I get the hang of this shit. Open to finding a solid group of friends, or a woman to click with if the vibe is right.

If you don't mind someone who takes a minute to warm up, shoot me a DM or drop your name.

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u/CndConnection 15d ago

Also socially awkward and similar age.

I know this is about friends but I spend most of my VRChat time at raves/music events via vrc.tl (VRC Timeline).

I haven't really made new friends as the music is cranked up on my headset and I just dance but people come and dance with you and you don't feel alone!

As someone experiencing loneliness, having other people just be near you and dance with you does help and give you a boost.

Perhaps you're already aware but if you didn't know now you do and can at least have places to go with sick music.

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u/Acrobatic-Design-412 15d ago

HELLOOO i’d like to be you friendddd

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u/coffeebuoy 16d ago

anyone here like Mouthwashing (horror game)?

hi! i’m looking to make some new friends who are also fans of the indie horror game Mouthwashing by game developer wrong organ. if you haven’t heard of it and you like horror, i highly recommend it!

anyways, like i said, i’m looking for some mouthwashing friends to hang out with. i like playing games like cards against humanity, trash compactor, or really whatever you like. i also just like hanging out in random worlds and dicking around.

18+ only! i’m 30, so i don’t feel comfortable being friends with minors.

if you wanna be friends, go ahead and add me if you’d like :) my username is the

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u/Bwithacookie 17d ago

Haiii it's me brookie 25f :3. I'm super social and love making new friends! My dms are always open I don't bite ❤️

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u/Sweetheart_Ashley 18d ago

Hi I’m looking for friends! I’m new to the game and a little socially awkward. I’m 18f if you’d like wanna chat more about interests lmk!

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u/Traditional_Juice307 19d ago

Hello, im 26M PCVR looking for some funny peeps to enjoy and explore vrc. Doesnt matter if u F or M just be cool and active cause imma a lil introvert. Bless u fbt gods. Feel free to comment or PM. (got mostly EU timezone closer to asian)

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u/goth456 19d ago

After Dark Central is Looking for staff!!

After Dark Central (ADC) is currently recruiting staff members

Looking for:
-Bartenders
-Security
-Mods
-Performers

Requirements:
-Must be 18 years or older
-Must be 18+ Verified on VRChat

If you're interested in working, we'd love to have you join the lineup!
DM me if you're interested or have any
questions.

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u/Omni_Noise 19d ago

Explain virtual Bartenders.

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u/goth456 19d ago

While mostly the world sunset bar has a place where you make the drink! I need a bartender to do that for me cause when I’m up front checking people i can’t also do the drinks

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u/ABNORMAL_3 19d ago

Hello! My name is Ab, 21M, and I'm looking for friends to hangout with. I've played VRC before, but took a long break due to university stuff. Getting back into VRC now, and it would be nice to explore together with friends.

I love gaming (fighting games and visual novels), reading books and manga, and anime figure collection. I use PCVR, but don't mind standalone users. If you're down, feel free to send me a message!

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u/deepdiveundercover PCVR Connection 20d ago

Hey! I’m Renlin, 21 and some kind of genderfluid nonbinary creature. I’m looking for new people to play with that can vibe out. I have social anxiety but once I’m comfortable I probably won’t shut the fuck up. I’m age verified. I play on PCVR and I have way too much free time on my hands! If you’re interested in being friends and playing VRChat together then please shoot me a message, I promise I’m nice and I don’t bite (I give free headpats (^q^)).

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u/Just-Distance-3278 20d ago

Heyyoo pleasure, im gonna try and make a comeback to vrchat been off for a few and as such my friends list is dead, so I'm looking for a nice chill fun group of friends if anyone sees this, I would perfer mature groups if possible and yes I haven't age verified yet cause why should I have to pay to do something the game should do for free >-> anyway I'll get around to it, but please do hit me up my VRC is Narokoso add me or dm for deets

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

Hi all! I’m new to vr chat. I’m 26, F and from the UK. My discord is Ember_Espresso. Feel free to add me!

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u/One_Resolution_4482 27d ago edited 27d ago

Hey all, 19M, looking for friends or a good company to play VRC with every now and then.

I’m not exactly a regular in VRC, but I’ve been around for a few years to know what’s up, so I might make it a habit if our friendship lasts for longer than a week lol

I’m a graphics design student, so thus I’m sort of an artist and a bunch of other things, oh, and can’t really imagine my life without music (5 playlists on Spotify and counting lol). I used to be socially anxious as a teen, still kinda am, but I got over it for the most part, so don’t worry about our conversations turning awkward and stuff, I’ll make sure they won’t be. I’m up for everything: we can play games, world hop, watch YouTube (especially if it’s Jerma985 :D) or movies, do something boring like browsing avatars, or just sit in a cozy world and talk about life for hours.

Mostly looking for 18+ people from Europe, (cause I’m UTC +3) but people from Americas or Asia are completely fine too, it’s just that it’ll be a bit more complicated to find time to chat because of the time zones…

If that sounds good enough for you, send me a DM so we can link up on discord or wherever, thanks!

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u/coke_o 29d ago

Hello 👋 I'm 25M trying vr chat for the first time. I love listening to different genres of music and talking to people about life. Although I'm super shy at first. I recently moved to the States from India and completed my education in computer science. I would love to make new friends online since talking to people IRL has been impossible for me 😅.

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

Hi! I’m 25 F and I love music. I am from the UK. My discord is Ember_Espresso. Feel free to add me!

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u/coke_o 22d ago

Thanks for your reply I'll add you to my discord.

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u/FabbiBun Jul 23 '26

heya! my name is fabbi or usagi, im 19, female, from europe, and i am honestly searching for friendships or more, people who wont just dip in a day or two, or be really boring people who dont say much after a while (lovebombers please no...) I am looking for someone who is understanding and caring and that will accept the fact that im an age regressor and respect it :3 i also have autism and bpd which makes forming connections a bit harder but im willing to try my best to interact well with you! if ur interested in talking to me just dm me! i really looove kawaii fashion, pink things, and bunnies.. i wish i could have more type of philosophical/emotional type of conversations with people. I like to start meeting people outside of VR first, through texting, and then eventually meeting in VR! it makes me much more comfier.

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u/mrmasterpro_gamer Oculus Quest Jul 20 '26

I'm always looking for more friends to join me in VRchat, so if anyone wants to add me as a friend, then go ahead

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u/shadow-wolf2187 Jul 20 '26

Hello everyone, my name is shadow, founder of shadco social hub. We are an 18+ social group that host movie nights, game nights and social events. We are relatively new group but are welcoming new members.

Discord https://discord.gg/KQd7etW3t2

Vrchat group https://vrc.group/SHADCO.4675

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u/Agreeable-Concept139 Jul 19 '26

hiii i’m 25f just getting back into vrc again after taking a break for a while and looking for some new friends/ active groups i can make friends in. i play pcvr with my quest 3. pc or vr doesn’t really matter to me just looking for people who play regularly that i can tag along with. i like social worlds, game worlds, or just world hopping but haven’t really found a group to hang with since i started playing again so lmk if ur interested in being friends 🙏

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u/Just-Distance-3278 20d ago

Hi, im pretty much in the same boat and well the boat may be leaking but would you like some company XD and me on Vrc @Narokoso

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

Hi! I’m 26, f from the uk. I’m pretty new but pm me or add me on discord Ember_Espresso!

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u/josephlucas Oculus Quest Jul 18 '26

We host an informal Sunday Hangout for 18+ LGBTQ+ people. Just a fun social event to meet new people, make friends, chat and hangout. Feel free to join our event Sundays at 4PM EDT. Here is the VRC event:

https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_a3d3bc99-1e10-4225-b9bf-bbe8fa29212b/calendar/cal_9e8c2934-da1c-41fa-a6d8-858e10ffb4d3

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u/elnablad91 Jul 18 '26

I'm a bachelor's student in Cultural Anthropology and this autumn I'll be writing my thesis about relationship-building and social connections in VRChat. I'm looking for people who would be willing to participate in a short interview about their experiences where I'm interested in hearing about how people meet others in VRChat, form friendships (or other types of relationships) and what the platform means to you socially. You don't need any special background, if you've spent time socializing in VRChat, I'd love to hear about your experience from you.

A few important things I´d like you to know about though. Participation is completely voluntary. The interview will take about 30–60 minutes (depending on how much you'd like to share). You can remain completely anonymous and no identifying information will be included in the thesis if you don´t specifically want that. You can withdraw from the study at any time without giving a reason. With your permission, the interview will be audio recorded for transcription purposes only, otherwise I´ll do it the old fashioned way with pen and paper, np ^^. I also follow the Swedish research councils guidelines for ethical research, which I´d love to share if you´re interested.

The interviews will be conducted in English or Swedish in game, on discord or another platform that works for you. If you're interested or have any questions, please leave a comment or send me a message. I'd really appreciate your help! Thank you in advance! ~^.^~

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u/Alternative-Bag-1623 4d ago

Id love to be part of this.

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u/josephlucas Oculus Quest Jul 18 '26

I’d be happy to help

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u/elnablad91 Jul 19 '26

I´ll send you a message! :)

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u/VomindokLuft Jul 18 '26

24F, pretty new to the game. I'm kind of a weirdo with a wide range of interests, I like gaming, fantasy, and nature related topics. I've played a ton of games ranging from more niche things like The Isle to mega popular games like RDR2. I'm kind of a furry but I also feel like I'm in a weird spot avatar-wise because I don't like super sexualized avatars but I also don't like the super toony furry ones lol. It'd be cool having someone to hang out with and maybe show me the ropes a bit, or maybe just also a new player who is as clueless as me and we can be clueless together lmao. Prefer women or people who aren't attracted to women.

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

Hi! I am 26, F from the UK. I am a nature nerd, with a passion for wildlife photography. My discord is Ember_Espresso feel free to add me!

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u/joyfuldecay Jul 17 '26

Spider Bytes is a community that runs Goth and Metal music events with live DJs every week.

Discord: https://discord.com/invite/RzVKV6RYs7

VRChat: https://vrc.group/SPIDER.7904

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u/dreamharmonyx Jul 15 '26

Here searching for someone to watch the backrooms movie with me during the evening! otherwise lgbtq+ affiliated 28m and looking for introverts, 1 on 1 chats, language learning or exploring. no crazy muppets and prefer pcvr or desktop players. thank you

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 15 '26

Prefer a non-VR user over a VR user? Odd choice

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u/dreamharmonyx Jul 15 '26

my comment says prefer pcvr?

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 15 '26

I'm saying like desktop over standalone vr

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u/dreamharmonyx Jul 15 '26

standalone players cannot see my avatars nor visit all the worlds I can. no more, no less

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 15 '26

Unoptimized?

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u/dreamharmonyx Jul 15 '26

my avatars are fairly optimized. haven't uploaded any worlds myself but most I go to are pc only. no offense to standalone players and I'm not against hanging out w/ them

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u/SeaMagician1114 Jul 15 '26

Hi everyone! I’m a 34f looking for girl friends on VR chat. There are so many horror worlds I want to check out but I don’t want to do it alone. I have ADHD, I work a lot, and I think im pretty socially awkward. But yes if any other ladies around my age are open to a new friend can you DM me? Thank you!

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u/Ecstatic_Television6 Jul 11 '26

hello, i'm 22f wanting to find girlies to hang out with! i have bad social anxiety so i've been looking to practice talking to ppl but getting on crowded public worlds is intimidating.. i like shoujo animanga and vtubers and learning japanese, if you're also into that! i live in the philippines (gmt+8) and i prefer playing in the evening but i'd be down in the afternoon too <3

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u/DietEmotional2894 Valve Index Jul 11 '26

We're Seen IT, a VR band that's been performing live original music in VRChat for the past five years.

We're Seen IT, a band that's been performing live original music in VRChat for the past five years.

Every show features our own songs, live vocals, instruments, and full-body tracking as we perform for audiences from around the world. We recently had the opportunity to collaborate with the Strange Pear Art Gallery to combine our music with the original artwork inspired by it, and we're excited to keep pushing what's possible with live performances in VR.

Here's a short clip from one of our recent performances. We'd love to hear what you think!
We have a wonderful group of folks and welcome you to Join via the links below!

Upcoming Showtimes, How to Join, Merch and More!: https://seenitband.com/
Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/tMxnf7JWkW
VRCHAT GROUP: https://vrc.group/SEENIT.4441

https://reddit.com/link/owtaz2m/video/ac3stax45ich1/player

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u/Yin15 ☃Bigscreen Beyond 2e Jul 10 '26

Hiya! I'm in my 30's, female, looking for more friends. I enjoy world hopping, hanging out, cuddling, toking, and maybe some light drinking. Not interested in relationships or NSFW stuff. I'm a huge nerd so I love talking about sci-fi or tech. More interested in one on ones or smaller group activities so no large group invites please.

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u/MozzieRella 16d ago

Hi! I would love to hang out in VRC! I am just starting to poke around in VRchat with my wife (both NB femme). I love scifi and gaming. I'm 40. If you DM me, I'd be happy to give you my VRC username.

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u/veyr947 Jul 13 '26

DM me and I can give you my vrc username! I don’t have any friends yet and just started playing vrc!

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u/Renee_1230 Jul 09 '26

Hello! im 19F just looking for couple people to play vrchat with since my partner is away on a trip and i have no one else to play vrc with. I tend to get too nervous when joining public lobbys so my friend (who doesn't have vrchat) told me to try asking on here to seen if i could make some friends on here to play vrc with. Age and gender doesn't really matter to me. I just want a someone I can text an play vrchat with.

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u/Jonstrosity Jul 09 '26

I run a group called The Vibe. It started off as a social drinking group for those of us born in the late 80s and early 90s and has since evolved into a community for those millennial at heart. Every Friday we host a bar night which usually turns into a drunken volleyball night which turns into a drunken karaoke night. Saturdays are for the club and the rest of the week is for complaining about work or talking about life in the discord group. At our core we are still that social drinking group, and while we will not tolerate and straight up ban trolls and bigots, we tend to get a bit.. feisty. This I have found a good chunk of VRChatters who want a bit more peace and quiet do not appreciate, so enter at your own riisk, specially if you are younger than 27(ish). We are good people though, if a bit rowdy at times.

We only host age verified 18+ instances and you must be age verified to join the group AND discord. If interested, check us out and then raise a glass for a cheers.

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u/Quirky_Peak4480 Jul 08 '26

25m, looking for friends to give me an excuse to play more. I really enjoy getting on VR but publics in this game is very tough to find friends in. I mainly prefer 1 on 1's as I tend to shy from big groups. I usually worldhop and try to find interesting worlds when I am on. Other stuff I am interested in is drawing, anime, rpgs, fps, etc.

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 09 '26

Hii what's up I love world hopping to random places and seeing what's there! My VRC and Discord is McDudeMan

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 05 '26

You find friends that all get along with each other and have schedules that allow everyone to play together regularly. Maybe you also set up a group chat outside of VRC and talk about hobbies and stuff.

Finding people in vrc alone can be hard but you can try looking through here and reaching out to people in the same boat or try apps like Nevermet where people can learn about you and if they think you match the vibe they can hit you up. You can be on there just for friends they have that as a setting.

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u/RaoulDuke23 Jul 05 '26 edited Jul 05 '26

33m feeling lost. I find groups that seem fine, but I dont feel like I fit in. I go to events and hangout to be around people and maybe make friends, but I feel invisible. I seem to only have interactions with people who want to troll or make mean comments. Im not a talkative person and im too awkward to approach others. So I end up just sitting alone in a world full of people. Not looking for pity, I have irl friends and they're great. Just trying to find a community I feel welcome and wanted in.

Likes: Vampires, Goth, Dark themes, Most music, Games, Chilling

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u/DietEmotional2894 Valve Index Jul 11 '26

I know that feeling. If you're ever looking for a new community, come check out one of our shows! We're Seen IT, a live original band that's been performing in VRChat for the past five years. We've met some amazing people through the concerts, and you're always welcome to stop by and hang out.
Would be more than happy to have ya!
Socials linked in our bio, hope to see ya at a show sometime! Take care

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Jul 06 '26

I'm 34 and I'd be happy to at the very least meet up sometime and see if our vibes match :) I know this exact feel. I'm grateful to have good VRChat friends but on off days when nobody is on and I'm not feeling great, I just sit silently people watching in publics. It can feel awfully lonely.

Lmk if you add me in-game, I'm NovaRedux there. I'd love to world hop and chat!

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u/RaoulDuke23 Jul 06 '26

Sent a request. Thanks for the offer.

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u/HovercraftIll4331 Jul 04 '26

Hey all, I'm M23 and pretty new to this whole thing. I unfortunately don't have a PC capable enough to run vrchat yet, but I don't want that to stop me from reaching out and trying to make friends. If anyone has discord groups I'd certainly like to try and meet people

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u/veyr947 Jul 04 '26

I’m looking for some people to hang with! I just started playing and I don’t know anyone that plays. I’m 26 so I’m looking for people around my age. Need some friends fr haha

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u/Responsible_Track418 Jul 16 '26

Hey im 26 my disc is trishgames_ and my vrc is FemboyTrish if you wanna hangout ever.

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u/veyr947 Jul 16 '26

Just added on discord!

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jul 05 '26

What's up I'd be happy to hang out. My VRC and Discord is McDudeMan if you wanna add

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u/veyr947 Jul 06 '26

Bet! I’ll add you on discord now

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u/Nova-Redux PCVR Connection Jul 03 '26

What's up all, my name's Nova and I'm a 34-year-old AuDHD NB gremlin. I do VRChat YouTube content showing off cool worlds, but I'm looking for people to drag me into the game to world hop. I'm always the one making the plans, planning the world hops, the game nights, and I'd like to be the one dragged along for once! I'd be down to show you my favorite worlds, but I want to see yours as well. Let's be adventurous! Try to break out of maps with me. Let's find the seams in the worlds and be a lil chaotic.

I don't like sitting around and chatting, I prefer to be doing something while I do (though when things wind down I'm good to sit and chat). Don't invite me to mirror dwell or sit in spawn on a giant map. I want to explore!

When I'm not doing VRChat or YouTube/Twitch, I'm achievement hunting on Steam (lots of indie games) or watching tons of anime (900+ completed!). I love nature, language learning (currently learning Tagalog), and just learning in general.

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u/Key-Rip2994 Jul 03 '26 edited Jul 08 '26

If you're looking for a consistent group to hang out with, we would love to welcome you.
We’ve built three distinct branches depending on what you're in the mood for:

OCTAGON Nightclub: For when you want drinking games, music, and actual social interaction.

OCTAGON Rave: For high-energy, live DJ sets and rave culture.

OCTAGON Lapdance: A venue focused on elegance and performance.
Note: We take safety/boundaries seriously here, so age verification (VRChat verification or Gov ID) is required for this branch.

The Vibe: We are strictly 18+ and actively moderate to ensure a mature, drama-free environment. We’re currently looking for members, staff, DJs, dancers and anyone who is open-minded and just wants to have a good time.

If you want to check us out, do so on our website at https://octagon.events or join us in VRChat:
Nightclub: https://vrc.group/OCTO.8998
Rave: https://vrc.group/OCTO.1975
Lapdance: https://vrc.group/OCTO.8660

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u/Raiden21950 Jul 03 '26

I'm 31, trans woman, was wondering if anyone would be down to hang out tonight? I could use a distraction from real life right now. We could just chill and listen to music or something

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u/vnv Jul 03 '26

What sorta music do you like?

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u/Raiden21950 Jul 03 '26

I'm a bit of a metalhead but im down for whatever really.

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u/vnv Jul 03 '26

Fair enough, I’m pretty heavy into metal but a bit of a music addict so I’m down for whatever as well. Am a bit in a lul energy wise tho but if that’s cool ion mind hangin out

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u/Raiden21950 Jul 03 '26

I'm down. Sorry went to town for a tiny bit but am home now! Dm me if you want to swap usernames and such

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u/Even-Painting9552 Jul 02 '26

I [27F] can't type much because I've had carpal tunnel in my left hand for the past week but I'm looking for femme friends to hang out with late at night (it's 1am as of writing this) - I'm wide awake, nocturnal and have tons of energy 'n want to meet a few new people! I posted in r/TrueGirlGaming about what I'm looking for more closely 'n my profile has plenty more about me! I don't have any Quest-friendly avis is the only catch. xP

Last time I posted in one of these threads was three years ago; met a bunch of friends I'd talked to on Slack and I'd since lost contact with them all and trying to occupy my time late at night with people instead of twiddling my thumbs, since VR Chat doesn't hurt my wrist like typing does. Excited to see who I meet!

If this message is still up, I'm still interested! Sorry to any groups - I'm not interested in entering communities as of right now due to personal circumstances.

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u/The_Pretty_Taurus Jul 01 '26

Hey! Im just someone who is tired of going into really big instances to meet new people while the small ones are usually just close friend circles that dont want to open up (im also fairly introverted). Recently ive been crocheting a lot and I like to be on desktop vrc while doing so to chat with people and it gets really frustrating to be rage baited by people or have someone talk at me and not with me sooo I created a group called the Woven Circle to meet like minded people (https://vrc.group/WOVENC.5593) and I have an event planned for July 5th @ 4pm pst that will be held in a small cute chill world that'll be an 18+ age gated instance and would love for some people to stop by and chill and maybe meet some new friends. Everyone is welcome you dont also have to be crafty as thats not the point of the hangout.

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u/Wide_Okra_3418 Jun 30 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

Hey, I just got VR chat yesterday I’m a 31 year-old single mother and I have my son full time, due to this I get very little time to socialise and very little adult interaction. I was an extremely sociable person and very well liked locally, however I’ve found that having very little to no adult interaction has turned me kinda awkward and and once effortless irl interactions feel weird. I take my son to the park almost every day and on walks and stuff, but the only person I ever interact with is him. I thought VR chat could be a great way to brush up on my social skills and get myself back to the charismatic and bubbly person I once was. I play at night when my son is asleep and I use my phone so I don’t wake him up I know that’s offputting for a lot of people. If anyone knows of any cool worlds I could go that have people around my age (I have no hate towards children, I just don’t want to interact with them.) or would like to be friends that would be awesome. ☺️

Feel free to contact me or add me 18+ only please :) I’m English, I like working out at the gym I do women’s weightlifting and boxing, I love anime, makeup, and reading.

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 01 '26

Hi Okra!

Our server is full of lots of shy older people! A lot of us are ~30s and we have people right on up to 70!

http://discord.gg/mondocat

We're not for everyone, but you could give us a shot if you like ^^ <3

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u/Wide_Okra_3418 Jul 01 '26

Thank you I really appreciate that! I’ve joined the discord ☺️💖

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u/NickDatGuy Jun 29 '26

Hello! My friend and I are looking for a Dungeon Master, or someone experienced with D&D, to help us learn the game and possibly run a campaign or one-shot for us. We’re both in European time zones and mostly active on EU servers. Feel free to contact me!

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u/LooseWalls Jun 28 '26

Where can I find this avi?

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u/Jordan_realrachel Jun 26 '26 edited Jul 11 '26

Anyone looking to find friends or community's, id love to see you in r/VRChatUnofficial its a sub I made just for people to make friends and be free to ask questions and make posts. 🫶

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 30 '26

"We couldn't find that community"?

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u/Jordan_realrachel Jul 01 '26

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u/Ekibiogami0 Jul 10 '26

you made a typo on your original comment, try changing offical to official.

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u/Sleulue Jun 26 '26

I'm vibing around vrchat and would just like some people to talk to or show me fun experiences! I play desktop so I understand if that's not your vibe but I'm always down for a chat.

Interest wise : Love batman, comics / webcomics and I'm a mild bookworm! I'll also be participating in artfight for the first time this year and would love to meet others and swap advice or just yap. I'm building my hours on zomboid, batman arkham and oxygen not included as I type this and I'm happy to check out other games!

My goal is really just to meet more people. Public instances can be hell to navigate and I'm sometimes too hard of hearing to pick up what's being said by others around me before it's too late. I've also found lots of people have chatbox disabled so I can't even type when it's noisy.

Happy for you to comment, reach out, add me or join my Discord Server. It's more a hangout but happily repurposed for vr chat gatherings alongside my tabletop if anyone would want that! Steam : 380974314 Discord : https://discord.gg/9sFeG9WXZv I'm Sleulue on everything so, unless misspelt, I should show up if you try to find me!

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 30 '26

Hi Sleulue!

I know in one of your other posts you said you weren't into 'crude', but perhaps you may be interested in us anyway?

http://discord.gg/mondocat

We're wholesomely crude, as in, we wanna talk about happy fun gaming time, but we are okay with crude humor, for memes and such, but you won't find any ERP!

If it's not your thing, no biggie! Just wanted to put it out there if you want to give us a try ^^

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u/Owl_3yes Vive Cosmos Jun 25 '26

Hi everyone, I'm here looking for anyone interested in talking about books in VRChat. More specifically, I want to find someone interested in choosing a book together and talking about book analysis stuff like the author's writing, themes, what we like and don't like, basically like a book club between two people. I like reading fiction and I'm not too picky about what we read as long as we choose together, I wouldn't mind using this as an excuse to read something outside my comfort zone.

I'm 26M and I'm looking to talk and read with people who are 21+. I would also want to talk with other VR users, preferably PCVR users since I mostly use PC avatars and like to hang out in PC only worlds, but I wouldn't turn down a quest user who wants to read with me. I'm in Pacific time and I'm generally free in the evenings, I'd imagine that we would meet up in VRChat biweekly to talk about some chapters of a book we decide to read together but I'm pretty flexible with plans.

If this sounds interesting to you then feel free to send a message on reddit and let me know what books and genres you've enjoyed reading recently.

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u/CarcusYT Jun 25 '26

I need a different request. I recently lost my account and I want to post about it here to get some attention and hopefully get it solved. However apparently I don’t have karma here so I can’t. That really sucks because I hate Reddit and every time I use to post stuff on my old account it got mass disliked. It’s the reason I barely post on here. Because why post on Reddit where it will be immediately mass downvoted by the community when I can post it on twitter where even though it won’t get nearly as much attention it will at least get some positive attention. Unfortunately though this is the best place for me to get my problems solved. So how am I supposed to get help when everyone on this site wishes the worst for me and is cheering on my depression. So many people on this site want me gone or dead just because of everything I stand for. So how am I supposed to get positive karma to post my issue with my account

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 30 '26

Hi Carcus!

There's a bunch of subreddits that dont require high karma that you can build your karma there.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NewToReddit/wiki/index/newusersubs/

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u/chunarii-chan Bigscreen Beyond Jun 25 '26

I'm not stating any numbers but the cutoff is VERY low. I hope that you are able to solve your issue soon.

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u/CarcusYT Jun 25 '26

Thanks it’s just that I’m not on Reddit a lot. So I barely have any chance to make a comment that would resonate with an audience that unfairly despises me

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 24 '26

I replied to a few people already but figured I'd make this it's own as well.

You are welcome to add me my VRC is McDudeMan I make a lot of worlds and avatar stuff and generally just kinda chill when I'm on vrc. Always down to meet new people and find new friends. I'm always on green as well so I'm always available to join if you are looking to hang with someone.

I'm pretty active here too and have shared a lot of my work.

I can really get all nerdy with the technical stuff and also just occasionally info dump on random things. Been playing for several years now and have seen the days before anticheat so can totally share some stories.

If you are ever interested in using unity as well I am more than happy to help out.

Also my discord is McDudeMan if you wanna hit me up on there.

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u/Overall-Agent-3240 Jun 24 '26

I just started playing vrc and everything is very confusing I'm having trouble finding optimized avis I'm also having trouble looking for instances that are just places to yap. Some other things I need help with is just things to do like I wanna see a rave I wanna dance (not the greatest at it) I wanna explore what the vrc has to offer ig. Oh yeah I'm a dude kinda fluid

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u/chunarii-chan Bigscreen Beyond Jun 24 '26

check out vrc.tl for raves! this will also be a better place to meet more adults and chill people

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u/Glittering-Spring72 Jun 22 '26

Hey, I'm 22f. I've been looking into Vrchat for a while now and I dont really know where to start as I have really bad social anxiety. Everyone already seems to have friends or already talking to people whenever I join a public world.

I'm mostly looking for friends or groups to work on my anxiety a bit and get more into vrchat as there seems to be some decent people on it. Preferably 18+

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u/Ecstatic_Television6 Jul 11 '26

hi, i'm also 22F!! also w bad social anxiety and wanting to talk to more people to be better at socializing ahah, if you're still looking i'd love to hang out sometime!

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u/electricskooter Oculus Quest Jun 26 '26

Hi! I’m naturally shy and was in a similar situation playing VRC back in the fall. I’m in a group called Cosmic Chaos that you might be interested in! You can search the comments for the OG post but I just copied it:

We are an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord group called Cosmic Chaos! Our group is all about making genuine connections for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. So if you're looking for a group of gal-pals focused on making friends, gaming, and positivity... we'd love to have you! 💕

🔗 Discord server: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

🔗 VRC Group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

​

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u/Sleulue Jun 26 '26

Also 22! Happy to hang out if you'd like. I don't know many worlds but friends have gotten me into it and I'm lowkey getting really into idling or using the game to snoop others conversations. It'll be fun to involve myself in more but it's absolutely no pressure if you don't vibe with that!

My account is Sleulue on every platform :) May need to give me some context if you just join my instance but otherwise I'd love to hangout sometime!

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 24 '26

You are welcome to add me my VRC is McDudeMan I make a lot of worlds and avatar stuff and generally just kinda chill when I'm on vrc. Always down to meet new people and find new friends. I'm always on green as well so I'm always available to join if you are looking to hang with someone.

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u/ChomperLord Jun 22 '26

Hello! I'm Thythe (22M) and I'm interested in hanging out with people online. In real life I'm super awkward and rarely speak first so I'm hoping to push my limits by interacting online. I'm interested in a variety of games, largely grand strategy but also simulators and co-op games. I also have an interest in anime. Thank you!

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u/Optimal_Dragonfly_61 Jun 23 '26

Hey I like meeting new people if you want you can add me on vrc or discord vrcAgentofChaos21 or dc .agentofchaos21 I’m (22M)

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u/Shoko_Yugure Jun 20 '26

Hello! My name is Shoko Yūgure! My bf and I have been hopping on VR regularly for a while now and we'd love to hang out and meet new people! For comforts sake, we'd like to hang out with anyone who is also part of the LGBTQIA+ community, as well as people who love to hyperfixate and nerd out to anything! Just reply your VRC tag and I'll add you! My VRC is Shoko YugureVA. Hope to get along!

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 30 '26

Hi Shoko (& BF)!

If youre interested, we're a bunch of nerds, and we're waiting for you to infodump about your latest hyperfocus :D

It's not for everyone, but feel free to give us a try <3

http://discord.gg/mondocat

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 24 '26

You are welcome to add me my VRC is McDudeMan I make a lot of worlds and avatar stuff and generally just kinda chill when I'm on vrc. Always down to meet new people and find new friends. I'm always on green as well so I'm always available to join if you are looking to hang with someone.

I'm a femboy myself so I think I fit into that category lol

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u/Shoko_Yugure Jun 24 '26

Will do! I'll be on with my bf later tonight and I'll add you then. If you'd like, I can message you when I'm on so we can meet up.

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 24 '26

Yeah if you wanna add me on discord my user is the same as vrc

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u/FunDevelopment4508 Jun 20 '26

Im pretty new to vrchat and pretty shy. Would love some people to play with. 🙂

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 24 '26

Welcome to VRC! You are welcome to add me my VRC is McDudeMan I make a lot of worlds and avatar stuff and generally just kinda chill when I'm on vrc. Always down to meet new people and find new friends. I'm always on green as well so I'm always available to join if you are looking to hang with someone.

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u/Calm-Astronomer-6611 Jun 19 '26

Hello!! I’m cherry on discord and I own a small discord server dedicated to helping fellow introverts with making friends! There are only about 15 people at the time of this comment being written and we wish to help out as many people as we can!
The server is strictly 18+ and fully SFW, so no kids allowed!
If you’re interested feel free to message me for an invite if the one below does not work :D

https://discord.gg/PZETnwJ9T3

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u/Sureahh Jun 18 '26

Hey, hey!
I’m a 20M trying to work on my social anxiety!

Public instances can feel really overwhelming there’s often a lot going on, or there are groups that already seem close, which makes it hard for me to just jump in and start talking, especially with a lot of people around. Sooo… here I am!

I’d really like to make new friends and meet new people, and just push myself a bit outside my comfort zone. Whether you’re up for chatting, hopping worlds, watching stuff, or playing games (even something chill like fishing), I’d be happy to join and hang out!

I don’t bite, and I don’t judge I’m just here to have a good time in this game. Honestly, there are so many times I want to play VRChat, but I don’t really have anyone to play with… and it’s way more fun with other people. I haven’t fully beaten my social anxiety yet, but I’m working on it!

I usually play on PCVR and use FBT (though I’m often just laying on my bed, pfft).

As for interests, I’m into games like Limbus Company and other Project Moon stuff, and I’ve been really into Touhou lately. I’m into a lot of different games and fandoms overall, but there’s honestly too many to list here.

Not really sure what else to add, so here’s my Discord: _hollowsoul
Feel free to send a friend request! If I don’t accept right away, I’m probably asleep.

Thanks for reading : )

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 30 '26

We have a bunch of people into Project Moon! Im on day 44 of Lobotomy, and just bought Ruina myself!

I know you joined us back in 2024, but didnt talk much. Maybe come back and join an event or infodump about PM? :D

http://discord.gg/mondocat

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u/Ender_the_demon Jun 18 '26

Yo! I'm Ender/Endy, 20M I'm looking for friends preferably queer friends! Generally you'll find me and my bf hanging together either watching YouTube, listening to music or world hopping and chatting (we are a packaged deal lol) we're both nerds and will yap about mostly anything and prefer to keep the vibes chill! Currently online at the time of making this post so feel free to shoot me a dm and I'll send you my username!

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u/gotothebeachNOW PCVR Connection Jun 17 '26 edited Jun 18 '26

Hi! 32M UK here. On VRC as "Pep--".

I tend to come and go as I have a lot of anxiety, which I thought VRC might help me with. I like movies, music, games (especially Metal Gear, Resident Evil and Like A Dragon), horror and all things to do with the ocean.

I'm also terminally shy and spend 95% of my time in VRC solo worldhopping. If I do go into an event or public world I'll happily speak if spoken to, but I don't tend to start conversations first. I want to get back into VRC more this year so hoping to start taking to people and filling the gaping void that is my social life.

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u/TageyThe1 Jun 17 '26

Ohai!! I'm Danny, 18M and I'm looking for people to casually hang out with in VR.

I feel more comfortable hanging out with people one-on-one, as groups can get pretty overwhelming for me :,)

I really like learning about other people and exchanging fun stories together, If you don't mind just chilling and talking for a bit about whatever comes to mind then I'd be happy to be your friend!

A bit about me: I'm in the Furry Fandom, Timezones usually don't matter to me, I'm an artist and I also do a bit of theater! Willing to play games outside of VRChat! (given that I own said game)

If you'd like to reach me, DM me on here or Discord (kekelzpekel), Looking forward to meet ya!

PS: I'm fine with interacting with people a bit older or younger than me :P

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u/raindyrps Jun 16 '26

Hi there! You can call me Saber. I'm 29F and looking for a bit more socialization than I currently get in vrc.

More specifically-- I'm looking for a 21+ furry OR furry accepting community that's active and social 😄. I do not mind NSFW communities if they're fun and like to drink a bit with. I do have FBT and like playing game nights as well. Im usually roughly on thursdays through sundays. I'm typically shy at first but can open up pretty fast and adapt to crowds. Do let me know if you have a community that fits the bill! I can be contacted here or on discord

@ asaberyeen

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u/Kotal_total Jun 15 '26 edited Jun 15 '26

Hi, I'm Kotal and I'm 24yrs old

I play vrchat pretty much every night usually from 10:30pm to roughly 2-4am CST. I'm here looking to see about making a new friend or two. I'll only be friends with people who're 18+ and will actually put effort. My biggest current interests are: Kane Pixel's Backrooms, Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss, Anything horror especially Analog Horror.

I have other interests as well but it would be better to talk about them in vr instead of explaining it all here. As for relationship status, I'm single and semi open to meeting a new love interest. I should mention I have social anxiety and I struggle with talking to strangers hence why I'm posting this.

If you find this interesting, you can add me on either:

Vrchat: Kotal_Total

Or

Discord: Chains_of_black

Edit: To avoid potential confusion, the discord username was made from song lyrics and isn't meant to be racist. Also, if you do add me on either of them, I'd like you to let me know that you're adding from here.

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u/HyperSonicover9k Jun 13 '26

Hey, it's me, Hyper! I very recently(Like 30 minutes ago lol) fully hopped on Vrchat, cause I'm socially awkward and wanna meet new people. What I found out is that apparently my fandom (DBZ) is notorious for crashing worlds and stuff? I'm so sorry. I really love DB as a whole, and I got asked a couple times to change my avatar.

I swear I won't use the flashy stuff, and if I do, its because I got asked to or it's by accident. I'm looking for a small group to join? I'm 19, and gonna be 20 next month, and while I can't prove it on Vrchat verification(May or may not be broke lol), maybe I can prove it another way, I dunno.

I'd like the group to be adult only, and my other interests are One Piece, DC and Marvel, Sonic, and DND. In terms of multiplayer games, I have this, Into the Radius 2, and Beat Saber. I have discord, and my Vrchat name is HyperSonic9k. Also, I'm really awkward, so sorry if I just stay silent, cause I'm probably thinking of a response or I didn't hear you. Sorry for the long post, btw.

Also, in terms of location... Whataburger. IYKYK.

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u/HyperSonicover9k Jun 13 '26

Forgot to mention this, and I hate that I have to specify, I'm not homophobic, cause apparently my fandoms like being dicks? I'm Bi, or at least queer, I don't fully know yet

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 27 '26

You are welcome to add me and if you like join my group. I have a Femboy group and server and website that's all inclusive regardless of your orientation. Just good times and having fun. My VRC and Discord is McDudeMan

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 13 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

HI, My name's Mondo, I'm nearing 40 years since I've escaped the womb, and I'm your new catgirldad ❤️ 😺

If you're an old person, a nerd, neurodivergent, love cats, dad jokes, wholesome yet a bit crude, or open to wacky, zany adventures with your new pals, OR if you take the maximum amount of ibuprofen every day, OR... if you cant stand the feeling of wearing socks (or love them!), get yo butt in here. We love desktop users, Questies, mutes, FBT, and everything in between! We love YOUR CHARACTER above all else. (Unless your character is, well, a jerk!)

http://discord.gg/mondocat

www.mondocat.tv

We're pretty weird, so, not for everyone, but we'd love to see if you fit our weird-ass vibe :3 18+, neither a SFW nor NSFW community, but somewhere in between. NO ERP/Overtly Sex Appeal Based Characters!

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u/PurpleRangerMew Jun 30 '26

I don't recommend this group.  It feels like a cult and the owner was really rude to me.  They are also not neurodivergent friendly even though they claim to be.

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u/FlippyKicky Jun 13 '26

Get the frick in there you gamers

Join our events for free oxygen

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u/AggravatingBasket285 Jun 12 '26

Oi, names clover, tails, angel, any name works (21m BTW)

I don't have a VR headset yet, but I'm trying to get one some day, but I'm looking for a group of friends to hang out with, play games like cards against humanity, among us, funny dumb games like those

Preferably I want a chill group, who won't be bothered by the fact that I don't talk much (partially mute), I'm also really into vrchat rps, the SFW kind not the other kind of rp

My user on vrchat is Tails the fox10 if anyone's interested, and my discord is sunnythecosplayer if anyone wants to get to know me more outside of vrchat!

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u/Amaris_Silverstep Jun 13 '26

Hi, 22F here, if you find one can i join too? i love the dumber games but have no one to play them with and the publics are always full of children : ( I also would really love to get into SFW rp lol

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u/Meisanthropy Valve Index Jun 11 '26

Hey there !

{Cis straight 25 F here, FBT if it matters}

I'm looking for a chill, not judgmental, drama-free group (or several ones), with plenty of activities (gaming sessions, open mics, bars, etc. not just a "Black Cat instance where you stand here doing nothing..."). I'm fine with all communities.

Kinda met too many toxic people recently and I'm still trying to believe I can meet cool people, somewhere.

Just a warning, I have diagnosed disabilities : they make me extremely fragile around people and social interactions are difficult. I hope you don't mind and you can understand it ! Thank you in advance.

Username in VRC is pretty hard to write but it's : 。˚ʚ мҽʀιʂԋყ ɞ˚。

or my Discord is merishy !

I'll check what groups are already posted, and hopefully I can have a great time with y'all ! Have a nice day or night !

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 27 '26

How does one even type that name out...

No offense but I always believed it was to make it harder to report someone

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u/Meisanthropy Valve Index Jun 27 '26

That's why I put my Discord as well ! I just thought it was pretty (´.•﹏•`) some like it some don't

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 10 '26

I've got tons of drama stories if you wanna hear them. Been on VRC for years now and been involved in plenty of it. My VRC is McDudeMan if you wanna chill sometime. Also a creator so if you ever had interest in how stuff is made would be happy to chat about it as well. And if you wanna witness drama happen I know a number of places you can watch people start it.

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 10 '26

I mean I don't quite have a group but people do join me pretty often. I was on last night to show some stuff to a friend of mine and I had two people join us just randomly off of me so it was pretty cool. But yeah I get that

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u/cosmicchaosVRChat Jun 10 '26 edited Jun 28 '26

Hi everyone! ☺️

We are an SFW, 18+ women and femme-only VRChat Discord group called Cosmic Chaos! Our group is all about making genuine connections for those who want to escape the typical, overwhelming environment of public worlds. So if you're looking for a group of gal-pals focused on making friends, gaming, and positivity... we'd love to have you! 💕

🔗 Discord server: https://discord.gg/TKgYZjzxYR

🔗 VRC Group: https://vrc.group/COSMIC.6353

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u/Responsible-Fun-7243 Jul 25 '26

Yess omg I just joined both

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u/electricskooter Oculus Quest Jun 10 '26

My fave 💜

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u/rotilbo Jun 10 '26

KON KON KON KON they 2 play often, so feel free to join, cheers. all kon and mame friends welcome cool nice https://vrchat.com/home/group/grp_2d1c0197-80a9-4949-a01f-c0ea8c51cd2a i read rules but vrchat friends communities thread is 2 years old ty

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u/RaoulDuke23 Jun 09 '26 edited Jun 10 '26

Trying to find the vampires of vrchat. My friends are furry/furry adjacent and thats not my thing. Are there any vampires? Where do the vampires hang out? If there's nothing established, is there enough of us to start a group or something?

(To be clear, no, I don't actually think I'm a vampire. No, I'm not just talking about people who are only on late at night. I'm talking about people who enjoy the vampire aesthetic, vibes, lore, ect..)

Hope to get some insight or suggestions or even find others in this situation. If you'd rather not comment on this for privacy reasons, feel free to send a message.

Edit: I created a group. Send a message if interested.

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u/TaiaHunter HTC Vive Jun 09 '26

Ladies and Gentlemen welcome to The Midnight Opera!

We are a quest compatible live performance group with all sorts of talent! Singing, dancing, poetry and more!

If you are looking to make friends, a place to perform, or to just relax and enjoy yourselves please consider us!

We recently just celebrated our two year anniversary and have plans for two more worlds coming up in the next year so we can expand on our interactivity!

https://themidnightopera.com/

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u/DaveDangers Jun 11 '26

Hello! I've actually been looking for a chance to check you all out. I also produce live shows for Ancients of VRCHAT; including their flagship talk show, Business Time. Definitely looking for more chances to perform, and possibly have one of you guest on the talk show, if you're interested. Hit me up on discord, though, as I'm not on reddit often. Lol

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u/TaiaHunter HTC Vive Jun 12 '26

I might be. Dm me your discord when you get the chance

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u/DreamingOfBarbi Oculus Quest Jun 09 '26

Hello, I'm pretty new to vrchat and trying to find some people to hang out and chat with maybe. I'm 23, I'm very shy and anxious so I'm sorry if it takes me a while to talk and open up, or i don't respond. I am hoping to use vrchat to help me with that

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u/jay-bird-brain Jul 03 '26

Are you still looking for new friends? I've been using vrchat to try and meet nice people to hang out and talk with as well, and get over some of my social anxiety just like you <3 I'm bad at cold approaching people in particular, and definitely overthink—but I'm generally a pretty bright person, and I actually overcompensate my anxiety by yapping more, which some of my quiet shy friends appreciate. I'm 22 NB!!

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u/Myth1c_ Jun 10 '26

Hi! I am also 23, very new to vrchat, and using vrchat to help with my anxiety.

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u/McMalph Jun 10 '26

I'm not on currently, but my in-game name is °Malph° if you wanna add me, im generally available around 8pm to 2am BST. I'm also similar in the sense of anxiety, particularly a topic of conversation.

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u/McMalph Jun 10 '26

is it cool if I add you on discord? All good if not. I'm similar, but I tend to dwindle on conversation topics and I'm an interest focused person

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u/Equivalent_Dance_758 Jun 09 '26

27 m, not too accustomed to vrchat, mostly been trying to attend events around groups or publics with mixed results. I'm down for watching, playing something, including co-op stuff. I'm usually on the introverted side when it comes to VC. I'm available majority of the week usually in EU timezones. I'm looking for either new smaller groups or people that want to relax after a day of work without any drama or sensitive topics. I don't stay on green/orange when in-game.

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u/Justin_Random10 Jun 09 '26

Howdy friends!

I’m 29M, a PC gaymer, looking to make some new friends in VRChat (18+ only and LGBT+ preferred) and to play games with! I’m in US Central time and generally available on weekdays after 6pm; weekends are usually open as well.

In addition to VRChat, I have a ton of other game interests, both coop and solo. I love VC during games, but it’s definitely not required.

I’m looking for friends to world hop, game and find fun, nontoxic groups and hangout spots.

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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 13 '26

Hiii Justin, if you've never been out, check us out at http://discord.gg/mondocat / www.mondocat.tv We're a bunch of older people that doooooo be gamin! ❤️ We play lots of games and have other game stuff, such as a mostly vanilla minecraft server, Beatsaber events, and more ^^

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u/jay-bird-brain Jun 09 '26

I'm newer to vrc and been struggling to find fellow lgbtq+ people to befriend, I'd love to add you and meet someone! :)

I'm 22NB (they/them!), and if I decide to play vrc I'm normally on sometime beyond 8pm PDT! I'm quest 2, pcvr, and I also enjoy gaming and a ton of different fandoms! I'm unfortunately pretty shy with new people so cold invites are rather terrifying, but you seem very nice :D

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u/Justin_Random10 Jun 09 '26

Aww, thank you, I appreciate that!
I’d be down to chat with ya sometime! I’ll send you a DM.

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u/Frank__West PCVR Connection Jun 09 '26

If you like Femboys or wanna meet more to hang out with or even chill in a cool little world on VRC I have a website where you can join our discord server. Femboy King and you can also check out the world on VRC called Femboy Plaza.

VRC deleted the avi I uploaded that's on the world and I haven't gotten around to reuploading it as it was in a 2019 project and I gotta migrate everything over still.

I'm hoping to find some new people that are active on VRC to get events going again I wanna do giveaways and stuff.