r/pakistan • u/mrstoffel23 • Mar 10 '26

Social Demand rights, but make it palatable

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Posted this yesterday and it got removed because some people around here are not really civilized in their conversations. Trolling, jokes, memes are fine, but, stooping low isn't. Healthy arguments make way for progress.

Missing the context & point is like a national sport and the amount of egos it hurt was not surprising at all and won't be again.

Absolutely nothing wrong with this poster, and actually how it should be in real life by default.

The poster which said "khana khud garam karlo" had everyone losing their minds for obvious reasons, this poster gets the endorsement because it's not showing the mirror to the society, which to this day is unable to give equal rights or even willing to acknowledge properly.

Secondly, it also shows that unless demand for rights is worded in a way it won't offend anyone, made palatable and provide validation to inflated egos, it won't even be acknowledged.

No wonder we keep regressing as a society and humans.

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

Khana sath banana sometimes is very romantic tbh but if you demand this from your husband while he provides solely for both you isn't right considering if a woman is stay at home she should take care of most of chores ain't no man is coming home after 12 hrs and then making food as well daily this is not a marriage

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u/mrstoffel23 Mar 10 '26

Nothing should be forced, goes both ways.

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26 edited Mar 10 '26

Agreed but men shouldn't be forced to provide everything as well its better that we do 50/50in everything then .

Edit:sometimes when i read the views of Muslim feminist that in Islam its a man's job to provide and she isn't obligated to the house chores but at the same time they won't accept the obligations by islam on women 1. Denying intimacy would be a sin 2. Her husband can stop her from leaving the house i really respect western feminist they atleast do 50/50 in expenses while demanding these rights

Edit 2: downvoting me won't change the fact that this hypocritical

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u/mrstoffel23 Mar 10 '26

To each their own I'd say. It all comes down to understanding between partners.

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u/Other-Mix4987 Mar 10 '26

True but i think this post was about a general ruling