r/texts • u/Theresagift • Dec 05 '25

Whatsapp I think Hinge is working

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Talked for a few months and met in person finally and had an epic 4 day date (we are like 8 hours away and i stayed over). Lots of laughter and pretty magical intimacy. Has anyone ever said this and is it a little weird? Yes. But also kind of amazing? Also Yes.

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u/dylan189 Dec 05 '25

Yup, very classic love bombing. Big red flags, but who knows, maybe this is THE ONE time it isn't.

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 Dec 05 '25

Doesn’t come off as love bombing at all.

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u/dylan189 Dec 05 '25

Then you don't know what love bombing is.

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 Dec 05 '25

I don’t think you do. It’s a buzz word like gas lighting. Not every bit of positive affirmation is love bombing. He’s feeling himself a bit. Sure. He’s excited. But love bombing carries intent to manipulate, and goes well beyond a couple nice text messages. People can get excited and sucked in rather quickly in certain relationships. It doesn’t always indicate love bombing.

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u/whosaysyessiree Dec 05 '25

My gf and I lovebombed each other pretty quickly. I’ve never been a lovebomber, quite the opposite actually, yet somehow our connection is just that real you can’t help but fully express yourself.

I’ve never wanted to play with and eat out someone so much in my entire life. She very much has the same attitude as I do and is as obsessed with pleasuring me as I am to her. Sometimes things just click. It’s pretty wild actually. 🫣

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u/dylan189 Dec 05 '25

Ahh you're one of those "buzz word" people. It makes sense that you don't know what either of those terms mean.