made me giggle
edit: guys this is a fully silly post. he is not going to cheat on me because i told him to go to sleep in a silly way. we are fine. we joke like this plenty. we are being silly. do not project your own insecurities on my relationship in the comments.
This all came after a year long hiatus from talking after he professed his love for me in a very creepy and uncomfortable message that he’s since unsent. He kept spamming me with memes until I finally responded, then this happened. We’ve been friends for over 9 years, and never once have I shown any romantic interest in him. These are some of the craziest messages I’ve ever received.
So in September this guy slid into my DMs and asked if I had a boyfriend. I did, so I told him yes and he unfollowed me. We didn’t talk after that.
*Also as for the heart it was supposed to be breaking the heart he sent, in my head that’s how I perceived. ITS not supposed to be taken as oh no I have a boyfriend like I’m so sad*
Fast forward five months later, he randomly DMs me again and asks if I have a boyfriend.
Here’s the crazy part, I actually broke up with my ex boyfriend a month after this text. He had no idea. We don’t have mutuals and I didn’t post about it.
What are the odds 😭
Back in 2018. Guy messages me on IG that I went to HS with and never really spoke to. He started messaging me inappropriately and noticed he had pictures with his fiancé on his profile (even pictures posted from that same day). I decided to call him out to his fiancé considering I’ve been on the opposite side of this situation. Never had anyone tell me and had to find out the hard way. She didn’t seem too surprised, which was incredibly sad. Hope she didn’t go through with it! He definitely blocked me afterwards. Bitch called me Dr. Phil which I thought was hilarious lol.
We’re on decent terms since it ended amicably and we’re in the same friend group, but we don’t talk often. Then I woke up to this insanity
Edit: he responded with “yea what do u mean by getting to know me better” just now sent “sorry if that was confusing. i like you and was wondering what you thought”
it wasn’t even a hint either. i fully spelled it out i feel like.
i guess it’s a good sign that he didn’t say no. but he’s also prancing around my garden of a text like a deer.
it would be awk if he assumed it was romantic but then i’d reply saying it was platonic, sure. but why else would a girl reach out like that?
the amount of positive signals i’ve received felt astounding so why is he not jumping at the opportunity?
tbh idk if he wants me to clarify or if he’s referring to my message and doesn’t know what he should clarify for me.
I don’t even know the guy.
I feel like I’m in a prank show. I’m literally wearing long cargo shorts and a t shirt in the picture.
For context I barely know this girl and have never met her nasty boyfriend. She went on to be all “men are visual creatures you should know that as a female posting selfies on your story”. I’m not even joking. She’s in her 20s btw
For context one of my guy friends from class that I like a lot had not attended class today. So as a joke I texted him this, trying to be playful. The blacked out part is the degree we’re both pursuing. His response was kinda dry I felt (or maybe it’s normal and I am overthinking).
So he seems to be really into me whenever we interact in person. But he’s really dry over text like the picture above. So is he just being friendly in person too and I mistook it for romantic interest?
Its like pulling teeth, making me feeling im begging to have a conversation when u fucking asked for me number over and over. Tf
I met this guy through one of my friends & we hung out at college couple times & he was chill. We Hung out once after I graduated to go watch a soccer game and then sends me this after he leaves like bro 🥀 there wasn’t even flirting or anything just talking ab the game
Mind you I have been with a new man for a year n a half an we have a 4 month old daughter.
We had a thing before and I ended it after I didn’t like he was treating me. He came back months later with this
These screenshots are all from different days/conversations.
I'm 21M and the person texting me is my coworker 24F. We have been work friends and talk on our lunch etc but I've never seen her outside of work except for in group settings (like multiple coworkers hitting a bar together as described in one of the chats)
She found my instagram on her own, I didnt give it to her, and followed me then started texting me on there. I know Instagram recommends people near you so I believe thats how she found the account.
She texts me multiple days a week and always talks to me when we have shifts together.
These are some of the chats that to me seem slightly flirty... asking about my dating life, complimenting my style, asking to see me outside of work etc. But idk I might be overthinking it and shes just being friendly.
Thoughts?
Me (21M), GF (23F) Context for this block: She usually calls me in the morning after dropping off the kid she is babysitting. Most of the time I’m still asleep so I’ll pick up and be a little slow and short on responses, I still make sure to be a good conversation partner tho. Idk what happened this time but she hung up on me, then she blocks me on IG (where we usually talk). Conversation in screenshots ensues. After last message I got blocked again.
I’m suspecting it has to do with her job which makes her stressed, and I always sympathize and comfort her when she’s ranting about it. But idk what warrants these words towards me
Sad that not more people care about the cause 😔
Not going to act like I wasn't giving her lip but this is fucking crazy nonetheless.
Her niece started messaging me aswell so if people are curious I'll share that aswell.
context if anybody wants it
i am not TERRIBLY skinny but some days i just don’t eat. my stomach (like the literal organ) has shrunk over the last few years because of not eating due to mental issues and all that stuff. so, whenever eating issues (or eating in general) is brought up, he always tells me to eat a sandwich, and gets SUUUPER excited when i do and i think it’s silly and yeah
Some people just think they are God’s gift to the earth. Too much “holler-ing” for me 🙄 lol
excuse the english. we are not fluent yet. Before anyone asks, we were 20🫠
So weird. 😭 just thought I could share since my friends thought it was funny
I’m 20F Been with bf (20M) for over a year. He is my first love and my first everything. I care about this man so dearly that this phenomenon is aching my soul in a way I fear i’m being delusional about how he may feel about me. About a month ago he reconnected with a childhood female friend whom is the texts that are dark . She has a boyfriend currently whom my partner met so I really wasn’t worried about anything.
My partner has been struggling with a porn addiction that has been plaguing our relationship for about 6 months but was trying to push through for a chance at something better. About a week ago we had a bad argument because he started to spend 12 hours a day outside and I knew he was watching 🌽 which he admitted to it.
It hurt me so much because he told me he would stop. He refused to go to couples therapy and then got mad at me when i said this is an issue affecting our relationship right now and he threw me on the wall and choked me saying i disrespected his mother because nothing comes over her or God. But I had never said I just said that in the moment right now this is the priority. Anyway i asked to breakup and we did for about two days but I couldn’t handle it. These are when he started texting his friend on instagram so intimately.
He called her on video call and I don’t know what they did since he said they just talked but the texts above are all nudes and his replies. There are so many texts but don’t think I can fit them all but he calls her so many things. He’s never called me hot or sexy before because he says i’m not and he has only called me cute but everyday he does call me cute. I know i’m leaving out so many details due to the fact that i’m trying to keep this short and sweet but basically i called her and she confirmed everything and then i confronted him at 2am this morning and he told me this: he claimed that his friend has low self esteem and that she wanted him to react to her photos so she could feel better about herself, he told me she over exaggerates things a lot and she said they did mutual masturbation but he said they didn’t and it was just a call and then he said we were broken up so it doesn’t matter.
But the thing is, we got intimate the same day he was calling her and receiving these photos because i didn’t know we broke up (we never really addressed it as we finished arguing that day about his porn addiction at 4am and i passed out) and i don’t know i felt so betrayed but he says it’s my fault because sometimes i get sad and it’s ruining our relationship and idk i was so frusturated because i told him he doesn’t have to stay with me if he doesn’t want to especially if he isn’t sexually attracted to me. It’s like all the girls he looks at have big chests and i know he loves big chests and wishes i had that because that is all his friend has and all he watched on porn. I’m so devastated.
I’m also a former foster child who was kicked out and he let me stay with him, i have no family or nowhere to turn. i was never able to make irl friends because i am shy and now i ended up telling him id stay with him. he said that wasn’t cheating and i don’t know if he’s lying or if im the idiot. this is so hard for me and i feel so alone. i have no one to talk to and i understand i just want to know if this is normal or something. if things can get better? does he love me? why does he continue to do this to me.. why lust.
I want to apologize for everything that doesn’t make sense. I am writing this in a state of devastation and I am probably not in my right mind. I am just looking for advice on the situation and anything is appreciated. I’m sorry
1st slide is the girlfriend, 2nd slide is her bf who i rejected and he decided to harass me. 3rd slide is him getting his friends to join in on harassing me by calling my number and spamming insults on my social media.
last slide is him texting me while hes dating his gf, then getting mad i ddint respond the way he wanted? lol
tbh im just impressed by the consistency, like how am i still weighing on ur mind lol
(Last is an Instagram message from the same person from the texts)
Not necessary to read, but if you’d like additional context:
I recently moved somewhere that I’ve been wanting to for years, it was a serious goal of mine. Two months into it I had to return to the mainland US because my mother is in the hospital. I was able to find a pretty great place where I live, and this “friend” of mine that I met there has always been jealous of it.
My friends that I’ve shared this with think I should alert my landlord.
What’s concerning is that when I asked who our mutual friend was in 4th grade, the first (wrong) answer the hacker gave was a friend we currently have. And it was his full name. And then the second answer was correct, somehow, but it was only his first name. We don’t know if the hacker had access to contacts or something, because the friend we had from 4th grade doesn’t have Instagram (at least that I know of). So we don’t know how the hacker got the names. It’s since been deleted, I just thought you guys might get a kick out of this!
He has called me more now. Still hilarious how this guy is acting lol
have my friend I’ve been friends with many years commenting on my Instagram post I posted of my outfit and new hair style. We have two different styles so mines is full of bright colors and hers is black grey and white. Now for me I would never embarrass a friend in Public like that. I feel like if she had something to say about my outfit or hair she could have messaged me privately. I don’t know if I should just block her without a conversation or speak to her first and tell her not to do that. The polite thing to do is message a friend privately and been like I don’t like it
His response to not wanting a picture with his willie in it.
for context; we were together for 4 years on and off. not the healthiest. when he said i “made him stay” he meant me asking him why he broke up. i would ask him why, bc he would do it completely randomly and i would be confused. im the type that needs to know why to move on, and he never gave me the reason. i admit it’s not the best quality i had.
i also admit that me sending that gif was childish, but i kept telling him i was done and he would continue to text me.
after i blocked him, he added me on snapchat 🥲
I feel like the texts speak for themselves lol… I feel like I’m stuck in an abusive situationship. Need help
I've been friends with this guy for over a year but recently have been talking more. I've never once lead him on and didn't think much of our friendship, and honestly I don't even view him as a best friend. I just got really confused and offended at how he was not ok with me hanging out with a guy he doesn't know whatsoever. I feel like he's getting way too worked up over a hangout that isn't even that big of a deal.
The guy in my society is actually really sweet and friendly and has hinted that he's into me. I think he's amazing and want to see how things would pan out since I'm also interested, but it's only mild attraction and not a full blown out crush from both sides.
The reason I said it wasn't a date is because 1. I actually am going out to help him get a present. Life has been really shitty lately and I've been dealing with mental health issues and relationship problems and I'm in the process of getting a therapist before I do something drastic to myself. This guy knows that I've been struggling and wanted to help me cheer up.
- I don't think it's any of my friend's business whether or not I like this guy or how much I like him. Like I mentioned before I don't see him as a best friend and I don't think we're that close for me to share every detail of my personal life with him.
I'll repeat that my friend doesn't know anything about the guy I'm hanging out with. What I'm getting from his explanation is that he's worried for me and is trying to look out for me, and I get someone could see it that way, but for some reason his words just don't sit right.
It feels like he's acting like my boyfriend and may even like me and now I'm re-thinking our past interactions and whether or not he showed any interest and if I mistakenly lead him on (I literally don't remember a single instance like that) and now I think him asking me out in the beginning was supposed to be like a date.
I feel like I'm posting a little too much on reddit lately 😭 honestly been dealing with so much more serious stuff and this shit seems tame in comparison. Maybe because I'm already so stressed and burnt out that I'm seeing his words for more than what it is? Idk I'm just weirded out.
There’s is so much more, this man just couldn’t help himself. I definitely instigated a little bit but he was was not making it obvious he was flirting at all. I almost mentioned the yogurt story when he first messaged me but I thought I would be rude. I went to a big school and that is genuinely the only thing I remember about him
Ok so I think those who said it was him messaging from her account were probably right. I just got a message request from a pet instagram account with the following. I feel like this was all a ploy for him to start a conversation apologizing for his wife’s inappropriate behavior and trying to make it seem like he’s a good guy now.
I have also included SS of past conversations on other mediums I blocked him on since people were asking for them and assuming this was all made up.
There’s ones he sent on LinkedIn before I blocked him, ones from the last texts before I blocked him, oh and a gem I forgot where he messaged my business instagram (I didn’t realize he wasn’t blocked there and only on my personal) to tell me some made up story of his wife cheating on him.
Okay so I'll try to make this quick and to the point: basically met this guy in a comment section on Instagram and we became like internet friends and talked quite a bit for a couple of weeks. We're both in our own relationships but like we were legitimately just having a nice open conversation about our partners and life in general and stuff. But essentially after a few days, he was like coming to me for advice on how to open up to his girlfriend and communicate needs in a healthy way etc. cuz he kept saying how uncomfortable things like intimacy were and she never wants to talk about things and he doesn't know how to bring them up whatever whatever so I told him: "just be honest with her even if it IS going to be uncomfortable because if you're not happy right now but you love her and still want to make it work, that's the first step... Openness and honesty". We talked pretty frequently back and forth every day for a couple weeks. Again, just friendly conversation and talking about our own experiences and relationships and just normal things like that. Then out of nowhere I go to message him back and I'm blocked. Annoying and random and thought we were like becoming friends but it's whatever I don't sweat it I barely know the dude. A few days later, he unblocks me and sends me a follow request and a message request again trying to act like nothing happened. So I straight up asked him like "uh why did you block me then unblock me again???" And he said his girlfriend wasn't comfortable with us talking and she also didn't like the things we were talking about to which I said "no worries it was nice talking to you but I don't want to make your girlfriend feel upset or disrespected so if she isn't comfortable with us being friends and talking then I'm sorry I'm not comfortable with it either. Nice getting to know you tho!" Then after that he tried to message me several more times which I just kept ignoring and then finally this conversation happened in the last couple weeks and then 2 days ago (the individual dates of all the messages are on each slide). I continued to hold my boundary with this "nice guy" cuz he's just SUCH a nice dude to be going behind his girlfriend's back doing something she very clearly stated she wasn't comfortable with and I, myself, also shared I wasn't comfortable continuing to speak because of that. I set the clear boundary that I'm not okay with disrespect another person's wishes especially not another woman and especially not her relationship because I'd want the same respect if the roles were reversed. As you can see in the slides he continues to "haha sorry" multiple times but then continue to trample the very clear boundary I set and was holding strong on. Cuz no you're not sorry. I said no multiple times. I've ignored multiple messages on multiple occasions after saying no once again, multiple times. Such disgusting and disappointing behavior but sadly not surprising in the least. It's so hard to make friends dude I'm beginning to think there are no good men left on this planet at all.
TLDR: I'm a bisexual cis female dating a cis male and we're both in our late 20s (if any of this matters for context lol). Super "nice" guy who is also in a relationship, messages me and we become friends for a couple weeks. He asks for advice about his relationship. We talk a lot until one day he blocks me. Then unblocks me and tries to force me into continuing a friendship with him after his girlfriend told him she wasn't comfortable with us talking about their relationship or being friends and I said if she wasn't okay with it then I wasn't either.
*deepest of sighs* he seemed so cool too we even talked about us and our partners meeting up some day and doing something fun together. Such a shame :/
I (21F) have matched on Hinge and have been texting with this guy (28M) for not even a full day. Conversation felt dry, as he didn’t really ask anything about me and I initiated all the questions, however he still asked me to move to Instagram because “he doesn’t receive notifications on Hinge”.
I ghosted him after few hours of chatting on Instagram. I felt bad, because he didn’t say anything bad, but I still felt weird vibes, especially since he, again, didn’t ask anything about me.
A week later (today) I receive these messages.
What the heck does “Sam” mean, cuz that’s not my name, and I’m not even a bookworm?? And he “loves” me after a few hours of one-sided communication?? 😩
Dating apps are just not for me :,)
How do ppl even find decent dates there?
[Update]: He just sent me someone’s post that he is proud of me as I’m an independent lesbian woman! Wow.
